So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him…

@myboys1962 no revenge! I know you are angry and hurt....pray ! God said vengeance is his! God will handle worst than you can. Mommy you are stronger than you will ever know!!

Don't get him fired, cause you'll need to file for child support! I know how badly you want revenge, I felt that way about my ex husband, he cheated and left me For a 17 year old , high school student /employee. We were 32. I wanted revenge. But I also wanted alimony. I wanted to make him suffer, but I wanted to keep the car. I kept waiting for the right time to tell him I knew, to get him back, and ya know what, To this day, I never called him out on the fact I know he cheated (found out after we were divorced) I stopped caring. I met my new husband, and now I'm pregnant. My ex is engaged and I'm happy for him. (she's 20 now). I know you're hurting like hell now, and as cliché as it sounds, life will get better. It's hard to move when you've put everything you've had in a person and they just toss you aside. Pick yourself up, and show them how wrong they were. SUCCESS is the best revenge. I'm so sorry this is happening to you, and it's definitely not fair. You deserve to be treated with respect. Good luck 💖

@halifax6 ohhh dear thank u sooo much im sorry that happen to u..im also happy that ur happy now ..n yes i have to learn how to be strong

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@sakyraandmydaughterjamilliya yea ik ...im not

Don't post his pics on the internet u can get into trouble

Don't get him fired, cause you'll need to file for child support! I know how badly you want revenge, I felt that way about my ex husband, he cheated and left me For a 17 year old , high school student /employee. We were 32. I wanted revenge. But I also wanted alimony. I wanted to make him suffer, but I wanted to keep the car. I kept waiting for the right time to tell him I knew, to get him back, and ya know what, To this day, I never called him out on the fact I know he cheated (found out after we were divorced) I stopped caring. I met my new husband, and now I'm pregnant. My ex is engaged and I'm happy for him. (she's 20 now). I know you're hurting like hell now, and as cliché as it sounds, life will get better. It's hard to move when you've put everything you've had in a person and they just toss you aside. Pick yourself up, and show them how wrong they were. SUCCESS is the best revenge. I'm so sorry this is happening to you, and it's definitely not fair. You deserve to be treated with respect. Good luck 💖

@takesma i dont think so i sent nasty texts to his phone ...naked pics...he hates me now

@myboys1962 he will unblock you eventually. He's just in his feelings.

@excitedmom2be i hope so im so hurt

@campey i do miss him soooo much this is the longest we been apart i havent seen him since Thursday

@takesma thank u ur sooooo rite

@takesma yea im trying to...idk how he going be there for the labor when he block me from contacting him

@myboys1962 He will be there for the delivery... sometimes space heal things. But if you get revenge you will mess it up permanently. Don't contact him at all, give him total space.

@myboys1962 He will be there for the delivery... sometimes space heal things. But if you get revenge you will mess it up permeantly. Don't contact him at all, give him total space.

@myboys1962 no revenge! I know you are angry and hurt....pray ! God said vengeance is his! God will handle worst than you can. Mommy you are stronger than you will ever know!!

I wouldn't bother. Karma gonna handle him and you don't want it coming back around. You have your kids to take care of. Eff him. If he doesn't way to be apart of the birth, it's his loss and something he can't get back even if you guys do get back together. Focus on you and those babies. I know that's the common advice after a break up but it's best.

Just be great and let Karma get to his ass... be the best woman and mom you can be.. focus on yourself love yourself and become a better version of yourself.... and say fuck him...... I'll block his ass right the fuck back and get your life together... it's a new day let him go... you don't need no worthless as man who get a woman pregnant then block and leave her... trust it will all come back to his ass....

@myboys1962, I will . I will definitely .

@teebear74 i will try hun please please pray for me

@myboys1962, lol try to drink smoothies too at least if that's what you can muster up to put something on your stomach .

@teebear74 yea i know its just soooo hard i just been drinkn hella juice n soda

@myboys1962, but you have to force yourself to eat and sleep sweetheart . At least for the baby's sake.

@teebear74 i cant wait til that day..cus i cant eat or sleep

@myboys1962 it will eventually

@myboys1962, you're welcome & in due time. Like all other pain , it will gradually get more tolerable

@teebear74 awwww thankkk u dear i really want this pain to end

@charmed040309 yes im thinkn of no other man rite now. I just want this pain to be over

Don't do anything. Karma will get him. Revenge isn't so sweet. The revenge he'll get is seeing someone love you and your kids the way he didn't get to, but of course in time. Don't go getting in a new relationship you need to heal and be there for your kids and yourself

@myboys1962, I feel you cuz I'm 35 weeks too. Shoot it's hard being in a relationship at this point let alone ending one , but you have my support honestly . Im sure you hear it a lot like I do , but I genuinely lend a listening ear or even a possible friendship if you want or need one.

@tattedmommy2018 i hope it gets better also

@teebear74 yes i know hun it is very very hard im 35wks n looks like imma be alone pushn my baby out smh

@myboys1962, whatever the reason , just leave it be. Ya know, don't dwell on it for too long, you have more important things to think/worry about. It's natural for us to sit there and have our minds wandering over all the possible questions and answers & scenarios but at the end of the day, that baby coming out healthy and then raising he/she to the best of your ability is what will imprint the most.

I meant don't. Sorry. Your a strong independent woman and deserve more that someone wasting 4 years of your life just to turn around and not want anything to do with you or the baby. I hope it gets better

@tattedmommy2018 girl im trying my best

@teebear74 yes ur so rite...4yrs we been together n he just walk away from me the crazy part is this is his first child

Be the better person. Dony stoop to his level

@myboys1962, just let his actions speak for him, if he really doesn't want to separate whatever happened between you two from fulfilling his duties as the father of that child brewing inside you ....then so be it. That's his choice, he may regret it, he may not but if he really is going to make that choice then that just means he wants another man to do what he cannot do. & just live your life, be the best individual and mom that you can be and whoever is meant to father that child (or simply be a "mentor-father type" ...then so be that. But you do your duties as a mother because that is what that child is going to remember .

@scx327 yea thats whats stopping me from calling his job

@myboys1962, yeah I understand but it’ll get better. Don’t make him get fired cause that’s the job that’s gonna be paying the child support 🤷🏻‍♀️ right? Lol gotta do what you gotta do

@teebear74 yea i hope u rite

Revenge never ends well. Just deal with the hurt ...and take care of yourself and your child. Pettiness won't help the situation nor will it magically bring him back . What's meant to be will be . Guys usually hurt later on anyways .

@scx327 im so hurt tho...then i was the one to help him get his job

No, just think of your baby. Forget about him, he’s not worth it. I’m sorry he left but maybe it wasn’t really love since you’re wanting Revenge. Think of your baby, cause if you end up doing something like that, it’s gonna turn around and bite you in the ass.

Think of Karma...