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I have a hard time having friendships with people who are “needy” — always wanting to be included in everything, butting into conversations, etc. I have a good friend who frequently will comment on posts I make about doing something with a different friend saying “Really?” or “You went without me?”

Yesterday I went to a spa about 1.5 hours away with a mutual friend. She texted me saying, “I can’t believe you went to ____ without me 😢 “

She always acts like she’s joking but obviously there’s some truth to it and her feelings are hurt.. but it’s annoying to me. We’re middle aged women. We can hang out with friends solo or in groups, and it shouldn’t be a huge issue. Acting like this is SUCH a turn off for me.

What's everyone's views on allowing your child to smoke weed. What is the age you find it appropriate or what age would you allow it and why?

I'm struggling here. I have been getting my kids older two siblings on the weekends. They want to spend the summer with me. When I say older they are 12 and 10. They have lived and live a different life than my kids have. They are pretty good kids for the most part. There are some things that I have to address with them when in my care but for the most part having them around is nice. There are some concerns I have for their living environment but I try to make sure at my house their needs are met and they have help with basic needs because they aren't getting that at home. I try to be their child appropriate safe space. With this being said I have learned that they smoke weed. My kids are very sheltered and I want to keep them as innocent and child like as long as I can. I brought up this topic
with their dad, he doesn't know but when I asked him what age does he feel it's appropriate he said basically he rather them smoke weed than pop pills and he rather it come from him because he smokes. He also started drinking and smoking very young. On both sides their dad and mom's side there is a history of alcohol/weed/drugs even with grandparents. Is it my place to talk to the boys about it and should I say something to their parents? I honestly feel like there aren't any boundaries at their mom's house and they are free to come and go as they please as long as they aren't bothering her. Their dad is also lacking in the parenting department so together I feel like these kids don't have a good structure. I try not to judge but I do see a lot of where the problems come from. They have seen and dealt with a lot of things they shouldn't have had to. So anyways. what's y'all's opinions and should I just mind my business as long as they don't do it in my home and around my kids ?

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My son texted me today at his lunch time and said someone stole his lunch. He was upset and wanted to come home. He said he told the teacher but they couldn't do anything about it. He hadn't had anything to eat and just wanted to leave. At first I was upset and ready to react but I thought about it and now it makes me sad. What if this student is facing food insecurity at home and these are the only meals he/she eats at school? If a child has to take food I feel like they are just trying to survive. I'm waiting in my son to text me back because now I want to make sure the child has food and I want to make sure they don't have to take anything to be full. 😢 And yes Im letting him come home. Clearly something is bothering him and he's hangry.

Soooo I am new to this group and I thought I would download this app just get some advice on some things I have 1 daughter she is 3 years old she will be 4 in December . & I need some help mentally I’m dealing with a lot and I just don’t know what else to do . So I have been dealing with mood swings for a while now but not it seems like it’s been getting out of hand . I become so irritated by every little thing and I just want to be left alone & I sometimes act irratable with my daughter . Now she is a VERY VERY VERY active 3 year old she is always getting into stuff , she constantly whines & she is SUPPERRR CLINGLY! She always wants to be sitting on top of me I could be eating , drinking or just doing anything she wants to sit in my lap or just put her fingers all in my face or pull my hair or anything touching me and while it’s fine but when I’m already stressed out from work come home then have to clean and cook and tend to her it gets over whelming ! And when I just need a moment to my self she start screaming crying WHINNING because she wants to be right up under me I can’t even use the bathroom now I love my daughter to death more than anything in this world I just need to know how to deal with those emotions and just be the best mom I can be to her 🙏🏽🙏🏽😔😔 #myfirstpost

So I took my daughter to the urgent Care cuz she had a fever last night and then again this morning no other symptoms really a little cough and she has the flu. And I have something too but they tested me and I don't have flu we don't have covid she doesn't have strep. They gave us that medication for the flu how do you guys feel about taking and giving children tamiflu? I've heard mixed reviews and I'm a little cautious. She's in decent sorts just laying down, giving her Tylenol and Motrin switching back and forth with that. Doctor said I didn't have to give it to her if I didn't want to

Sooo my oldest kiddo got invited to one of her besties birthday party in a month. Now this is a wwyd situation.

Details:The messy mom (I've written about her before lol) is hosting an all siblings birthday. This is wild to me because yes I've heard of combo birthdays before but they're usually in situations where they are close together... These kids have birthdays MONTHS apart. Kiddos bestie is in May, older brother (11) is in January, and the younger sister (8) is in March. Now I've known this family for years. The younger sister I've literally saw her in diapers at prek pick up. But I'm not close with either parent to a point where we talk outside of arranging pick up and drop offs to my house (my daughter has never been to this friends house in 7+ years but that's another situation).

So my dilemma, do I get all the kids gifts since technically I know them. I was thinking small gift cards for the siblings and then my usual $50 budget for bestie. My husband says no way since kiddo is only a guest of bestie technically. Party is at a park so there really won't be any kind of separation for the kids from my understanding. Kiddo didn't go to bestie's party last year because the invite was super late and I had a wedding to attend so idk if messy mom follows etiquette about opening gifts in private. I don't want kiddo to feel awkward if other kids call her out about not getting siblings gifts but my husband doesn't see it that way and thinks i just need to send one gift for her bestie.So...wwyd?

Kids first car and college:

What is everyone doing when it comes to your kids first car and college ? My son turns 12 in april so I'm years away from big moves.

First car: Is this automatic something you gift to your child as long as they have good grades, are mature and make good decisions?

College: Do you feel like it's your responsibility to pay for their college tuition? Would you prefer the scholarships and you pay the difference? Pay for a certain amount of years or the full 4 plus years?

Today was one of the most scariest stressful day of my life.

My nephew was found unconscious on the floor in the bathroom. He was rushed to the hospital. This hospital I used to work at so I got the call by my former colleague. When I got there he was still in and out of consciousness. I was trying to get more information and get a clear understanding on what had happened.

Apparently, my nephew took a lace gummy because a classmate gave it to him and moments later was vomiting and passed out. I told my sister to request a drug test. Which we were told they can’t without consent from my nephew….. I went off because that’s not even a thing for a freaking 14/15 yrs old. I had to explain to the girl that I worked as a nurse in the same hospital and never heard this before. Crazy just crazy.. and then she came back in when I finally got the test put in for him, just to say thaat they don’t drug test… another lie. I asked for a different nurse because who have time to waste when a child is in the hospital with God knows what in his system.

Then another nurse came and was like I want to gave him Zofran. I was like no… he need to try to wake up and not sleep. This guy going say oh drowsiness is not the side effect…. WTF YES IT IS. So I had to tell this guy to not give Zofran and give him IV to help keep him hydrated and to try and flashed the system.

Nephew was out from 11:45 am to about 6 pm and he still wasn’t awake. The doctors was shaking him trying to get him up. So, i the used my father remedy, iced water to the face and it worked. He popped up and re went to pee in the cup.

Test results is that he ate a gummy that was lace with weed and fint he also smoked some weed today.

He’s home safe ate and was drinking everything.

Please convey to your kids do not take candy from their peers. Shhh is getting real in these schools.

Ok. I need help. My daughter is about to be 9. She’s been overly emotional. Like I try to explain something she can’t do because of the baby and she cries and cries. She said before it was my tone. So I kept a very calm tone and she still cried! What do I do? How do I help her not cry over small things? It’s getting bad. It’s literally over every little thing. I am starting to get frustrated but I don’t want to sound like I am because she is so emotional. But I also have a baby yelling at me too. My patience is growing thin. Help me 😫

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