🚨Rant🚨
I feeling completely disconnected from my spouse and it's making me feel so alone right now. He doesn't even pretend to care about anything that I care about anymore and doesn't do anything to show me he cares. I get no physical or emotional attention from him and even just trying to ask him questions about what our plan is when the baby gets here in a week turns into an argument. I don't even want to be around him right now it just reminds me how alone I feel. I text him every morning and wish him a good day and encourage him at work but if I don't text him he literally won't talk to me all day until he gets home. Idk what to do I just want to cry.
@rawrgasaur, I think it's a little bit of everything you said. I talked to him and he didn't really elaborate except to say was just super focused on work and providing for us and he didn't realize I was feeling that way and we would work on it. He's an amazing man but I get so frustrated that I have to remind him not to forget about me. I know it's growing pains and we will work through it.
Have you tried talking to him? I'm in the same boat as you pretty much, only 2 weeks further along, and I have my needy hormonal days. Idk what your husband is really thinking but it's possible that he's feeling like he's getting things together before the baby gets here and totally doesn't realize he's ignoring you in the process. Or maybe he's nervous and withdrawing because he's not sure he's ready (kinda too late for that lol). Bringing up the baby might be stirring up these feelings that he's not sure how to communicate or doesn't feel comfortable discussing. Men are usually discouraged from childhood from openly discussing or acknowledging their feelings so they typically aren't equipped to handle stress as well as the average woman, so it takes a more practical approach and less touchy-feely. I do feel you though. It's hard facing that especially when you feel like you're going into it alone.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
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Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
@queenmother, maybe he needs a sticky note at work that says "be nice to my wife" to remind him😄 I have to remind my husband to do what you'd think would be simple things too because he has a hard time juggling things under pressure too 😰