Am I the only weird one?
I HATE my husband touching my stomach! Every time he tries, I move his hand away. It’s like a quick reaction. He says I do it in my sleep too when he tries to cuddle with me. I don’t like my stomach and how squishy it is. He practically begged me the other day to let him touch my tummy and how much he loves and appreciates my body.
😣😣😣 I just can’t!
Me and my husband had a similar conversation last night.. he enjoys when I sleep naked with him and I never had a problem before but now I like to have a t shirt on. He wanted it off and I told him I’d rather keep it on because I feel gross and chubby so I don’t like sitting there naked but he tells me constantly how much he loves my body and doesn’t even think I’m fat. I can’t help it though. And I hate when he touches my belly too because of that exact reason. I KNOW he feels I’m fat but he doesn’t wanna hurt my feelings which I appreciate but it still doesn’t help because I know I’m way bigger than I’ve ever been. I’ll be starting my diet and work out plan though so hopefully I lose the weight.
I’m literally the exact same way... also I think it’s because I was always so protective over my belly when I was pregnant that it just never went away, that was my baby boys home! So when anything touches it I immediately grab it or move away. He understands but he said he misses grabbing my stomach when we make love or just cuddling or coming up behind me to hug me. I’m working on toning it but there’s only so much we can do with the skin from pregnancy!
Did you just have a baby or are you pregnant? I loved my BF touching my stomach while I was pregnant and our son kicked him constantly but now I have this extra flab I’m not so sure how much I would like it now but at least he is showing you how much he loves your body still!!! That’s sounds like a keeper to me
No my youngest is turning 3 next month 😭 I had no problem with him rubbing my belly while I was pregnant though. Thank you, he is such a sweetie, sometimes lol
I could definitely see that then I have this extra layer now that feels weird even when I touch it
@boymom123, my husband never did that bring up my weight in an argument no matter how much shit I talk. Lol
@boymom123, he can never hurt your feelings taking about your belly because you carried your babies in there.
Same. I think it’s because I’m so insecure about it. I don’t let him touch it at all. Very very rarely when I’m pregnant to feel a kick but even then I cringe
I know it’s because I’m insecure about it too. I’m all for it when I’m pregnant though lol at least my belly feels firm that time. Damn that sounds sad right 😂
@ss3mom, @theycallmemommy, you guys don’t understand how happy I’m not the only one. I felt bad when I would push his hand away all the time.
I hate it!!! I always move his hands away when he is trying to cuddle. He thinks I am nuts but my belly is squishy now after having kids.
I’m the same way. I don’t like my squishy belly either. I don’t like him touching it.
I'm exactly the same! He tells me he loves my belly and it's sexy and the skin is really soft. I'm like bitch, it's fat, saggy and covered in stretch marks, gtfo here 😂😂😂 he gets slapped away everytime too and gets all upset about it. Just let me wallow in all my hang ups thanks!
@dontspankme they just don't get it hey! I mean it's sweet they are still attracted to it, but it's disconcerting for us!
@mamagunn.no.1, yeah it is sweet! Well I carried your kid so you better 😂
@michellemybell09, I’m literally the same! I totally get what you mean lol
@michellemybell09, me too! Now I can tell my husband I’m not the only one
Don’t bother me. But I can’t stand him touching my boobs unless we fuckin 😂😂😂
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
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I'm exactly the same! He tells me he loves my belly and it's sexy and the skin is really soft. I'm like bitch, it's fat, saggy and covered in stretch marks, gtfo here 😂😂😂 he gets slapped away everytime too and gets all upset about it. Just let me wallow in all my hang ups thanks!
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@dontspankme damn straight! 😂
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@mamagunn.no.1, yeah it is sweet! Well I carried your kid so you better 😂
Just Another Spider Riding Aussie 🕷🇦🇺··
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they just don't get it hey! I mean it's sweet they are still attracted to it, but it's disconcerting for us!
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Lmfao me too! It is soft and jiggly af 😂