I need advise as soon as you ladies can! me and my ex split up we have a 1 year old son together. he is a huge dead beat but a big facebook dad but that's beside the point. I met an amazing man and we are so happy together my son adores him. the flip side is he smokes pot BUT never around me or my son or beings it into the home. and the father of my son likes to use that to scare me saying since he smokes ill get full custody easily. I live in Nebraska is there any momma out there that can ease my nerves. ill pick my son over anyone but I want to known the facts before I cut him off. thank you mommas
I worked as a Substance Abuse Counselor for adolescents here in MO. I called CPS on a family once because my kid was trying to get sober and they were leaving pot in the house and my kid knew where it was (which usually led him to get back into his DOC). They told me unless they were leaving it on the coffee table or something in plain sight where any young kids could get to it; there was nothing they could do.
of he's not bringing drugs around, not being high while with your son I'm sure you're ok. I don't know the law in your state but if your child is in his care and he's high that's a big nono, and if he brings drugs into the house or even has them on the property that isn't good either (like keeping them in his car) if he comes over and acts like a normal part of the family I don't see why it would be an issue
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
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When can I start giving my son regular milk? He turns 10 months in 2 days. I bought unsweetened almond milk yesterday so he can try. Would that be okay? I’m lowkey tired of him on formula but I mean he’s still a baby lol.
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him...
all you can really do is go talk to a family lawyer and ask them what the law is on that type of thing and go from there.