Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
jenn.p.Мама троих детей
Make sure you have pics as proof that he’s cheating and don’t answer his calls that way you have proof he’s also harrasing you.. so when you go get a divorce everything will be on your side for him cheating and you having proof of it as well.. and tell the courts you do not feel safe with him having along time with your son he’s never taken care of him like he should and you fear for your sons life.. and with the text it’s also proof of that and if he does see him it will be supervised..
Cassie Hammond 💍💓👨👨👦Мама сына (6 лет)
He hasn’t taken care of him for the past 5 months without you being around. I went through this with William
Cassie Hammond 💍💓👨👨👦Мама сына (6 лет)
@jakjakattack, we need to come up with a plan lol
Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца
@jakjakattack I'm back in winnsboro I need to fix it lol
@mrshammond17 crazy moms do do do do do 🦈 😂😂😂
Cassie Hammond 💍💓👨👨👦Мама сына (6 лет)
No! Don’t let him get him because there is no custody agreement and he doesn’t have to give him back!! Msg me
Olivia Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет)
No you’re not wrong at all. If you feel uneasy about it, go with your gut. Let him come over and see him but don’t let him take him until you two have a court ordered custody agreement. People DO use children against the other parent, it’s horrible but it happens and you’re doing the right thing by being cautions.
Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца
Thank you. I think he would do anything to make me stay with him
Not at all! I have known so many parents who's exes suddenly changed and became unsafe. I know one who's wife took her kids and moved to Canada! I believe you can file a temporary custody order until you finalize your divorce. This way you have a paper trail. I did this with my ex and had my parents added as sole custodians with me due to his behavior. People can become very rash and irrational. When it comes to your children it is better to have a safe plan in action. I would also document anything he has put in writing. Do not take phone calls!
Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца
Ok. I have a bunch if texts
@taymw11 that's good hun
Jana Мама троих детей
I would not let him take him until there is paperwork. He could just not bring him back. But I would apply for child support (it's not being petty it's just to make sure he helps out. But visitation is a whole other case seprate from child support that he will have to pay for or you guys can agree upon and get it on paper.
Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца
Hes crazy. I hate this
Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца
I just dont trust him to take care of lane
Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца
@shaneengregory29 I wanted to be civil but might have too
Shaneen GregoryМама троих детей
@taymw11 yes
jenn.p.Мама троих детей
@taymw11, why would you want to be civil with a man who cheated on you? And took your family away.. and one that has no respect for you and calls you a hoe and a bitch? All civil went out the door when he decided to stick his dick in someone else.. you need to be the bad guy now
Shaneen GregoryМама троих детей
No u not wrong if u don't want him to take him don't let him
Rose Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
No, definitely not.
MassMomma16Мама дочки (2 года)
No and since there isn’t a custody agreement he can take him and not give him back. They will tell you to sort it out in court. Might as well get the process started!
MassMomma16Мама дочки (2 года)
@taymw11, seems he wants to do it the hard way if he’s harassing you. It will put guidelines in place and be the best for everybody. Really just prolonging the inevitable. He doesn’t get a say anymore anyway! Good luck!
Taylor BoudreauxМама сына-младенца
@massmomma16 thank you!
jenn.p.Мама троих детей
@taymw11, yep if you want your son in your life you better not give that baby to him without court papers and the court involved.. if you do then your gng to loose him and everything and he’s gng to start the process and take you for child support..
Nope, and if that’s how is ass wanna play it put his ass in child support, and he can have monitored visits with his cheating ass
Shaneen GregoryМама троих детей
@taymw11 wht u mean
Shaneen GregoryМама троих детей
@taymw11 is he still texting you
jenn.p.Мама троих детей
@taymw11, get him as mad as you can so he can send ugly messages and you have all that as proof just print them out..
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katelyn·Мама дочки-младенца
You have every right to feel that way
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