I need opinions, if your husband basically booted you out of the house with no money, no working car, no job, and really…
I need opinions, if your husband basically booted you out of the house with no money, no working car, no job, and really no place to stay other then your friends house would you A, go to court and sue him for everything he has, meaning alimony, half of everything, has to pay half of credit card bills, and pay your lawyer fees and court fees, or B, do it friendly and ask for visitation of my children, he pays half the credit cards and I don't have to pay for his lawyer and court fees?? So to make a long story short we have not been getting along well since having three kids in 4 years, fought one day, I said I was leaving and he also wanted me gone, been living at a friend's for over two months now, he served me divorce papers a week ago and wants full sould custody of our children and wants me to pay his lawyer and court fees. He thinks he's not responsible for credit cards which he is, we both are, he will not tell me when my children are going to doctors and for what, say it's non of my business since I'm not paying the doctor bills, Everytime I ask about our children he turns it around and makes it about him and asks if I miss him. He said he wants to do this as friends but wants to destroy me when I already have nothing. I think he wants a war because I'm not giving up my kids that easily. Oh here's the kicker girls, the last time I visited him and our children he got sex out of me. But guess what, he filed for a divorce 3 days before he used me for sex. And also said he wanted to try marriage counseling. He changed his mind real fast.
Ss3mom·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 6 лет)
I agree with the others saying take him for everything. Weren’t u a sahm? Who’s taking care of the kids on a daily basis? He works right? I’m really sorry this happened. Also do not ans I repeat do not allow him to use u this way. No sex ever again. Seems like he’s really manipulating u into getting what he wants. What about the kids ya know? How sad they must be without seeing u, their mother!! Ugh I’m really pissed at him for doing this to u and then.
Andy··
Мама троих детей
Yes stay at home mom for almost 2 years
Andy··
Мама троих детей
Thanks girl. I miss them so much
Brooke H·
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
Get yourself a lawyer and fight for everything. Y'all are married so it's yours also. My ex husband tried to take everything and I said in the divorce I wanted him to sell the house due to I wanted my name off of it. He wasn't able to get a loan in just his name. Then he wanted till I dropped our daughter off at daycare and took her and it was over 2 months before I saw her again. Prayers for you
Andy··
Мама троих детей
@soontobe4 they said my husband makes to much money, they don't think they can help me, but I'm going to talk to them tomorrow. It sucks they go off how much he makes. It makes no sense
Brooke H··
Мама двоих (4 года, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
if y'all are getting a divorce then they shouldn't
Andy··
Мама троих детей
@soontobe4 guess it doesn't matter. That's what they told me
Heather·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
Sue him! This isn't right. I'm so sorry momma! You don't deserve any of this. Let's get to work and get your kids back💙
What's It To You?·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)
Sue him for everything, Fack that bullshit. He booted you, filled for divorce, filled for sole custody and won't let you see them or even tell you about them? Fuuuuck all of that.
Andy··
Мама троих детей
I agree
What's It To You?··
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)
I was gonna say be nice but no fuuuuuck him. I read your above comments and my heart hurts for you. I hope you get almost everything. And literally ask for everything. Start out super high so when and if negotiation happens, you can throw what you don't actually want out.
Jacinda ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I second that
Stephanie·
Мама четверых детей
I was wondering how you were doing, haven't seen you in a while. I don't see him doing anything the nice way. Have you spent any time with the kids since you left?
Stephanie··
Мама четверых детей
@ladyfreyja I'm sorry Mama, I hope you get them back like first thing, I hope you're lawyer is able to do that first. I hope some Mama's on here are able to help you out.
Andy··
Мама троих детей
@scidg3 thing is I can't have all three at the moment. I only just started working a couple weeks ago and I'm still living at my friend's, also don't have a big enough car for 3 kids at once
Stephanie··
Мама четверых детей
That's horrible, he left you with literally nothing. You are the mom to his kids. Don't go easy on him, he doesn't deserve it and don't buy into his lies, he just wants to use what good you have left for him to get his needs met.