Since day 1 I have given my SO the benefit of the doubt. His mom died 2 weeks before our son was born so I let a lot go telling myself he was mourning. We live separate and he wouldn’t ask to see his son so I wouldn’t ask him to. Anytime I asked friends with kids they would say “he’s a man, it’s different for them” and more excuses like that. He now blames me for our son crying saying my mom and I held him too much as a newborn. When we spend the night over there he sits our 4 month old in the swing and expects him to be fine for hours only taking him out for feedings and changing. I told him this is bad for his social and motor skills and that he needs to be entertained. He replied to me “then you entertain him 24/7” never would I ever want to keep our son from his father but is it reasonable now? He’s not willing to do what my 4 month old needs in order to grow..help!
I had child support to begin with I did it without telling him and when he found out he wanted to act hurt. Said he’d rather give me money than have the government take it from his check. So I basically have to ask for money anytime our son or I need something and he only gives me that amount...🙄🤦🏽♀️ like wtf
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Just get child support his true colors will show I’m sure he will disappear like the rest