SO missing ?? Wth is going on , I'm beginning to panic he is not the cheating type never has he let's me go threw his…

Wow what a loser.

What an a****** I would leave too especially after telling him it's a deal breaker. I can't believe he thinks you're just supposed to take him back.

that's just how it came off when I read it. no man should be tellin other women they're sexy online, that's not friendship that's looking for a relationship.

Hmm.. mines missing too at the moment. Must be something In the air. a****** s..

Wow I am sorry. Guys suck! And men are always TERRIBLE liars. I can always tell when my bf is lying. Last year when I found out he was talking to another girl he had a strange number in his phone that he had called at like 1am. I asked him about it and he said it was his manager from work ?. So I said okay call her and act casual about it. He took his phone ran into the other room and was gone for like 15 minutes (we were at his parents house so I wouldn't follow him). When he came back the number was mysteriously deleted but a few weeks later I am on his account paying his bill and I see the number over and over again every day and night. I called it and a girl answered....

It's not so much allow pp I just don't see the point in him meeting new females online when all the ones iv seen write him are saying hey sexy blah blah its different if he meets a friend threw a friend good one though lol... Anyways he says he didn't sleep with any of them but I honestly do not believe that I do every thing for him and he turns and runs my heart into the ground , just last week he was talking about engagement and having another baby he knows he brought this on to himself and he's just going to suffer , when I told him we only need to be friends for our kids sake 4year old & a 5 month old he said "friend really" as if I was suppose to take him back I dont even know.what all was said there's stuff I probably didn't even see and was so pissed at the time I seen enough and confronted him , but it is what it is and I'm not going to change my mind he messed up and ruined 2 years , I don't control him by any means he does what he wants but he was also given these girls money one even said her phones off if he wanted to talk he was going to have to pay to turn it back on lol same girl rumored to have HIV in our city . I more or less hate him right now and have already made a appointment and a follow up

I'd leave my phone off too and disappear if my boyfriend had to "allow" my friends.

Lol men are so damn stupid! What did he say?

Call the local jails and local hospitals and check to see if he's there. That will help I hope!

Wow hunny that sucks big time but I'm glad you found out the truth so fast.

dam good job

What! SHE feels like HES seeing somebody else? So he's acting single? What an a****** .

Wow guys always have a way on lying...but they never know theres no better detective than an angry girl

That sux op.

Grr what a pig!

Omg I can't believe that! What did he say? Did he try lying? Ugh such an ass!

Holy s*** .... good job!

I went threw his phone when he was asleep and bammm! His fb was full of messages 3 girls talking about they miss him one saying they need to stop talking she don't want drama she feels like he's seeing someone else I told him good bye And I don't believe n second chances

Get him girl!

This has happened to me. I freaked out when my husband didn't come home from work one night, and called a friend and was out searching for hours, driving anywhere he couldve been.

Turned out after work (bartending) his co workers decided to get him trashed and took him to their house. He had is phone on and everything, they all know me and met me but no one said where he was.

He stumbled in the door at almost noon the next day and he acted like the ish he pulled was justified because he didn't drive drunk.

He said, " I thought you'd be happy I didnt drive drunk"

Well, 1... Your not supposed to be drinking at all. 2. Married men are not supposed to party this way- should've stayed single for that life ...and 3 How did you not think of how pissed I would be knowing you didn't come home nor inform me of anything?

He's testing your boundries, in my opinion. Set him straight.

This idiot was with his friend , calls me and says his phone was dead but my phone doesn't ring all the way threw when its dead...makes no sense I'm just going to ignore him the rest of the day since he isn't concerned about talking to me at all, kinda sounds like he's kissing my butt, I answered this was the convo.

Me: hello

Him: what are you doing?

Me: oh just been worrying about whether you were dead or not.

Him: my phones been dead.

Me: mhm so where have you been and what have you been doing ??

Him: (laughing) I love you baby.

I was with chase my phones been dead.

Okay first off he sounds like he's lieing, I allow him to have female friends but of course I have to know them and , no new friends that's my rule lol there's no reason he should be hunting for a female friend anyways that's why I say that, the thing is lately he won't have his phone out when he's around he just ignores everyone and turns it off.....this is what brings up a flag is he doing me the same way around someone else, surely he isn't that stupid , because given my past he knows I will be gone In a heart beat and never look back. Cheating is a deal breaker for me. Iv expressed this to him and had him in tears before he obviously cares and I don't want to overreact but I don't like how he just didn't contact me for 24 hours straight , guess ill determine what he's been up to based on how bad he's kissing my butt once he gets here. , iv learned from the past all men suck up when they've done wrong even if You don't even suspect it . I'm going to get him now then I will update sorry so long lol oh also he's the type that is always looking at his phone to check the time or listening to music, he said its.disrespectful to be on the phone around me when hes trying to spend time with me .

Everyone gave really good advice I hope you find him safe and in good condition

Maybe he doesn't have credit and keeps missing your calls. I do that all the time. But like others have said just work down the list.

If you can't go to his house or can't get in, call non emergency police number and ask if they can do a welfare check.

If you have any phone numbers of his friends or family call them. Facebook them? Hope you hear from him soon!

You can also call the jail intake number and ask. Some jails have an automated system you just type in his birthdate. Hope All is well. Keep us updated!

Goodluck girl

Found out anything OP?

Update?

I'd be freaking out too.

Praying you find him soon! Keep us updated girl.

Keep us updated! Hoping he is okay!!

I hope he's ok! Keeping you in my thoughts.

Everyone has had some good advice! I hope you find him safe and sound.

Definitely go by his house first! Then follow through with everything else that the ladies have said. Update when you can!

I hope everything is ok!

In so sorry. I would suggest what others have said

Go to his house

Ring family and friends

Then ring police. Hospitals and the rest

Keep us updated praying for you my sweets xx

Call hospitals, local police depts and call his mom if nothing comes up.

I'm sorry that is scary if he may if been arrested I'm sure u can check the inmate locater. I'm sure he is someplace and his phone just died but I'd be freakin out also. Sorry Hun keep us all posted cuz were gunna worry for u.

Bump for update. X

Go by his house

Call his friends and family

Call local police stations

Call local hospitals

Call local morgues

All you can really do until its been over 48 hours for a missing adult.

Go by his house?

I'm sorry. Try some breathing exercises. When I had a month of panic attacks back in June, I learned to get them under control with different breathing techniques. I know it's really hard right now because you're probably having a period of bad anxiety, but please try to calm down. Try contacting family or friends of his.

Does he have an iPhone and the find my iPhone app? If you know his iTunes name & password, log into the app and it'll tell you where his phone is (if the phone is on).

I'm sorry hun! Does he have any friends or family you could call? Maybe he slept in and didn't charge his phone?

Just remembered you said you don't live together. I would go by his place and check before you call the police.

Have you contacted friends and family to see when is the last anyone heard from him? Check hospitals as well. If nothing and you're on the east coast it's been 24hrs I would call the police and report him missing.

I know and it scares me even more because I had a panic attack in my sleep around 2am could have sworn my heart was going to beat out of my chest

Wow, I really hope you find out soon :(