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I need advise as soon as you ladies can! me and my ex split up we have a 1 year old son together. he is a huge dead beat…

I need advise as soon as you ladies can! me and my ex split up we have a 1 year old son together. he is a huge dead beat but a big facebook dad but that's beside the point. I met an amazing man and we are so happy together my son adores him. the flip side is he smokes pot BUT never around me or my son or beings it into the home. and the father of my son likes to use that to scare me saying since he smokes ill get full custody easily. I live in Nebraska is there any momma out there that can ease my nerves. ill pick my son over anyone but I want to known the facts before I cut him off. thank you mommas

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sunnyribbons

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How does he know he smokes? It would be wise for you to keep that under wraps. Secondly, I would think about whether or not his smoking is something that you can truly accept in your life or not before it begins to cause problems in your relationship. Next, I doubt that he would get Full custody anyway, but you may want to do some research about that or contact a lawyer. I would say that your ex sounds like a coward and he's probably just trying to scare you and intimidate you because he's jealous, but don't feed into it. Live your life as you please and ignore his negative comments. And if you have not already, go file for child support.

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