so f*** ing Pissed off
I know it's dangerous to complain about the oh on here but I don't care I'm Foaming !! Every moring without fricken fail my oh Wakes up Andrew getting ready for work because he literally does everything as loud as possible for example slamming Cupboard doors multiple times slimming the front door multiple times dragging his feet along the floors (we have such loud flooring so that echos though the entire house) and talks and laughs on the phone !! I mean come on its 5am for Christ sake !!! Andrew would have slept a little longer and today of all days I really needed it I has such a terrible sleep last night but no he decides to open and slam close the front door 4 times I mean come on taking the p.iss or what and i wouldnt care if it was every now and then by accident but its every moring and every morning i ask him to plesse be quirt but nope this is what he does absolutely Foaming !!
It must be a man thing. When. I get up before the hubby/bairn I get my stuff quietly amd go downstairs to get ready then out the door as soon as possible. My hubby on the otherhand sets his alarm for way earlier than he needs to therefore waking me up and then bangs around the bedroom to find his stuff then goes into the bathroom which is right beside our room, bangs around in there for 10 min and then stomps off down the stairs passed our daughters room, downstairs, around the kitchen and out the door. It drives me mad! On a weekend I take the bairn downstairs quietly to let him lie in but on his mornings to get up with her he let's her play upstairs whilst he plays on his phone which always results in her wanting to see mummy so I might as well get up! Bloody men!! Xx
My oh leaves at 5.30 and he tries to be as quiet as possible but we have creaky stairs which is impossible to avoid. He also goes out the back door rather than the front door and he still manages to disturb our son. Most of the time mason goes back to sleep but sometimes I have to put him in with me.
Just tell him straight to stop being so bloody noisy! He's an adult he should know how to take care and be quiet.
My oh leaves for work at 5am and he's as quiet as he can be. I did have to ask him to try and be quieter a couple of months ago as he was banging around downstairs and was waking the kids up. Now he leave his work clothes downstairs and gets ready down there so he doesn't disturb us. He does wake me up every morning just lately but since I've been expecting #3 I've suddenly become a light sleeper so its not his fault x
I don't think the comment 'men will never get it' should be an excuse to be honest, nice caring respectful men DO get it.
My oh gets up at 6 everyday and we live in a little flat with wooden floor and he is so quiet getting ready I never hear him nor does he wake the kids and I know he is trying to be as quiet as possible.
Definitely have a chat with him, it's not fair in your son to be woken up early.
Hope your ok, try and get a nap in today with Andrew if you can. I can totally understand why you are angry x
Mine hasn't even bothered coming home even though he knows I have my best friends hen do and have to leave early today, good job for grandparents hey ?? men will never get what it's like for us, mine is definitely to selfish and wrapped up in his own little world that he feels he has to ruin my one day off! ?
I honestly dnt think men realise.
My husband got in last night at about 11, just fed and settled baby and he's on the phone laughing so loud, I shot downstairs like lightening and told him to be quiet.
They honestly just dnt think sometimes, and dnt realise. if u have asked him multiple times to keep the noise down then I'd be as pis.sed as u right now.
A little taste of his own medicine might work. When's his day off? ?
We say foaming too ? means more angry than fuming lol