Am I the only weird one?
I HATE my husband touching my stomach! Every time he tries, I move his hand away. It’s like a quick reaction. He says I do it in my sleep too when he tries to cuddle with me. I don’t like my stomach and how squishy it is. He practically begged me the other day to let him touch my tummy and how much he loves and appreciates my body.
😣😣😣 I just can’t!
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Me and my husband had a similar conversation last night.. he enjoys when I sleep naked with him and I never had a problem before but now I like to have a t shirt on. He wanted it off and I told him I’d rather keep it on because I feel gross and chubby so I don’t like sitting there naked but he tells me constantly how much he loves my body and doesn’t even think I’m fat. I can’t help it though. And I hate when he touches my belly too because of that exact reason. I KNOW he feels I’m fat but he doesn’t wanna hurt my feelings which I appreciate but it still doesn’t help because I know I’m way bigger than I’ve ever been. I’ll be starting my diet and work out plan though so hopefully I lose the weight.
I’m literally the exact same way... also I think it’s because I was always so protective over my belly when I was pregnant that it just never went away, that was my baby boys home! So when anything touches it I immediately grab it or move away. He understands but he said he misses grabbing my stomach when we make love or just cuddling or coming up behind me to hug me. I’m working on toning it but there’s only so much we can do with the skin from pregnancy!
Did you just have a baby or are you pregnant? I loved my BF touching my stomach while I was pregnant and our son kicked him constantly but now I have this extra flab I’m not so sure how much I would like it now but at least he is showing you how much he loves your body still!!! That’s sounds like a keeper to me
No my youngest is turning 3 next month 😭 I had no problem with him rubbing my belly while I was pregnant though. Thank you, he is such a sweetie, sometimes lol
@dontspankme, I could definitely see that then I have this extra layer now that feels weird even when I touch it
Same here and my husband says the same although I feel it’s a trap 😂
@boymom123, my husband never did that bring up my weight in an argument no matter how much shit I talk. Lol
@dontspankme, mine has bigger balls then he actually has
@boymom123, he can never hurt your feelings taking about your belly because you carried your babies in there.
Same. I think it’s because I’m so insecure about it. I don’t let him touch it at all. Very very rarely when I’m pregnant to feel a kick but even then I cringe
I know it’s because I’m insecure about it too. I’m all for it when I’m pregnant though lol at least my belly feels firm that time. Damn that sounds sad right 😂
@ss3mom, @theycallmemommy, you guys don’t understand how happy I’m not the only one. I felt bad when I would push his hand away all the time.
I hate it!!! I always move his hands away when he is trying to cuddle. He thinks I am nuts but my belly is squishy now after having kids.
I’m the same way. I don’t like my squishy belly either. I don’t like him touching it.
My feet are ticklish lol I know that’s not what you meant.
@dontspankme, I hate my feet so I do not want him touching them plus ticklish.
I'm exactly the same! He tells me he loves my belly and it's sexy and the skin is really soft. I'm like bitch, it's fat, saggy and covered in stretch marks, gtfo here 😂😂😂 he gets slapped away everytime too and gets all upset about it. Just let me wallow in all my hang ups thanks!
@dontspankme they just don't get it hey! I mean it's sweet they are still attracted to it, but it's disconcerting for us!
@mamagunn.no.1, yeah it is sweet! Well I carried your kid so you better 😂
@dontspankme damn straight! 😂
@michellemybell09, I’m literally the same! I totally get what you mean lol
@michellemybell09, me too! Now I can tell my husband I’m not the only one
Don’t bother me. But I can’t stand him touching my boobs unless we fuckin 😂😂😂
What?!?! A good boob massage is the best thing ever haha
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I'm exactly the same! He tells me he loves my belly and it's sexy and the skin is really soft. I'm like bitch, it's fat, saggy and covered in stretch marks, gtfo here 😂😂😂 he gets slapped away everytime too and gets all upset about it. Just let me wallow in all my hang ups thanks!