I'M being irrational?! ???
The father of my child (I'm 18 weeks pregnant) says I'm being irrational because I won't get an abortion. I'm almost 5 months and he's still trying to convince me to get one! What the f*ck?! He decided two weeks after I told him that he wants nothing to do with me or baby. I tried for maybe two weeks after that to speak to him but he kept treating me like sh*t so I stopped. I haven't done anything or tried talking to him since and he' avoided me at all costs up until a few days ago. He sent me a text asking if we can talk. I said ok and the first words out of his mouth as I walked up to him were, "I'm never gonna see the baby or be there for him. You know that right?" I was like wtf? "That's what you wanted to tell me? You kinda made that pretty clear already." He then proceeded to say he thought that by acting like a jerk I would have had an abortion. And how can I bring a child into the world that won't have a dad. And it looks horrible in his culture. How can I do that to him? What if he looks for him later? And how is he gonna feel knowing he has a child out there somewhere that's his? I told him that's not my problem and it's his guilt to carry because I'm having my baby boy. If he changes his mind and wants to see him he knows how to contact me as I would never try to keep him away from his child. It's up to him. Starting asking me if my friends are "egging me on." Lol. Um...I have a mind of my own. I told him I'm not like him. His family and friends are putting sh*t in his head. They all hate that I'm pregnant. They hated that he was with me to begin with. He used to say he didn't care what anyone said. But now I see he's just like them. I made it clear I want nothing from him. He saw that he couldn't convince me and started saying I'm being sooo irrational. Really?? I'M being irrational because I don't want to kill my baby?? My God...the ignorance is strong with this one.
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He sure wasn't thinking of his culture when he was having a sexual relationship with you. He is a big boy and knows sex could result in creating a human life. He is just using his "culture" as an excuse to be a d**k. Ignore him and take care of yourself and your baby. Don't let this sorry excuse of a man ever bring you down. Your a brave mama God bless you :).
Thank you all for the love and support. I thought we were being careful. This is actually a birth control baby. AND a rainbow baby. We had a miscarriage in May of last year. We weren't careful back then so I got on the pill immediately after the miscarriage. It was devastating and I didn't wanna go through it again. So for him to even think I'd have an abortion is absurd.
Aww! **Hugs** I'm sorry you have to deal with such an A-hole! But congratulations on the little blessing! ? I think your son will grow up to be a much better man without that POS father anyway! It breaks my heart that he is doing this to you.
Keep on being a strong woman! You will meet someone else who will be more than happy to be your sons father figure! The biological father needs to go away. I hate him! ? (based off of your post lol)
You should be very proud of yourself. You chose the life of your child before that dimwit. And that was the right decision. You should have flat out told him, your son will have a father. It just wont be him.
Fxck'em. You don't need him anyway. Lots of hugs and well wishes sent your way!
@liz
He's Armenian and I'm Mexican.
I just don't understand how they can be that way. If it's so unheard of and wrong in his culture to be with anyone of a different race or have children out of wedlock then why start a relationship with me? Why act like he's different and it all doesn't matter just to turn around and hurt someone like that. Ugh...
@Pleut
Yeah he also mentioned how hard it's gonna be for someone to want me with kids. Lol. (I also have an 11 year old)
Thank you ladies. You got me all teary eyed!
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I would do as a pp said and block his number, I would rather go it alone than have him anywhere near bub. I'm sorry your having to hear such negative things at what should be a happy time!
Stay strong you seem to have a lot of that!!