Как справиться с трудностями в семье и на работе в all

не знаю как поступить разумнее...муж у меня постоянно обещает что то о чем я прошу сделает(только не известно когда)уходила 3раза и возвращалась обратно....прошу что бы бухал меньше , но его хватает на неделю и все по новой....постоянные скандалы и патасавки надоели.моя мама всеми руками и ногами за что бы я ушла от него.и так я на 19неделе и мы подали заявление в ЗАГС...с деньгами очень тяжело со стороны нет ни кокой помощи. кольца готовы но денег нет...еще в добавок он решил собрать родню типо вечер сделать но в наличии 10тысяч и все...как я не пыталась с ним разговаривать (как это делают нормальные люди)сесть поговорить определится что делать т.к роспись вот вот.по мимо этого куча проблем и долгов.и нафиг бы этот вечер не нужен был...прошу начать ремонт в детской комнате но по сей день (да.да сделаю)в итоге ничего и не намечается...за помощь в огороде это вообще ему не надо "а мне с тяпкой тяжело ,я 3раза лежала на сохранении, но походу всем плевать.)еще в последнее время я его вижу

Социальный инспектор приходит домой? Что делать?

К кому-то приходил домой социальный инспектор?) нам помощь ещё не начислили, недавно только оформили. Позвонил инспектор и сказал, что сегодня придёт)

пост эмоций: через неделю свекровь в отпуске! на 2 недели!! за чтооооооооооо? зачем им дают отпуска? почему их не заставляют работать постоянно и все выходные пока сыновья живут в их доме, чтоб способствовать отлипания от своих детей?! почему работодатели не заставляют их беря отпуск - уезжать к чертовой матери куда-нибудь отдыхать!? и вообще заставляли бы иметь ХОББИ!! … и типун вам, девочки, на все места кто меня с ней сравнит!! надеюсь я как своя мама буду во всем и в отношении к сыну!!

Пост нытья)) меня бесит!!!! Нет, прям вот сильно БЕСИИИИТ!!! Свекровь никак не участвует в подготовке к рождению внучки. Живет в др городе. Все тянем сами, мои родители тоже помогают. Его молчат и помощи никакой. Хотя сами знаете, какие сейчас цены. Плюс у нас ремонт идет, туда еще больше денег надо. Ну почему так? Почему мои родители последнюю копейку готовы нам отдать, а его даже на др не пришлют 1000 никогда. Не могу, прям обидно!!! Как поступить? Молчать?

I'm so pissed off since last night I didn't even sleep in my own bed cause my fiance told me that he will be going to Vegas for his birthday next month which I have a doctor appointment the day after he leaves the appointment we are suppose to find out what we are having! this is our second child hut he wasn't there for me like he should with our first born didn't go to not one appointment...anyways his bday is in march the end of March lol but he's going in Feb because his friend have no off days in march -wow- he at work I told not to text me at all... what yall think? yall think I have the right to be mad or am I overreacting? o yeah I also told him if I find out what I'm having I will not be telling him I will keep it to myself for as long as I can

my sister and nephew come over everyday. she basically invites herself. I don't mind the company but sometimes I want to be alone. they've been here since 10 this morning and now its almost 3.. I love my sister but she always has the saltiest attitude if she is told no. she asked me to watch my nephew for her and I told her no. I'm on bed rest and dealing with a 6 month old is not how I planned my day.. she'll slam doors and storm out and make me feel like shit for it. I feel like if I were to ask her to leave she'd just be a bitch about it and get offended but truly I just want to eat lunch and take a nap and maybe a shower.. I hate being in this predicament.

Мой начальник говорит что мне не место в компании, что я не развиваюсь и угрожает что я тут не буду работать.. Как можно быть таким мудаком... Если я принесу справку на облегченный труд он заткнется интересно?.. Печаль в общем

im about to turn into a little hoodrat.. playing around with my taxes.. i didnt know the govt gave u thousands for 1 kid lol.. i cant wait until next year

I don't understand why my mother claims she has to claim me on her taxes She no longer helps me financially and I'm 19 I hope she's not trying to play me

I'm soooo irritated right now bc I feel like I just wasted my time. So, I found an amazing babysitter(friend from HS) the only thing that I don't like is that she is charging me $10 an hour for watching my son. I got a job yesterday with the help of my friend at Molly Maids..she failed to tell me that we only get paid commission!! So working full time you only get paid $300 a week!! 😒 Hell noooo!! So let me remind you that I have a babysitter, she's charging me $10hr..that's $800 a week/biweekly! Wtf!? I can't do that...so I'm pissed bc I have to find another babysitter & I have to find another job bc I can't support myself & my son making $300 a week.

#Vent warning: 😠 How can you be so Ignorant to claim a kid on your taxes when you were told "no" after asking to? How could you be dumb enough to do that a 2nd time after getting in trouble with the IRS a few years back because we proved that that child does not live with you? my husband's ex is such a selfish ass, she barely sees her children in the first place and then has the nerve to claim one of her son's after my husband told her she couldn't. now our taxes are going to be delayed because we have to gather the documents proving that my step son lives with us. She doesn't pay child support or do hardly anything for her 2 kids. She talks to them like they're grown, tells them about all the adult business (things kids should not hear about) and is just is a huge pain in my ass! Forgive me ladies but I can't say this anywhere else but preggie. I love this app. ❤ #rantover

wow... so being up to date on your son now interferes with your job? god forbid you ask them if it's okay to take me to my appointments, wouldn't need you to if you didn't wreck MY fucking car! so I guess it's just me at my appointments from here on out. you won't take off a few hours early to take me to an appointment. DO NOT bother coming to the hospital for your son if I go into labor while you're at work. we wouldn't want you to lose your fucking job, now would we? I am extremely hurt right now..

Добрый вечер мамочки! Живем с родителями мужа. Вроде все хорошо. Но, я устала от его родителей😠 3 года сижу на декретном. Скоро собираюсь на новую работу. Она теперь мне мозг выносит. Сказала я ей что там хорошая зп. Уже 3 раза спросила, сколько там зарплата. Хотя скоро отдельно собираемся выходить. Ну, блять зачем ей моя зарплата?😤 Муж ее просил чтоб она мне помогла на эту работу устроиться. У нее есть возможности чтоб устроит меня. Но, она сказала типа не сможет. Я наоборот рада что она не помогла. Сама добилась цели. Долго шла к этой цели. Теперь мне говорить: " Все узнай, какие условии есть и конечно же опять про заплату говорить,в конце мне позвонишь и скажешь😠 Какого хера я должна перед ней отчитываться? 😈 Короче з.....а она меня. Вроде все написала, никому про это не могу говорить. Извините, просто у меня крик души.😔

Its getting really annoying, everytime i talk to ny mother In law, she has to remind me that she bought my childs crib. its getting to the point where im about to give her the $300 and tell her there now i bought it. and because her other son my brother in law can't get a better job and needs everything handed to him. she thinks we're the same way. no. i worked until i was almost 9 months and saved my money. and provide for my soon to be daughter.. unlike hus wife who quit at 6 weeks and now they're broke... 😒 sorry rant over...

well.. Alex is getting a second job.. 😢😢 I can't handle this. 40 hours a week should be enough to pay bills (he's making much more than minimum wage) but of course it's not. his employer always says "we help out anyone that needs it" except for us apparently.. they know we're struggling, that I'm pregnant, and they refer to us as "family" but won't allow him to have his GUARANTEED overtime back.. fuck is wrong with people.

so sad I talked to the immigration officer and since I have no way to prove I live in the us for 5 years they won't make my baby a us citizen they will just make her a permanent resident. It sucks I lived in the us from 7th to 11th grade but they only count it after 14 and you have to be there pretty much all the time. The other option is for her birth father to give up right over her and my boyfriend would become her adopted father but the p. of s. won't so I have to go to very expensive lawyers. :'( we are going into a financial hole. (just to clarify yes my boyfriend is Mexican but he was born and raised here his whole life)

so my husband asked his main boss yesterday about him taking off for when I have the baby.... his boss literally tells him that since he hasn't been there a year yet (he will be there a year in august) he doesn't get family time of leave, but if he wanted to be could fill out for vacation, BUT still get pointed and lose his job. like REALLY he wants to be there when our child is born can you not understand that!!! so needless to say he will be there when she is born but let's hope I have her on Friday (he works 12 hour shifts so he gets a 3 day weekend) so he only has to miss 1 day of work for when we come home. such shit!!!

Rant of the day.. My husbands best friends mom use to be my boss but totally ignored my existence after I quit (I got offered a better job). She always includes my hubby in rodeo weekends that they go to and makes sure to always buy him a weekend pass, it starts fights between us and I end up taking my dog to the lake camping with me and leave him and his dog at home. Well apparently she's now invited him over for supper. Like him being over there most week nights and some weekends isn't enough! And don't even include me, I grew up with both her kids, her daughter and I were best friends at one point. I've had it with that whole family. My husband gets mad when I say he's spending too much time over there, he's choosing them over his family and it's not just me. And now he's texting his friend's sister and he knows I don't want him talking to girls cause of things he's done in the past and he just won't listen to me, I feel like I don't mean anything to him anymore.. I have an appoint

sooo nylahs current daycare provider wants me to put down a 200$ deposit on MONDAY for a baby I'm not even due to have until fucking January! I'm so Damn pissed. call me crazy or naive but I think that's bull shit I shouldn't have to commit with a check this soon! she got 7 kids already is not like she should get anymore right now anyways! ugh I could just cry right now.

So pissed... So my boss (I'm a nanny) decided not to tell me she quit schooling and her job for the next 6 months and of course I'm due in a little under 4 months. Not to mention I was supposed to go to work on Monday! And she didn't tell me until I texted her asking if she goes in on Monday .... I have bent over backwards for that family so the least she could've done was let me know she was thinking about it so that I could look for other ways to earn money instead of possibly letting me know the night before I go in to tell me... So now I'm sitting here with no job and $1 to my name because she didn't let me know beforehand so I could have saved/ looked for another job to do

So vent.. my manager is awful. she's like 40 with no kids and acts like a fake highschool drama queen. I have continued to be respectful and nice all week even after she picked favorites and gave away four parties to her favorite that I should've gotten. Then I find out she was talking shit about ME and acting fake nice to my face. She acts like I'm dumb and makes comments.. I said that's one thing I always have trouble with.. and she said haha! one thing? try one of the many things. I just don't understand why people are so damn immature. She just has her favorites she talks shit to and if youre not one of them you get talked about. No matter how well you do your job, how respectful you are, how much you do for her. If your sick one day and call out and bring a doctors note she hates you for months. Maybe she just needs to have a kid and learn how to be responsible and patient. Not a damn bitch, excuse my language. ps I'm a waitress so maybe that's part of the problem.

at 34 almost 35 weeks...what are the chances of me getting a job...lol I know it sounds ridiculous, like ,nobody's gonna hire me for a month! that's how I feel...

sc child support is a joke I supposedly have been waiting on a default order for months now since hes never shown for court I'm just about to say forget it my sons father is a druggie with a bunch of kids so I'm sure i wont even get anything its such a headache they give you the run around for what Virginia doesnt act like this with child support they do their job quick

Not preggie related but my mom is trying to claim me on jer taxes , how much would she get if she were to claim me ? But if i were to claim my self how much would i get ?

When people got shit to say about me being a stay at home mom for these last 5 weeks and not working a job. lol sweety I'm 20 years old and just wrote a check for $15k, along with trading in my 2012 ford focus, as of Tuesday I will be the proud owner of an almost fully paid off brand new off the line 2016 ford escape, and I also currently OWN the house I live in. meanwhile, at 23 years old you work as a fry cook at applebees, have no vehicle, live with your girlfriends parents and y'all plan to support your unborn child with her babysitting 6 kids at once. oh but I'M a terrible "dead beat" mother with no future who knows nothing about the real world 😂😂😂😂 hard work pays off, and I've got a lot to show for it. if you ain't got crap, and you're to lazy to get off your butt and work for what you think you deserve then you don't have the right to open your mouth and speak to me about being a stay at home mom for a short period of time. I deserve the break. I was a single mom for 3 years, l