so I can't say I'm depressed because I know how that feels, I've been there before, but I have been feeling down in the dumps about my supposed "friends" not even bothering to come see me and my daughter. my whole pregnancy all I heard from them was "omg I can't wait to see her, let me know f you need anything". have they made the effort to stop by? no. have they asked? once, said they'd text me when they got off work, hasnt texted me since and that was over a week ago. I don't even know if I can call them friends now. I'm sorry I'm a mother now and don't have time, or energy, to hang out anywhere besides my house for your convenience. its really not that hard to swing by my house when you have free time. let alone ask me how I'm doing. thanks for showing me who you really are 'friends'. guess I'll stick to hanging out with my sister. she's better company anyway.
Комментарии
I feel the same way and all my friends have kids already. I've always been there for them. I have one friend that lives over an hour from me and she's been here more than the ones that live 2 mins away! It's sad 😢
@mommyof3andahalf, @leesambee its bullshit and its upsetting 😳
yup...idk...it hurts bt i wouldnt do tht to them! @arijane316
now you know... don't stress on them hun. it's better they show their true colors now. hang in there. @arijane316
@leesambee, exactly. like ask me if I want to go have lunch or something with you. just don't tell me that I'm your best friend and then drop me just because I became a parent
100% feel u!! not jst friends bt my family has done the same too me to!!
or like tonight some of them is hving girls night! i know im 2wks pp bt jst to get an invite would've been. nice! @arijane316
@mommyof3andahalf, it really does. I feel like I have no friends left now. all these people I thought would be there for me till the end and now its like I never existed to them.
It's very sad but in reality, becoming a mother shows who your real friends are. I've lost so many "friends" because I'm a mom.
Don't get me started on the friends from work... A few of them had babies around the same time I did. I reached out to them a few times to see if they want to have a mom's lunch or coffee. I was ignored. Duck em