Ladies I need advice!

Amethyst is getting to a point with her attitude where I’m not sure what to do. She’s defiant, she’s starting to lie and tells me no to pretty much everything and tells me stop.

I’ve tried reasoning with her, time outs, nap times, taking things away from her and spanking after a certain amount of time having to tell her not to do something.

She gets into everything all the time, and I know that that is normal but when I tell her to not mess with something and I remove …

Hello moms !i never thought that I will ever do this but I really have to !please do not judge me but it’s really not easy !i hope you understand !So I rent a house of 5 rooms with my friends ,but since the corona virus they went out because there are no more money !i am now me and my husband with our two kids and we are unable to pay the rent which is£2200!and because of the lockdown it’s so difficult !i paid so hard for this month but form next month I won’t have the full amount to pay !do you…

Rant ahead.

This school district still has yet to give us a date of return and its getting annoying. I'm pretty sure everyone by now is aware of a "return date" or if they arent returning at all. Our school district was scheduled to return the 14th, obviously that isnt gonna happen given that we were put back on lockdown until 5/1! I've had several teachers say they will be resuming online classes on the 13th, BECAUSE "we are sure school wont be resumed yet" so there you have it folks; its has…

Question!!

When y'all do laundry do you just do yours and the kids or do you do your boyfriend /SO too? Also if you have someone else staying with you would you do there laundry too when you're doing yours?

I do everyones including his brother that's staying with us for this month and I don't mind at all but my girl thinks I'm crazy she don't do her mans laundry either just hers and the kids..

Side note- his brother is very respectful and will do his own laundry I'm just doing ours so an ext…

1 thing I don't think we all take into consideration is the names we give our babies. Yes it's so cute and we love it but do we sit and think about the child's future? How school kids will react to their name? I think that's huge on choosing a name because your choice alone can cause a whole life long bullying or self esteem issue. The kids aren't accepting of such different names and so on anymore and look for things to pick on kids about. It's always been a thought when I see some baby names. …

Last and final post about this situation and then i’ll be deleting all the posts about it.

Terminix was out, confirmed it was a bed bug and told me early stages and that they could be laying dormant behind the basements and outlet covers. They want $1150 with a downpayment of $500. They do all the prep work. They are only going to treat 1 room which is the bedroom and they’d spray the couches. They have a 90 day service guarantee and then 6 months of what i’m assuming is something like insuran…

Omgsh. It would be so awesome to live here. I'm looking into moving to Tallahassee. Hours from where I stay now, same state. Country (I live in the city) where there a red e people everywhere and I have grown up literally down the street since I was 9 till 19. And now I live here still. Does anyone live in Tallahassee?or country at a where it's so secluded? How is it. I'm a scare freak and I get scared alot being alone and in places I'm not familiar at night especially. > just hope I can make a …

My friend works my nerves like no other.. I love her but man she just wasn't meant to be a mother & I'm sorry to say that because she's really a great mom when it comes to playing with them but when they need their diapers changed or they need to be fed she pawns them off to her mom.. her mom's almost 50 years old.. she is 22, same age as me.. she says feeding her 6m old is too hard when she has a toddler running around.. okay well why don't you ask your mom to watch your toddler so you can feed…

How are you all coping with this mess? Especially you ladies that are pregnant/delivering soon? My baby is due for his 2 month shots, and I’m a BAG OF NERVES. I don’t want him to get the ‘Rona, but I also don’t want him behind on vaccinations. Temi is pissed and thinks I’m punishing her by not letting her play with the neighbors or go anywhere. I’ve tried to explain this to her but she’s just not getting it. Would you take your baby to get his shots? How are you explaining this to your overly so…

Well we just got the call about 2hrs ago...my husband’s pappy died this morning. It’s hitting me pretty hard. He was the first one to accept me into the family when everyone was against us & always had my back when my in laws were being too much, he was the closest to my kids & had such a special bond with them both, he was like my own pappy bc I haven’t had grandparents for over 15yrs now. He was such an important man to my husband & I & our kids & I’m just a wreck. Not to mention we haven’t be…

Well, this virus has mangled my birth plans a bit... Only one support person allowed with no switching. Obviously my plan was to have my husband there. That is still my goal - but here's my conundrum - no one under 18 is allowed and we had a few people inline planning for them spend time with Mowgli here at home. Back-ups and all. AND AS OF YESTERDAY ALL OF MY PLANNED PEOPLE MAY HAVE BEEN OR ARE AFRAID THEY HAVE BEEN EXPOSED TO THIS DAMN VIRUS!

My due date is VERY CLOSE and really could be any…

Obsessed with seeing everyone’s first photo of dating on IG so I thought let’s start that here. Post a picture of you and your significant others first photo together and the year. Let’s make it fun tell some fun facts and what has changed since that first photo
Established 2013
*had two kids
*got married (finally had that wedding)
*bought our first home
*B moved his whole life up north
*three moves
*a dog
*living the minivan life
*both serving in church
*so many trails, tribulations yet…

Probably tmi but my boobs hurt so much. Anyone experienced breast engorgement? I don’t know what’s going on but it feels like I’m producing more milk than I was before. I have tried pumping and freezing it but my son does not really like the bottle. he’ll take them every now and then but for the most part he does not like it so i literally just have a bunch of frozen milk that he’s not drinking. What can I do for the pain? He’s still able to eat and latch fine I am just miserable it’s been 8 hou…

Ladies, this is hitting way too close to home.

I asked for prayers the other night for the CNA from our PED's office. All is well so far they are still asymptomatic. Thank God.

UNFORTUNATELY, my closest friend took her children to the PED today and her children, especially her little boy, were put on C-19 watch. He has been running a fever and his sister has a bad cough. She had been worried for her daughter who is 5, baby boy won't be 2 until July, thinking he just had an ear infection sinc…

I’m so sad...I just cancelled our flights for our Baecation we had next week to Jamaica ☹️😭 I hate it hereeee! Fckn Rona. And idc I don’t wanna hear “at least ur alive, it’s a pandemic, get over it u can go later” let me vent and be sad dammit we was so looking forward to our annual trip..peace..no kids..jerk chicken on the beach. Now I’m stuck in a house with a terrible three tornado Tasmanian terdler and a teen upset & attitudey cause school is cancelled 😩 #IHateItHere #My90TrialOf2020IsUp …

My son had his son 2nd online/FaceTime speech therapy today. I can already see that his therapist is amazing and loves her job. She has already submitted paperwork to pediatrician to get referral and set up appointment with Children’s Hospital (takes about 4-6 months to get appointment) for autism evaluation... today she was able to get his attention and has high hopes for him. She actually got him to communicate with her. I was so excited to see this...I see the light at the end of the tunnel …

Help mamas! After a long two years of being blind as a bat, I'm finally getting an eye exam today! My eyesight hasn't been the same since being pregnant, and I can't wear my current contacts anymore. Problem is, I can never find quality glasses that don't cost an arm and a leg! So for those of you who are sight deprived like me, where do you get your glasses?? I've been told by a lot of people to order them online.. & with everything going on right now that might just be the better option. Eithe…

Hello moms I have a big situation on my hands...so my grandmother live with me and my three kids going on a year now..for some reason she have something against my seven year old...she always say my son wanna be like the other kids (meaning like my nephews)which he don’t..he just being a Seven year old..she be talking to him crazy..she called him a faggy for hitting one of my nephews..the other day she called him dirty..apt I’m so sick of..I have anger problem real bad like real bad an she know …

A little rant too all you cool cats and kittens.... 🤣😭

I’m trying to rent this home from this property management company put down my deposit (full months rent) only after seeing a virtual tour it’s really nice also filled out everything they wanted. I asked if I can finally see the inside because I’ve been to plenty of other properties and they let u do the self tours well even after putting my refundable deposit down they still won’t let me see the inside 😡 I no it’s a legit management com…

Due to an AMAZING and quite unexpected gift from a cousin that I try to keep in contact with, but don't speak to often enough... And my incredible best friend and her family, and of course my awesomely supportive husband- I was able to get ALL of my baby stuff and postpartum care purchases taken care of the last week or so!
I was not this prepared when I had Mowgli, and am beyond grateful to have such amazing people in my life! So much stress relief 😬- I feel like I can breath now! (Except whe…