Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Was I wrong? 🤔 I took my 6 year old to school this morning and the way it’s set up is kids hang backpacks outside classrooms in hallway. I was watching him from the office door because he asked me to. His teacher stands outside the classroom door to greet the students. He is in a reading group and has a plastic packet that has tons of reading material to read every night. Well he dropped it and there were probably 50+ papers scattered on ground . I watched him for a bit and so did the teacher. The 1st bell rang so I walked over to help him pickup the rest. The teacher scolded me and said I shouldn’t have helped him. She said she could’ve helped but didn’t . 🤷🏻 ♀ I seen my kid struggling and didn’t want him to be embarrassed or late .
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Dd was hysterical when he left And it broke my heart. Her dad dropped her off tonight from his weekend and she wouldn't let go of him. He made no effort to help and I had no idea she was that strong. I had to peel her off him as she tried her best to hold on and she cried and screamed. He left and she just kept crying for him. Changed her diaper (he dropped her with it leaked through her pants) she was still crying for him. Tears streaming screaming DaDa over and over. I was crying too. I hate seeing her that upset. 5 - 10 min after he left when I was cuddling her and comforting her she finally stopped crying. It was probably 30 - 40 min after he dropped her off that she was finally normal and not clingy.
My son is part of the IEP program where he receives extra help. (He has adhd) I feel torn that everyone agrees that he has to be taken out of the regular classroom of 30 kids and put into a special Ed class. My son really wants to stay in his classroom and even though I was told that I could fight against it and have rights as a parent, I don’t feel that is the case. Almost every year since my son was in kindergarten, he keeps getting taken out of his classes and switched to another class. I feel like it is affecting him where he feels that he isn’t wanted like he feels somewhat abandoned in school. In kindergarten half way throughout the school year, he was taken out of his regular class and put into a special Ed class. Then he was taken out of the special Ed class and put back into a regular class for 1st grade. In 2nd grade the teachers wanted to put him in a special Ed class again and thank god the pandemic happened where he was able to finish his class without switching. 3rd grade he did remote for the whole time and stayed with his class but now 4th grade comes along and they want him to switch to special Ed class again. I get what they are saying that he may be able to concentrate more with a smaller group setting but I have a feeling if they switch his class that 5th grade he will probably have to switch again and 6th grade. I feel bad for him because he wants to stay the whole time with his classmates and teacher. My son is shy and it takes him a little while to adjust to everything. It just sucks that once he is used to being around everyone then he has to switch. 😩 I don’t know what to do.
JenX·
We're declining this session of the test, they offer it again in March to April. They wanted me to take my kid to a hotel and then go wait in my car while she takes a 3 hour test. Efff that. I'm not worrying if she had to go pee and some creep grabbed her.
JenX··
@icebergahead I totally agree. We have a zoom call with the superintendent today and I think they are hoping most of us will just decline the test until covid chills out and kids can get vaccinated if they're going to in the spring.
There's no way there will be enough staff to safely supervise a group of 3rd graders for 3 hours. That's putting way too much on a teacher because you know they will all get bored and need to pee.
And all hotel staff would know parents aren't there. Predators just wait for opportunity and this just reeks of it.
The test is to make sure they can read at a 3rd grade level. Not to be cocky, but my kiddo has extremely high MAP test scores. Her teacher last year said in her 15 years of teaching she'd never had an 8 year old hit high school numbers on the test. So I think we will just go ahead and pass this nonsense and test in the spring.
Icebergahead··
Мама сына (10 лет)
I can not believe they even thought about the idea of dropping children off at hotels.
Testing high? That sounds terrific!
Icebergahead··
Мама сына (10 лет)
When dd had to go for testing at her school last year, the teacher came out and guided her.
That is how it should be.
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (10 лет)
Aw, he was lost?
Sistersmainpiece··
he shouldn’t have been, if he followed his smart moms directions. lol he’ll learn one day.