Как сохранить дружбу после рождения ребёнка? в all

Всем привет!Ой девочки. ..надо выговариться....живу с мужем 4 месяца у него дома....И постоянно чувствовалось что свекровка недовольна мной....То кушать я не так готовлю,то сплю до 12,и т.д...Мужу говорила,он говорит что придумываешь....наверно просто не привыкла ещё...Сегодня она говорила по тел. с подружайкой ...ну думаю узнаю может что про меня скажет....и оставила диктофон,сама пошла в магазин....Интуиция не подвела...прослушала...она рассказывает какая я ебан....я(прям такими фразами)...А когда я ей за это высказала...она начала говорить типа такого не говорила...перед Богом клялась,сказала что я всё придумываю...Муж был на работе...сказал приеду разберусь...Я уехала к маме...туда конечно больше не вернусь....И страшно так,как же поведёт себя сейчас муж

Сегодня утром не стало моего друга 😢 ... Ровно 11 лет назад в мае, он так трогательно посмотрел мне в глаза и я не смогла не взять его из питомника. Это был настоящий член семьи - ребёнок, со своими капризами и вредным характером, но он всегда был преданным другом, пушистой радостью! Сейчас он жил с мамой в соседнем доме, вчера утром все было нормально, он был активный, а вечером его стошнило, но это было нормальной практикой, так как были проблемы с поджелудочной и примерно раз в 2 мес его могло вырвать, поэтому особого внимания мама не предала. Утром, когда она проснулась, он был в критическом состоянии, у него уже начались судороги и она позвонила мне в слезах и побежала в клинику, я приехала чуть позже. Поставили острый панкреатит. Давление было низкое, он был почти без сознания 😢 и громко плакал 😢😢😢не лаял, не выл, а кричал. Поставили капельницу, сделали уколы, врач сказала все будет понятно через 1,5-2 часа реагирует ли он на лекарство и я уехала на работу. Врач позвонил через

Confession - I'm a recovering cocaine and meth addict. Well those 2 were my favorite substances, but I was open to dabble with anything except heroin. I'm over 6 months clean and I made a point to truly stop as soon as I found out I was pregnant. I struggled with addictions for almost 2 years prior to my pregnancy. Put myself through rehab last year at this time, then had a bad relapse last fall when my baby daddy came to be with me. We used together. Which is unfortunately another reason I'm better off staying away from him. I'm so happy and relieved to be on a good path of sobriety for my daughter. She truly was the turning point that made me realize I had to stop.

well my stress level is through the roof!!! My husband and his friend got pulled over right by our driveway tonight and they searched the vehicle for smelling like marijuana and didn't find anything. So they came to my house and searched my husband's shed. we'll they found 3 pipes and maybe like 3 grams of marijuana if that. well where we live is zero tolerance and this would be my husband's second offense in the last 4 years. he was sentenced to 2 years probation last time which got revoked after 1.5 years due to him dropping dirty and going to jail a lot for it. Well now he doesn't know what the hell they're gonna do or charge him with. I'm stressed because if he ended up going to serve time for a marijuana charge 2nd offense he'll probably have to sit in jail and he may end up missing our sons birth. I'm freaking out because I would NEVER forgive him if that happens. I'm gonna be highly stressed for the next few weeks until we know what the hell is going on... I'm about to have a me

it sucks when you and your best friend were really close and then all of a sudden she sort of disappears.. she always said she wanted to be a very active person in my sons life but then she kinda lags with that. i really hope that changes tho. bleh. i definitely need mama friends.. well friends in general. this is mainly the only thing i complain about.. everything else in my life is great.

девочки помогите советом!!моя свекровь выдра!!!доводит меня до истерик пока муж на работе,живет она с нами! я все соответсвенно рассказываю мужу,муж молчит Не чего ей не говорит просто не разговаривает с ней...она ещё больше из за этого пресует меня,типо ты виновата во всем,короче достала она меня ((((

Девочки, моя лучшая подруга родила 🙌🙌🙌 час назад, в пц 1😀😀😀 я так счастлива, мы дружим с ней уже 15 лет, несмотря на все ухмылки о том что не бывает женской дружбы! все время она держала меня в курсе, писала про схватки, до потугов были в режиме онлайн. Мы все с детства делали вместе, учились, росли, гуляли, обсуждали парней, она вышла замуж, через 2 месяца я вышла, она забеременела и через 3 месяца я тоже 😇😇😇 и вот она уже встретилась со своим ребеночком, сегодня поеду к ней, я очень очень счастлива 👶😍😘 единственное её фото с пузиком, она у меня не любила фоткаться с животиком

I really miss having friends I can call and text when my daughter is napping or sleeping exactly when my husband is not home and out with his friends I get so jealous that he has friends and can talk and text and go out and all I have is him and my daughter. ugh I kinda want to cry right now.

So I get a text from my best friend last night who has not been too see my daughter yet. Nor has she really checked on her. She has bailed three times for some guy she calls her best friend now, so I said fuck her. She was talking about how she hates how far we drifted apart and all this, mind you this is he second time I've told her how I felt, and I just told her I was tired of people expecting my daughter to be in the lives when they don't make the effort for her. Which is fine because she great and they are missing out. But how do you think I feel when I have literally nobody, I cry alone too have too suck it up because I don't have anyone to talk to anymore? Like that shit is dead. And all over some dick. 😐 like I'm over it.

☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆RANT☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆ I have been to the doctor twice in two days from cramping and back aches, its from stress I know it is. Anthony TRIES to stress me out. Ive told him to stop texting his best friends girlfriend twice. they have nothing to do with each other. at all. she brings him home, alone. am I wrong for thinking that's wrong? plus she screws every guy she sees. I told both of them to stop. yesterday, I was sitting in labor & delivery for observation, & SHE came and got him. Okay. no.

Я знаю, что за меня никто не решит... Но держать в себе уже невозможно. Муж кодированный, не пил 1,5 года! Сорвался... Что делать, как жить дальше, не знаю

Мой личный сорт героина❤️😂 девочки это нечто, первый раз попробовала их за день до родов, потом в роддом постоянно мне приносили их, а сейчас я жить без них не могу, просыпаюсь мысли о них, засыпаю мысли о них, постоянно хочу хочу хочу😩 стараюсь себя сдерживать уже, а то раньше по 2 пачки в день съедала, щас хоть на 2 дня одна пачка хватает🌚

When my hubby and I made it official last year (we're middle school sweethearts but went different paths as adults) he had a really cool pair of ray bans. Lol he lost them that summer and was really sad about it. We got pregnant and moved etc and he prioritized us over his wants. (ugh I love this man) I want to surprise him with a new pair but I don't make any of my "own money". We share a bank account and discuss our purchases beforehand etc but I feel like we're in a good place financially and money comes and goes you know? Has anyone ever done that before? Use "his money" to buy your hubby/so a gift? Lol

доброе утро,девочки! как считаете ,есть ли люди энергетические вампиры? мы недавно переехали на новое место жительства,и с нами в подъезде живет тетка мужа. Стала замечать,после ее ухода я еле живая.Ей 38 лет,начала частенько захаживать к нам. Я если честно,устала от нее. Она патологическая врунья,делает проблемы из всего у себя дома. Двое детей,муж. Приходит,плачется жалуется,на всех и вся! Выливает весь свой негатив и уходит довольная, а я после нее никакая! я как овощ! еле хожу и соображаю! вчера кое как забрала дочку с садика.... Голова трещит,до сих пор. Вечером притопала,я просто не открыла.... Муж на меня смотрит,понять не может,. Что со мной! А я как выжатый лимон... Я по натуре веселый человек,как клоун порой... Всех развеселю,и в итоге сдуваюсь... Может защиту какую от нее поставить?! зае...ла она меня!

Как бороться с сисечной зависимостью у ребенка?

Сисечная зависимость. Сисечная наркомания. Как ещё это назвать. Как бороться-то с этим? ‼️‼️‼️ Садимся обедать/ужинать, 2 ложки съедает, дальше около часа воюем, дерёмся, пляшу, показываю спектакли, стоя на голове, обижаюсь, обещаю вкусняшку после еду и все в этом духе. А в ответ полчаса жевания мяса, потом смачный плевок, и дикий вопль "ТИИИИИИТЮ"🙆🏼ааааа Как. Лечить. Зависимость? Сильную-сильную. Пресильную. Уехать на несколько дней-не вариант. Соски мазать зелёнкой-тоже. Лето, кофточки просвечиваются😝

so f*** ing Pissed off I know it's dangerous to complain about the oh on here but I don't care I'm Foaming !! Every moring without fricken fail my oh Wakes up Andrew getting ready for work because he literally does everything as loud as possible for example slamming Cupboard doors multiple times slimming the front door multiple times dragging his feet along the floors (we have such loud flooring so that echos though the entire house) and talks and laughs on the phone !! I mean come on its 5am for Christ sake !!! Andrew would have slept a little longer and today of all days I really needed it I has such a terrible sleep last night but no he decides to open and slam close the front door 4 times I mean come on taking the p.iss or what and i wouldnt care if it was every now and then by accident but its every moring and every morning i ask him to plesse be quirt but nope this is what he does absolutely Foaming !!

Caught shoplifting Dh's cousins 18 & 16 got caught at Sephora stealing $130 worth of merchandise. They both gave a wrong last name and then called their cousin saying it was their mom. When she showed up she told the police that she was the cousin and not the mom. They are both to go to court at the end of the month. What should they expect? Do you think the 18 year old will be put in jail? I'm so disappointed and mad at them. The 18 year old graduates this Thursday and the 16 year old is/was going to go to Europe for her junior year of high school.

My best friend is over and she got laid the other night for the first time and my boyfriend is high fiving her and the two of them keep going out for smoke breaks on the deck and are acting all buddy buddy and I asked him to please change out of work clothes cause the smell was making me sick and retorted with a cocky "can you go to the other side of the couch and fuck off" and the two of them laughed. Like suddenly because I'm not a party girl he fell in love with he treats me like the old annoying wife . He fucking knocked me up. It's not my fault I am not fun any more. Stop flirting with my best friend .

Всем привет) Хочу с вами поделится продолжением истории про Эмили и Эмилы) для всех кто помнит мой предыдущий пост. В общем муж сегодня ночью на машине поехал в Бон, на 8:40 было наше время, примерно с этого времени у меня не было никакой информации от него. Я сидела и переживала, а вдруг и правда будет Эмилы!! (( свекровь меня успокаивала как могла, даже спать отправляла, а то моя младшая доча любит просыпаться в 5 утра и не спать больше. Ну так вот, буквально пять минут назад позвонил муж и сказал что все сделал, но дочь пришлось записать как ЭмилЫ!!!!! Аааа...!!!! Что??? Ы? Блин, ну как так! В тот момент я готова была упасть в обморок! Но просто встала в ступор( А спустя секунд 15 муж рассмеялся и сказал что пошутил) а вот в тот момент я готова была его убить, хорошо что рядом не было) В итоге, все сложилось удачно и нам разрешили нашу девочку назвать Эмили. ))) ура!!!

Woke up to a terrible phone call 😩 my "SO" called me just to tell me that he needed time to think about things between us... so he won't be anywhere near this weekend & he's off so I was thinking of going out somewhere nice before my due date, which is in 1 week... but looks like I'll be spending it alone... I might be a "single mommy" like everyone said I would which just makes me cry cause I just wanted to prove my family wrong... what got me the worst is its only 1 week before my due date & you want to leave me.... gonna be a long day 😢😢😢 my depression has officially worstend...

Rant here....Wow my mom is being extra bitchy today...she is asking me who I invited to my baby shower and I told her maybe three "friends" are coming. I have no friends besides courtney who has been there for 12 years. she says I pushed all my friends away including my swim team friends from school and she imagined I had school activities. my friends from school moved on because they are fake friends. my swim team moved on without me when I was injured and unable to participate. and again I am a shy antisocial woman who never had activities to do with friends because I rather be with my pets. she's just mad that I moved out because I was sick of the way my family treated me and moved in with my boyfriend. "cause you gave up your friends" my ass!

so I can't say I'm depressed because I know how that feels, I've been there before, but I have been feeling down in the dumps about my supposed "friends" not even bothering to come see me and my daughter. my whole pregnancy all I heard from them was "omg I can't wait to see her, let me know f you need anything". have they made the effort to stop by? no. have they asked? once, said they'd text me when they got off work, hasnt texted me since and that was over a week ago. I don't even know if I can call them friends now. I'm sorry I'm a mother now and don't have time, or energy, to hang out anywhere besides my house for your convenience. its really not that hard to swing by my house when you have free time. let alone ask me how I'm doing. thanks for showing me who you really are 'friends'. guess I'll stick to hanging out with my sister. she's better company anyway.

RANT... Argh i cant stand FB. well my "friends" on fb. I girl i knew in high school is pregnant and today found out she was having a boy. yaay. awesome. She put up a status about how she doesn't want a boy. at all. she wants a girl. saying horrible disgusting things about terminating. I tapped on her status to give her my two cents and i see her sister commented. saying yeah too many boys in our family and supporting her to...get rid. all because he's a boy...😢. Humans suck sometimes. i wanna slap her. How selfish. People out here trying to have a baby boy or girl doesn't matter. couples trying for YEARS to start a family. and cant. and here she is ungrateful for a baby thats the wrong sex. not to mention the families who have sickly babies. would give anything for their baby to be healthy. i dont know if she was playing around but that rocked me to my core.

So my mom has officially ruined my day and quite possibly the rest of my month until I can figure out what the hell im going to do. She's been using my truck since she got out of jail to look for work and all that other good stuff. Well she has a terrible habit of messing with her phone and driving. Apparently she "got into an accident" and messed up my tire and the control arm. This isn't the first time she's done this either and I had to pay someone to fix my car last year and she sure ain't got no damn money to pay for my car this time either. I'm so pissed!

So I told my MIL I didn't want her there the day I had my son. No one is allowed to be there but me and my husband. Everyone is more than welcome to come the next day when things have settled down. But no she has to jump my husbands ass over it because she wants to be there the second I push the kid out. Umm no? Not even my parents will be allowed to be there. And now my husband is jumping my ass over it saying I need to apologize. Him and I are going to have a nice long talk tonight.