Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I the only weird one? I HATE my husband touching my stomach! Every time he tries, I move his hand away. It’s like a quick reaction. He says I do it in my sleep too when he tries to cuddle with me. I don’t like my stomach and how squishy it is. He practically begged me the other day to let him touch my tummy and how much he loves and appreciates my body. 😣😣😣 I just can’t!
Doc says I'm still 2cms and I'm about 60-70% softened but baby hasn't dropped completely and I just wanna cry like if she hasn't dropped all the way then why does my pelvics feel like this somebody help how do I get this baby to drop more 😞🤦🏽 ♀
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Corina Romero·
@danimata, wishing the best for you and the baby honey. 😘
Sarahí·
@davsmommy, thanks love, yeah once that happens it's never the same and we would just be really unhappy. as i already am...😢 thanks for the support. 💖
Sarahí·
no if he threw it all away for some one night stand then why would be wana be around my baby? he really does have bad habits, and women is of them. i couldn't stay and be unhappy, imagine how unhappy my baby will be too?! it will never be the same you know @kelseys
Corina Romero·
@danimata, agreed. Be mad ! Take some time, but remember as the great mom you will be that besides the Grimey work of the father it is about the baby ! Take your time to breath and see if it was a 1 time thing... My bd cheated on me while I was pregnant too, I decided to stay for the baby but I'm unhappy n have absolutely no intention having a real relationship with him again. Think about your options. I'm here if you need to vent 💖 good luck. YOU CAN DO THIS !
Kristina·
Мама сына-младенца
@kelseys, makes a good point. I'm sorry he cheated!
Mari·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
why wouldn't he be around the baby after he cheated on you? just because there are relationship problems doesn't mean he shouldn't be around his child because it isn't him that gets hurt and misses out, its the child. unless there's more to it, like he has bad habits/isn't a good person that shouldn't be around for other reasons.