I need help!
I have to plan my own baby shower.
Only thing, I don't know how to plan one. I don't have an idea where to have it. I live in an apartment so that's out of the question. I was thinking about a restaurant but I'm not sure I can afford that right now. And I would do a park, I just don't want to get rained out. I'm planning for March 19th.
I also don't know what type of food or snacks?
My theme is elephants. I know that for sure.

@mommy1222, thanks! I'll message you :)
@aidensmommy, I specialize in candy buffets ..I do babyshowers lots of parties if u need any ideas ..I'm from Fresno aswell or help doing your baby shower ..I'm here if u need someone. .I'm due hopefully this week ..by March I will be back at doing my parties and events..
I planned both of mine and will probably plan the one for this baby too. I do a potluck for food, and do a couple fun games and prizes like candles or bath stuff or gift cards are always a hit too. pintrest has a ton of good ideas. I am doing a bumble bee theme since we will not know what the baby is till its born.
I'm doing mine at my SO's aunts house and planning my own. She was sweet enough to offer to cook the food. Mostly planning on doing finger sandwiches (turkey, ham, etc), maybe some chips and cake. I want to do a desert type food that's "pink" themed. Also planning on doing a few games like where guests cut off a piece of string or something and the one that's closest to what fits around my belly wins. Balloons and simple decorations are cheap at the dollar store as well!! @aidensmommy
No problem! :) cheese and crackers would be another cheap good thing that's yummy just put it in a dish that can be covered so cheese doesn't dry out lol.
@jade90kdcicg, those are really good ideas! Thank you :)
Do the park and for snacks do things like little smokies in bbq sauce made in a small crockpot, fruit like grapes , cut up apples , watermelon ect with some fruit dip and maybe make some sandwich bites out of a really long Italian bread . Maybe trail mix with chocolate kisses pretzels ect. Idk those are just some ideas off my head . Good luck with it :)
@aidensmommy, darn park lodges are the best way to go there are indoor ones thats where i had mine
My mom got pretzel sticks & dipped them in white chocolate & put blue sprinkles on them. And little finger sandwiches or whatever they're called lol @aidensmommy
Pinterest is the best way to plan it thats how im planning mine
does your apartment have a "clubhouse" some apartment complex will rent that out for little to no cost to the people who live there
@lovemyson_610, oh, that's nice. What kind of snacks did you have? Like finger foods?
@babybermea yeah, I've been using Pinterest too. I just don't want everything to get wet of it does rain even with the hood or no one show up because it's raining.
How about. A park with a metal hood over it . So even if it rains it's still good and I planned my own Pinterest has a lot of cheap ideas
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