completely heart broken......😢😢😢😢 my long term bf and i are having a baby in mid July and what happens??? HE CHEATED!!!! God i want to go insane... I'm trying to keep my cool for the baby, but every time i remember how i caught him i break down and cry.... it just happened this Sunday, i feel so betrayed... he was crazy about the baby, how can anyone do this?! Now the only thing that's going to happen is that I'm gona have to move out and figure it out on my own...😣😣😣😣😣😣 I would never let him near my child after this, but I'm completely torn. idk what to do anymore i hate him💔💔💔💔
@davsmommy, thanks love, yeah once that happens it's never the same and we would just be really unhappy. as i already am...😢 thanks for the support. 💖
no if he threw it all away for some one night stand then why would be wana be around my baby? he really does have bad habits, and women is of them. i couldn't stay and be unhappy, imagine how unhappy my baby will be too?! it will never be the same you know @kelseys
@danimata, agreed. Be mad ! Take some time, but remember as the great mom you will be that besides the Grimey work of the father it is about the baby ! Take your time to breath and see if it was a 1 time thing... My bd cheated on me while I was pregnant too, I decided to stay for the baby but I'm unhappy n have absolutely no intention having a real relationship with him again. Think about your options. I'm here if you need to vent 💖 good luck. YOU CAN DO THIS !
why wouldn't he be around the baby after he cheated on you? just because there are relationship problems doesn't mean he shouldn't be around his child because it isn't him that gets hurt and misses out, its the child. unless there's more to it, like he has bad habits/isn't a good person that shouldn't be around for other reasons.
@danimata, wishing the best for you and the baby honey. 😘