I need advise as soon as you ladies can! me and my ex split up we have a 1 year old son together. he is a huge dead beat but a big facebook dad but that's beside the point. I met an amazing man and we are so happy together my son adores him. the flip side is he smokes pot BUT never around me or my son or beings it into the home. and the father of my son likes to use that to scare me saying since he smokes ill get full custody easily. I live in Nebraska is there any momma out there that can ease ...