I'M being irrational?! ???

I would do as a pp said and block his number, I would rather go it alone than have him anywhere near bub. I'm sorry your having to hear such negative things at what should be a happy time!

Stay strong you seem to have a lot of that!!

Im kind of in the same situation and it sucks

You'll be fine and who's to say the baby won't have a sad just because he doesn't want to step up and take responsibility. Hopefully things change

He sure wasn't thinking of his culture when he was having a sexual relationship with you. He is a big boy and knows sex could result in creating a human life. He is just using his "culture" as an excuse to be a d**k. Ignore him and take care of yourself and your baby. Don't let this sorry excuse of a man ever bring you down. Your a brave mama God bless you :).

Thank you all for the love and support. I thought we were being careful. This is actually a birth control baby. AND a rainbow baby. We had a miscarriage in May of last year. We weren't careful back then so I got on the pill immediately after the miscarriage. It was devastating and I didn't wanna go through it again. So for him to even think I'd have an abortion is absurd.

You're going to be a great mum! Ignore the guy I bet as soon as the baby is born he'll want to see it. That's when u tell him that he's irrational!

Aww! **Hugs** I'm sorry you have to deal with such an A-hole! But congratulations on the little blessing! ? I think your son will grow up to be a much better man without that POS father anyway! It breaks my heart that he is doing this to you.

Keep on being a strong woman! You will meet someone else who will be more than happy to be your sons father figure! The biological father needs to go away. I hate him! ? (based off of your post lol)

Oh, congratulations on your baby!!!!

What an a$$!

I think you should block your number until you know that his comments will not affect you or the baby.

Do not give him the satisfaction of a single increase in blood pressure.

If he didn't want any "mistakes" he should have protected himself!

You sound very strong! Stand up for what YOU want! It's your body and choice and you don't NEED him to be there so do what you want!

It takes two to get pregnant. If he was that worried, he should have been more careful.

I'm Hispanic and my husband is middle eastern. We have a beautiful 2 year old daughter.

His loss if he doesn't want to be involved, but he should still financially support him. If I were you I'd get him for child support.

You should be very proud of yourself. You chose the life of your child before that dimwit. And that was the right decision. You should have flat out told him, your son will have a father. It just wont be him.

Fxck'em. You don't need him anyway. Lots of hugs and well wishes sent your way!

@liz

He's Armenian and I'm Mexican.

Good for you for standing your ground!

What is his culture?

I just don't understand how they can be that way. If it's so unheard of and wrong in his culture to be with anyone of a different race or have children out of wedlock then why start a relationship with me? Why act like he's different and it all doesn't matter just to turn around and hurt someone like that. Ugh...

@Pleut

Yeah he also mentioned how hard it's gonna be for someone to want me with kids. Lol. (I also have an 11 year old)

Congrats on your son. It's nothing irrational about owning up as a mother. His loss. You will gain so much joy from your son. Be encouraged ?

Thank you ladies. You got me all teary eyed!

You are showing your inner strength and that is beautiful!

Him? He's a coward. You will live a life full of love because of your baby and he will live with regrets. (((Hugs))) ?

Stand your ground momma! He is obviously a huge jerk and you and your precious baby boy are worth way more than giving that low life any of your time. Proud of you girl :)

It looks horrible in his culture to bring a baby into the world without a father....

SO BE A FATHER, YA IDIOT!