
Took this lastnight...and I'm not sure how I should feel. I've made a terrible mistake by having sex so soon after having a baby but it has made such a precious thing. I really don't want to have an abortion but my Fiancé does. I understand why he wants to go that route but I just would feel absolutely terrible about doing that. I cried all night...I really don't know what to do. PLEASE NO JUDGING IM ONLY POSTING THIS FOR SUPPORT.
Yes thank you for the advice @hippiebaby89 it is really a hard choice and hard to even think about. I am going to wait another week or so to take another test then go to the doctor as well.
@jackee856, I think you should do whatever you feel is right. I don't think anyone should persuade you one way or another because it is ultimately your decision. Not his, not preggies, not anyone else's. If your faith predicts your decision, then trust in that. From stories I heard of women who weren't sure and we're debating abortion, they ended up miscarriaging and they felt that was their sign from above that it wasn't meant to be. But I'm pro choice, even though I felt horrible considering making that decision myself. It could very well just be hormones too since it's so soon. Retake a test, wait a while and think. Talk to a medical professional and weight your options. Know that either way you go, you made the best decision you knew how to at the time.
Oh yeah I saw this the other day... I will show him @jomommaclark
@karnawest, I know. trying to make the best decision as possible. Praying God will lead me in the right direction @karnawest
thank you so much @jomommaclark I really need to hear that.
Aw, it's a blessing... So many women I know would do anything to have a child... But it is ultimately your decision no one else's. Who knows this "accident" may turn out to be someone really important one day!
just remind yourself nothing is bigger than our God he will see you through. I know it's hard bc I have situations when I just feel so lost and scared. when life gets to hard to stand, kneel. he's got you.
thank you. I know he will. I'm counting on him @jomommaclark
I know it's not want you want to hear but there aren't false positives. even the faintest line is positive. God will provide. you can do this just do the best you can.
No problem mama Keep your head up & try not to be so sad! baby girl needs a happy momma! 😊
I think you in the clear. Just maybe a little extra hormone
@kainesmommy, thank you so much for you kind words.
Yea it was definitely a surprise to me because I just went to the doctor last week for my check up and the nurse told me that I didn't need to do a pregnancy test because I had already had my period. That's why I took one to be sure before starting the pill @mariahappy
Aww don't feel embarrassed! I'm sure you'll handle it just fine! what ever decision you make I'm sure you'll make the best one for you & your little family!
I'll rather let it be a surprise to me. I think I can prepare better for it. But do you breastfeed? because they say breast feeding help you with the separation of kids.
@mariahappy, yea it's a hard thing to think about.
@kainesmommy, yea definitely don't know how to handle that part. whew! I feel more so embrassed too
I have put my self in the same position but I'm so scared to test because he doesn't want anymore kids plus we just had one 😞😞
Oh man.. 2 babies under 1 that's crazy but what a blessing!!
it's so faint I'm almost wondering if I could be left over hormones from you giving birth just last month? or are you just for sire you are pregnant again?
Hey, things happen! 👌🏼 If you are, please don't go with an abortion... 😢 there's woman out there that can't get pregnant and want children. Either keeping it or adoption would be a better idea. I don't know you but I support you 100%. ❤️☺️
I don't believe in abortion either....I really can't see myself giving the baby up for adoption that is just as hard than having an abortion. I'm just going to talk to my Fiancé again and pray that I can change his mind. I'm not strong enough. I'm in tears right now as I type this. @jomommaclark
I don't believe in abortion but I can't force my beliefs on you and I'm not going to try. I just pray that God will be with you and help you to be strong. adoption is a perfect alternative. either way your going to have to live with either decision. honestly I think it would be easier to to with adoption route. I'm so sorry you are in a position to have to consider options. be strong girl.
@jackee856, wow, i believe it's amazing that God blessed you with another so quick 💕👶🏼🙏🏼
I gave birth in the beginning of may @breenda21 we only had unprotected sex twice.
I believe God wouldn't give me anything I couldn't handle but I know he knows I can't handle abortion. I'm too emotional for that.
I've explained it to him@jomommaclark he is being supportive about my feelings.
does he actually know what they do in abortions? you can always put the baby up for adoption.
there is a faint line... the samething happened when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter @princerjmommy
God does things for a reason.. I'm struggling to get pregnant been trying for 5 months :/
honestly if I got pregnant so soon I would to just because all the problems were having already
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Only child
For those of you only wanting one child do you worry about them missing out on not having siblings? I really think I just want my daughter and no more. I don't want her to feel like she's missing out on a brother or sister.
done having kids
For those of you who are done having kids, did you just like know or what? We have two kids. Ds is going to be 4 on the 30th and I just had dd Feb 6th. My fiance says he doesn't want anymore. As of now, I don't feel like I want anymore either but I honestly don't know. I've always wanted three kids. We are still young (I'm 21, and he's 22) I'm no where near even thinking about having another at the moment. I really wanna get settled in life with good income and a nice home bef...
wanted to breast feed and it's just not working out.
I don't have the nipples for it.
I feel like a terrible mom:(
Thinking About Buying a Red Hair Dye Tonight and Do My Hair Tomorrow But Having Second Thoughts. 😕 Hmmmm, Idk if I Really Want Red.
@jackee856, wishing you nothing but the best