Little late but been enjoying every moment with my princess since September 21st. She had to be transported by helicopter to a NICU hospital for jaundice. Thankfully she was only there for a week. I couldn’t have my baby in a different hospital while I’m laying in bed in another. My doctor discharged me less than 24hrs after giving birth so I could go be with her. I was in pain for sure and pushing myself too much and needed to rest but I needed to be by her side. Introducing Alexandra Mercedes ❤️

So my ex has not been apart of this pregnancy at all. Hasn’t asked about the gender, name or anything. Never mentioned baby once after I told him I was pregnant. I get a message from him this morning (group message with my parents) stating “I would like for someone to inform me when Ashley goes into labor so I can be present thanks.” Haven’t heard from him in over two weeks in regards to our daughter we already have smh It wasn’t even apart of my plans to “inform” him, am I wrong for that?

So as of right now I’m waiting for my ex to be put on child support. He doesn’t know about it yet. So he thinks sending me a box of diapers every other month and a $25 giant grocery store gift card once a month makes sense..... then on top of that whenever I receive the diapers he says “so no thank you? Smh” why should I have to thank you for something you should be doing for your daughter in the first place? Do I get a thanks for EVERYTHING I buy or for even taking care of our daughter???

Haven’t thrown up my entire pregnancy, but this acid reflux got the best of me tonight 😫 and I ran out of tums 😫😫

So sad in my town last night a father had visitation rights to his 3 yo daughter and was supposed to return her at 6:30pm. When he didn’t show someone reported seeing his truck at a local park. Cops went to check it out and found that the father shot the 3 yo and himself inside the truck. 🙏🏼😔 thoughts and prayers to baby girls mother and family

So I’m filing for sole custody with supervised visits. I’ve told my ex I am happy to meet him somewhere so he can spend time with our daughter and he is absolutely refusing. He is now screen shotting all our messages and only responding in a group message with my parents. I respond outside the group message, he screen shots and responds in a group message. How old are we again?

So irritated today. This whole time my mother has been by my side in my decision to file for sole custody with supervised visits. I told my daughters father he could visit with her today but he will not be picking her up. Well he decides he doesn’t want to visit. He starts calling my dads phone, and his mom is calling and texting my dad. Now my parents are asking why can’t he just take her, completely flipped the script and making me feel bad. I’m sorry but her safety comes first. Was a very dif...

So my ex is asking to spend time with our daughter on Father’s Day and we haven’t started the court process or anything yet. The last time I went against my better judgement and let him take her. Showed up 30mins late and returned her 1hr 45mins late. Just had me sitting in the parking lot waiting worried to death. So I was advised to tell him he can spend time with her but I have to be there as a condition. He doesn’t want to come to my parents house but where could I tell him we could go?

Going on 5:30 am and my sleeping beauty has been asleep since 8pm 🙌🏽.... me on the other hand have been up multiple times 😫😫

So my ex went to court and filed for visitation rights. I was served last week. I am not comfortable with our daughter being around him alone nor his mother which he lives with. I have proof of him asking me to take his drug test for his job for him in text messages and him texting me he was too high to drive and get our daughter milk. Is that enough to show the judge? As far as his mother she watches his son quite often and told us she gives him nighttime medicine if she has problems getting hi...