Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my…
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
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I'm sorry. I also found out my daughter had passed at 21weeks in October last year. Her 20w ultrasound was perfect. We still have no idea why. If you need anyone to speak with I'm here.
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Sorry for your loss I will have you and your family in my prayers ???
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Thinking of you...
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Jesus must have needed him. Hugs & prayers. Lord, be with this family. Give them comfort & peace. AMEN!
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I am so sorry for your family's loss.
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I'm so sorry. I will be praying for you and your family!
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I'm so sorry :( :(
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My heart just completely broke. I'm so sorry for your loss! I can't imagine how you're feeling, but I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers❤ I hope you can find peace in knowing your baby is in paradise with Jesus.❤
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I'm so sorry. I lost a child at 14 months and had a 3 yo at the time. If you need to talk or anything please don't hesitate.
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Praying for you and your family. ? I'm so very sorry.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you! Stay strong
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. ?
Your family is in my thoughts.
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So sorry praying for you and your family.
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I am so sorry for your loss
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I'm so sorry for your loss ?
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I am very sorry for your loss!! Will be praying for you!
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I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. xo
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I'm so sorry! I'm about to say my bedtime prayers and I'll include you, baby, and family! Sooo sorry
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I am so sorry for your loss...
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So sorry for your loss I pray for peace and comfort during this hard time for you Xxx
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I am so very sorry for your loss. RIP sweet baby boy ? prayers to you and your family during this difficult time ?
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I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. God bless you and your family❤️
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:'(
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I am so sorry. I can't even imagine your pain. I will be thinking of you and praying for your healing and comfort ??
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I'm so sorry OP
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So terribly sorry :( you'll be in our thoughts and prayers today , wishing you nothing but strength ?
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Op you can pm me if you'd like. I am truly sorry for your loss. ?? my heart breaks for you.
"No parent should ever have to bury a child."
Be open with the Drs and ask all your questions. You can take pictures, hold, bathe, lock of hair, mold hand and food prints (bring the kit), dress, request a priest and have them weigh, measure your baby if you'd like. They have a small kit they give bereaving families. Op I'm here for you. I'm sorry you and your family have to go through this. This pain has no words. Nothing compares. Sending hugs and love your way.
Edit: they can do genetic screening, placenta can be sent to the lab for examination and or autopsy. Not sure how early they can do those.
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I'm sorry??
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Omg I am so sorry. Hugs, and praying for your family.
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This is so tragic! I'm sorry this has happened.
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So sorry OP ? you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers
When I had my miscarriage I explained to my children that something must have been wrong with the baby and now the baby was with God (I know this would only pertain if you are a believer)
We let balloons go as a memorial and to help the kids "let go"
I wish I had the words to help console and comfort you...((hugs))
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I'm so very sorry.
I delivered my baby girl stillborn around the same gestation. Please feel free to PM me anytime for any reason.
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I am so sorry for you loss, this hits too close to home for me and it breaks my heart just imaging the pain you are feeling in this moment. I wish I could reach out to you and give you a hug and cry together because of everything. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and your sweet angel baby boy ?
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So sorry for the loss of your son :-( I too just lost my daughter at 17 weeks in October. There is a 2nd and 3rd trimester loss group that has some amazing ladies in it and are a great support. Again I am so sorry...
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I'm so sorry for your lost. Hugs and prayers. ? may you have peace in your heart soon.
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I'm so sorry for your lost mama be strong
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Thank you, ladies. Thank you so much for all the prayers and thoughts. It means so much. I never thought I'd be here, in this place of loss, anger, frustration, mourning, questions, sadness... and it sucks more than I could have ever imagined.
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I'm so sorry for your loss, prayers being sent your way!
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You and your family have my deepest prayers and sympathy
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Oh my gosh ? My heart just broke into a million pieces for you. I've been following your story since you came here. Much love to you and your family ♥️ I'm so sorry for your loss ? Maybe try looking for a name for your little boy that has a special meaning.
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Am really sorry you and your family have 2 go thru this. I don't know how old your kids but it must be really hard 4u and harder to tell them. Have your family in my prayers《3
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My jaw dropped reading this title.
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. ❤️
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I am so sorry for your loss!
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I am so sorry!! My heart goes out to you. Sending lots of love and hugs your way.
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I am so so sorry. I can not even imagine how you feel. No one ever deserves this. I'll be thinking of you and your family. ❤
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I'm so sorry for your loss, prayers for healing.
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That's terrible. I am so sorry. I know that hurts.
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I'm so sorry. I have never been through this but I have a soft spot in my heart for you and you can message me any time. I'm praying for you and your family. ?
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I'm so sorry sweetheart May god comfort you in this time
Ashley Roan·
Thank you, ladies. I really appreciate it.
Has anyone delivered a stillborn? PM me if you feel comfortable offering any advice.
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I'm so sorry for your loss ?
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My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
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My heart breaks for you. I'm sorry for your loss
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? I'm so sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine. Hang in there mama. You're definitely in my thoughts and prayers! ?❤
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I'm so sorry op. Many hugs and prayers sent your way ??❤️
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Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. I am very sorry for your lost. Its hard to give words when you don't know how it feels or what you are going through, but I pray you and your family have strength to get through this.
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I posted this for another mama in my group who lost her baby. I had an ectopic pregnancy at 13 weeks and this poem was sent to me. Hopefully it comforts you like it did me. So sorry for your loss.
His Journey's Just Begun
Don't think of him as gone away
His journey's just begun.
Life holds so many facets
This earth is only one.
Just think of him resting
From the sorrow and the tears
In a place of warmth and comfort
Where there are no days and years.
Think how he must be wishing
That we could know today
How nothing but our sadness
Can really pass away
And think of him as living
In the hearts of those he touched
For nothing loved is ever lost
And he was loved so much.
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I'm so so so incredibly sorry girl! You guys are in my prayers. ?
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I am so sorry for your loss. ? May god help you, find strength. Heaven has a new angel watching over you.
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So so sorry? prayers to you and your family
Ashley Roan·
I don't even have a name for him. I have to think of a name. I thought I had months, not days.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry! I can't even begin to imagine the pain you're in, it's something no mother should ever feel. You and your family are in my prayers
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I'm so sorry mama. The worst pain in the world. I've lost four LO myself.
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I am so, so very sorry. I know nothing I say will ease your pain, its a loss like no other. I have been there. I pray God holds you close during this terrible time and the days, months & years to come. Losing a child is senseless and I'm sorry another mother has to go through it. I won't say I understand how you feel, because everyone feels differently, but know I can relate. I only say this because I cherish my pictures so much, but NILMDTS has photographers that will do pictures for free. Even if you never want to look at them, you have them should you ever want to. Lots and lots of hugs momma. Pm me anytime.
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I am so sorry, momma.
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I'm sorry for your loss! Definitely keeping you and your family in my prayers ????
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Oh no!! I'm so sorry! I'll keep you guys in my prayers. ?
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So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family. ❤️
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
Ashley Roan·
Thank you ladies. So so much. All of your words mean so much to me.
I'm just dreading this. Who wants to birth their sweet baby before Christmas and not bring him home? I just can't handle this.
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I am soo sorry, my heart is breaking for you. You and my family will be in my prayers
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Sending you love and positivity during this dark and difficult time. Please stay as strong as you can beautiful. I'm sorry you're going through this. Rip sweet baby boy.
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I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayer to you and your family. Send lots of hugs your way. Again I'm so sorry ?
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I'm so sorry. Prayers for all of you. ?
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I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of you and your family.
My heart broke in pieces and I started crying for you. I know your pain too well and know nothing anyone can say or do will make it better. Many hugs to you.
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This is so sad, I'm really really sorry for you and your family's loss
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I'm so sorry, I'm praying for you and your family.
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I'm am so so very sorry for your loss...we lost our son February 14th this year and it is like a pain I have never experienced....
I wish I would have known about this before we lost him or someone would have told us about this, so please please please do not take it any possible way other than I am letting you know to help you....you're able to get a kit or the hospital can do his fingerprints for you to later have molded into a necklace. I so desperately wish we would have known this to have done with our Jameson....
Much love and positive healing thoughts your way!
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I am so sorry ❤️
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I'm so sorry???
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I'm so sorry. ?
Prayers for you and your family.
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I'm so sorry. ? this is heartbreaking.
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I am so sorry for your loss! ?
Prayers and strength sent your way!
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So sorry for your family's loss.
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Omg. I'm so sorry! My heart aches for you! Lots of prayers going your way❤❤❤
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I'm tearing as I read your post.. I'm 16 weeks and going in to my 20 weeks scan on January 4 and I just can't imagine the pain you and your family are going thru.. I'm sooo sorry for your lost. I will have you and your family in my prayers and thoughts.. Again I'm so sorry ?
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I'm so sorry, prayers ♡
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So terribly sorry for your loss , you are in my thoughts and prayers X
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I am so sorry hun if u need to talk I'm here
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This just broke my heart. I am so sorry. I wish you all the strength to get through this.
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How devastating... I'm so sorry.
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I'm so sorry ❤️
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I am so so sorry. My heart hurts for you :( ❤️❤️
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I am so so sorry.
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I so sorry you have to go through this mama, you're in my prayers ❤️
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I can't even imagine your pain.
I'm so very sorry for your loss, momma!
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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My heart just sank for you. I'm so sorry. I don't have words right now but if you need someone to vent to please don't hesitate to reach out.
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Oh my God, I can't even imagine, I'm so sorry you are going through this mama! You and your family are in my prayers!
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Im sorry for your loss. ?
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I'm so sorry for your loss, you're in my thoughts
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I am so sorry that you and your family are going thru this. There are no words to express how sorry I truly am to be reading this. I pray for peace and healing for you/your family during this time. May God be with you all during this time of need.
Rip precious baby boy!!
Hugs to you.
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I am so sorry for you loss momma. Just reading the heading broke my heart.
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I'm so so sorry. I lost my daughter at 20 weeks almost 3 years ago. I know how bad you are hurting right now, but I promise you it doesn't hurt this bad forever. You learn to live with it. PM me if you want to talk.
I had her cremated and her urn placed in a teddy bear that I keep in my bedroom. For a long time I slept with her. Even now we talk to her :) It have me a lot of closure.
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I am sooo sorry . praying for u all
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I can't imagine the pain you are feeling right now. I'm so so sorry, and truly hope you can find peace ♡
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine how you and your family must feel. RIP to your sweet baby boy. ?
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im so very sorry mama.
you and your family will be in my prayers.
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I'm sorry dear :(
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I am so sorry momma. Prayers for you.
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I am so sorry OP, I cannot imagine what you are going through. Love and prayers for your family.
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I'm so, so sorry. You'll be in my thoughts.
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Omg I'm so sorry
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I'm sorry op
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Praying for your family. So sorry for your loss.
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This just broke me ? I'm sorry doll
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I'm so sorry. Love, light and comfort.
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I'm sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.
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I'm sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.
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I'm so sorry for your loss op:( you will be in my prayers!!
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I'm so sorry ?
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So sorry for your loss
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry. I'll be keeping you and your family in my prayers
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I'm so sorry ??
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I'm so sorry for your loss ?
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I am so sorry. ? hugs!!!! I am praying for you guys
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Oh I am so sorry. ?
Prayers for your family.
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Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you❤
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So sorry OP ?
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I'm so sorry op ? prayers.
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I am very sorry?
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I'm so sorry! Praying for you and your family ??
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I'm so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts.
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Omg!! I'm so sorry!!!!!
I will be sending lots and lots of prayers for you, your sweet baby boy and your family!
I can't imagine the pain! I'm so sorry!
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Oh no...I've been following your story. I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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I'm so sorry momma. I lost my daughter right before Christmas 2 years ago. ❤️
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? I'm so sorry sweetie?
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I'm so sorry for your loss.. I could never imagine. You and your family will be in my thoughts ?
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Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. Prayers for you and your baby.