Dd was hysterical when he left
And it broke my heart. Her dad dropped her off tonight from his weekend and she wouldn't let go of him. He made no effort to help and I had no idea she was that strong. I had to peel her off him as she tried her best to hold on and she cried and screamed. He left and she just kept crying for him. Changed her diaper (he dropped her with it leaked through her pants) she was still crying for him. Tears streaming screaming DaDa over and over. I was crying too. I hate seeing her that upset. 5 - 10 min after he left when I was cuddling her and comforting her she finally stopped crying. It was probably 30 - 40 min after he dropped her off that she was finally normal and not clingy.
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Lol at B.
Quelinda if you couldn't make the connection between them being separated and his relationship with their dd then you need to stop talking think. Obviously the child is no longer around both parents all the time like they used to be. And girl you not cool because you said kanye shrug. He is an ass why do you want that connection to you.
As hard as it is now, it will get better. I promise. You will soon enough be happy, she will eventually get used to pick ups and drop offs, and things will just work. Might I suggest using a travel journal to communicate with him. You both write anything the other needs to know and exchange it every pick up and drop off, no excuses. It's a great way to keep from discussing things with her there, tempers don't flare, and it's all documented in case of court. Just as an idea. It was suggested to me and my son's dad in mediation earlier this year.
Quelinda - he did do something to her. By cheating on me he broke up her family. He made it so she is no longer living with both parents. He made it so she has to have her heart broken when he drops her off. I'm not entirely sure why you're arguing with me on this. I'm upset and needed to vent. Watch your baby cry hysterically because of a situation you feel someone else caused with their selfishness and get back to me.
Cerah - that is very true. He loves her and she loves him and I know at least he is a good dad to her.
It was her birthday on Thursday so we spent pretty much the whole day together plus her party last weekend. It's unfortunate, but it seems like when he sees her extra outside of the regular schedule she has a harder time with drop offs.
Well its not like you put that in your post. *kanye shrug* but he didn't actually do anything to her, what he did was to you. Her relationship with him & your relationship with him should be 2 separate things. He's still her dad whether you hate him or not, he's just no longer your SO.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
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I'm sorry panda. He sucks. Your happy ever after will come and I promise he will wake up one day knowing he had a great lil family and threw it away. Big hugs