Rant of the day..
My husbands best friends mom use to be my boss but totally ignored my existence after I quit (I got offered a better job). She always includes my hubby in rodeo weekends that they go to and makes sure to always buy him a weekend pass, it starts fights between us and I end up taking my dog to the lake camping with me and leave him and his dog at home. Well apparently she's now invited him over for supper. Like him being over there most week nights and some weekends isn't enough! And don't even include me, I grew up with both her kids, her daughter and I were best friends at one point.
I've had it with that whole family. My husband gets mad when I say he's spending too much time over there, he's choosing them over his family and it's not just me. And now he's texting his friend's sister and he knows I don't want him talking to girls cause of things he's done in the past and he just won't listen to me, I feel like I don't mean anything to him anymore..
I have an appointment tomorrow and I have to spend the whole day with him and I don't want to blow up in his face when I'm stuck with him in the truck 😭
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@sarah433, @adrien5.29 yeah I know I have to say something but I honestly don't know how to bring it up without getting into a fight, he's offered to let me do random searches on his phone before but I feel like I should have to, that I should trust him but it seems like he always messes it up it way
@santanaanna, We'll you have to try an get his pw or just ask to use his phone to fix yours or something but yeah that's fishy if he changed it..my husband has a pw but I know it an he recently changed it an told me it tho
I wouldn't be ok with that. obviously he needs guy time, but if he's never including you that's a problem. you are a family. I would talk to him about how you feel, maybe ask him if you can go with him some days.
I tried yesterday but either I couldn't remember his password or he changed it. I'm thinking he changed it, and he never leaves his phone laying around, it's always with him but he's always been like that so I don't even know anymore
@santanaanna, You need to look through his phone when he in a deep sleep like in middle of night an see what all those bullshit txts r about...She's not gonna invite him just because they like his company you better have that talk with him an tell him if you can't go he can't either
@adrien5.29, that's what I started to think but I thought it was just pregnancy hormones, but when she invited him for supper I was like 'oh hell no'. He's just too nice to see girls flirting with him and we've had that issue before so I doubt he even thinks anything of this.
Girl you better talk to him alone that's getting fishy sounds like the mom wants your husband with her daughter an with that family so you better let them know if your not welcomed neither is he an you gotta be firm with your man an tell him how you feel scared him an tell him if he doesn't change you'll make a change you know
@santanaanna, Just talk to him alone calmly an cool an just be real with him an tell him how you feel