Jaqueline
jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)
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Took this lastnight...and I'm not sure how I should feel. I've made a terrible mistake by having sex so soon after having a baby but it has made such a precious thing. I really don't want to have an abortion but my Fiancé does. I understand why he wants to go that route but I just would feel absolutely terrible about doing that. I cried all night...I really don't know what to do. PLEASE NO JUDGING IM ONLY POSTING THIS FOR SUPPORT.

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hippiebaby89
Sarah Lynn·Мама сына (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)

@jackee856, wishing you nothing but the best

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

Yes thank you for the advice @hippiebaby89 it is really a hard choice and hard to even think about. I am going to wait another week or so to take another test then go to the doctor as well.

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hippiebaby89
Sarah Lynn·Мама сына (3 года), беременна (38 нед.)

@jackee856, I think you should do whatever you feel is right. I don't think anyone should persuade you one way or another because it is ultimately your decision. Not his, not preggies, not anyone else's. If your faith predicts your decision, then trust in that. From stories I heard of women who weren't sure and we're debating abortion, they ended up miscarriaging and they felt that was their sign from above that it wasn't meant to be. But I'm pro choice, even though I felt horrible considering making that decision myself. It could very well just be hormones too since it's so soon. Retake a test, wait a while and think. Talk to a medical professional and weight your options. Know that either way you go, you made the best decision you knew how to at the time.

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jomommaclark
Josette·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

do what YOU feel is right.

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

Oh yeah I saw this the other day... I will show him @jomommaclark

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jomommaclark
Josette·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

show this to your fiance ссылка

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

@karnawest, I know. trying to make the best decision as possible. Praying God will lead me in the right direction @karnawest

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

thank you so much @jomommaclark I really need to hear that.

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karnamarie
Karna Marie·Мама сына (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)

Aw, it's a blessing... So many women I know would do anything to have a child... But it is ultimately your decision no one else's. Who knows this "accident" may turn out to be someone really important one day!

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jomommaclark
Josette·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

just remind yourself nothing is bigger than our God he will see you through. I know it's hard bc I have situations when I just feel so lost and scared. when life gets to hard to stand, kneel. he's got you.

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

thank you. I know he will. I'm counting on him @jomommaclark

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jomommaclark
Josette·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I know it's not want you want to hear but there aren't false positives. even the faintest line is positive. God will provide. you can do this just do the best you can.

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trezelle
Trezelle·В ожидании первенца

You can always give the baby up for adoption.

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missing108user
missing108user·Мама троих детей

No problem mama Keep your head up & try not to be so sad! baby girl needs a happy momma! 😊

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layla0223
Jessa Shepard·Мама дочки-младенца

I think you in the clear. Just maybe a little extra hormone

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

@kainesmommy, thank you so much for you kind words.

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

Yea it was definitely a surprise to me because I just went to the doctor last week for my check up and the nurse told me that I didn't need to do a pregnancy test because I had already had my period. That's why I took one to be sure before starting the pill @mariahappy

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missing108user
missing108user·Мама троих детей

Aww don't feel embarrassed! I'm sure you'll handle it just fine! what ever decision you make I'm sure you'll make the best one for you & your little family!

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layla0223
Jessa Shepard·Мама дочки-младенца

I'll rather let it be a surprise to me. I think I can prepare better for it. But do you breastfeed? because they say breast feeding help you with the separation of kids.

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

@mariahappy, yea it's a hard thing to think about.

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

@kainesmommy, yea definitely don't know how to handle that part. whew! I feel more so embrassed too

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layla0223
Jessa Shepard·Мама дочки-младенца

I have put my self in the same position but I'm so scared to test because he doesn't want anymore kids plus we just had one 😞😞

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missing108user
missing108user·Мама троих детей

Oh man.. 2 babies under 1 that's crazy but what a blessing!!

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gaillynn
Gail Garcia·В ожидании первенца

Give it for adoption

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

@kainesmommy,

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)
стикер
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missing108user
missing108user·Мама троих детей

sure**

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missing108user
missing108user·Мама троих детей

it's so faint I'm almost wondering if I could be left over hormones from you giving birth just last month? or are you just for sire you are pregnant again?

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

Thank you @brittanyy_plus1

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missing27user

Hey, things happen! 👌🏼 If you are, please don't go with an abortion... 😢 there's woman out there that can't get pregnant and want children. Either keeping it or adoption would be a better idea. I don't know you but I support you 100%. ❤️☺️

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

I don't believe in abortion either....I really can't see myself giving the baby up for adoption that is just as hard than having an abortion. I'm just going to talk to my Fiancé again and pray that I can change his mind. I'm not strong enough. I'm in tears right now as I type this. @jomommaclark

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jomommaclark
Josette·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I don't believe in abortion but I can't force my beliefs on you and I'm not going to try. I just pray that God will be with you and help you to be strong. adoption is a perfect alternative. either way your going to have to live with either decision. honestly I think it would be easier to to with adoption route. I'm so sorry you are in a position to have to consider options. be strong girl.

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kea
kea·Мама дочки (1 год)

all blessings

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breenda21

@jackee856, wow, i believe it's amazing that God blessed you with another so quick 💕👶🏼🙏🏼

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

I gave birth in the beginning of may @breenda21 we only had unprotected sex twice.

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

I believe God wouldn't give me anything I couldn't handle but I know he knows I can't handle abortion. I'm too emotional for that.

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

I've explained it to him@jomommaclark he is being supportive about my feelings.

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breenda21

@jackee856, you just gave birth last month ?

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missing88user
missing88user·Мама троих детей

okay well let's pray together he will answer u soon

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jomommaclark
Josette·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

does he actually know what they do in abortions? you can always put the baby up for adoption.

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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

I've definitely been praying @momofroyalty

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jabarismommy
Nita 👋·Мама сына-младенца
стикер
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jackee856
Jaqueline ·Мама двоих (младенец)

there is a faint line... the samething happened when I found out I was pregnant with my daughter @princerjmommy

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breenda21

God does things for a reason.. I'm struggling to get pregnant been trying for 5 months :/

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missing9user
missing9user·Мама троих детей

Keep baby !!

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essence
essence·Мама сына-младенца

honestly if I got pregnant so soon I would to just because all the problems were having already

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proundmommy28
Reesie·В ожидании первенца

One line means not pregnant don't it?

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missing88user
missing88user·Мама троих детей

pray on it God doesn't make mistakes!

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