I'm a full time mom with no help from the father we are together but he doesn't help his friends come over to play games all night so he can't help me because they are what bs is that! Then he won't help at night because he works.. Even on wknds he doesn't help it get up with Bentley. Then he freaked on me saying I need to get a job I don't have a car and my family can't buy me a car like his did for him and how can I afford daycare making nothing at fast food and I don't want to be in my 30s working at fast food I want to go to school. I'm so depressed and it's because of him he doesn't care because he works and his mother is all mad at me for everything because he plays daddy of the year and I look like a lazy bitch to them when they don't see I take care of a sick baby all by myself 24/7 the emotional abuse I can't take but I'm too in love to walk away :(
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I know how you feel. I've been in this situation before. my fiance didn't want to be with help me with our daughter or anything he just wanted to play video games and run off and be with his family so I left him. we didn't break up but I wasn't going to stay in the same house as him without any help. I stayed with my mom for a week and when I came back he changed. he said he realized what he had when I wasn't around and since then he hasn't played the video games once and hasn't ran off without me and he helps out more with our daughter.
my so gets slapped if he thinks he can say something like that,and as for the mom she will get slapped to
And remember your son seeing this is teaching him it's ok to treat women like crap.
The reality of the situation is shotty to say the least. Yes he chose to have sex that resulted in a child, doesn't mean that makes you automatically grow up and be a parent. You'd be much better off just walking away and providing a better life for you and little one. There is no sense in you becoming overwhelmed with his bullshit, his anger, and dealing with the baby at the same time. There are ways out there to help you get on your feet and into school as a single mom. Don't give up on yourself and don't feel you need to suffer.
I can't I've tried Talking to him he got pissed and said I'm putting off working and blah blah I'm always wrong and always a bitch if he was so helpful and perfect why would I be drowning he chose to get an expensive place I wasn't allowed to work while I was pregnant but he still threw that in my face
I'm falling apart why does he have To be so mean you choose to have sex so man up! I have no friends since baby because I couldn't "do anything fun" but I'd rather rock my baby then get messed up
I did move out he didn't care then when I came back for a week nothing changed now he threatened we won't be together if I don't move back in. Asshole