Hey ladies question so I’m messing with this guy and me and him been talking for a minute and we have been having sex and like some stuff is off like he don’t want me at his house and he’s 30 and like he comes round only at night time and like after we done having sex he hurry up and wash his self off like his face and mouth and penis with soap and when we kiss he want me to wipe my lipgloss off first
Does these sound like signs of him cheating and him having someone back at home ??????
Shit id be lieking just to see. But thats just me. I k my hunny and i wash off after butbits bc im a super clean person . butbyeah hes uaing u. Imcaorry girl. I normally know if my friends or coworkers are seeing someone etc.
He not using me he using her lol we just friends and we just have sex I feel bad for her if that’s really what he is doing but I’m gonna remove my self from it because I don’t want no drama or like her finding out by coming over here
I know he is he washing real fast and than blame it on Condom smell lol and than try hurry and get back home smh
The fact that he’s thirty and don’t have a house is a red flag 🤣🤷🏼♀️
@outnumbered, right I’m not gonna even try figure it out like I just know he cheating and I’m just relazieing it by like I said him washing real quick and stuff
Ok I am that shit wild as hell smh I’m like why hell he got the whole soap and everything smh
@lilcici, yeah the first time he pulled out the soap 🧼 I would’ve side eyed him and bounced
@kx2girlmommy, lol right like I did after though than that’s when I put everything TOGATHER
We just friends and stuff I’m not trying be with him that’s what he been saying to me and but I caught on it today after we had sex and I’m like oh hell no that’s wild as hell
I’m just now catching on first time he did it I wasn’t thinking but like the third and fourth time I’m like why are u wiping off like that and carrying soap with you
That or he lives with his mommah? Or doesnt have a place of his own so maybe roommates?
No he said his sister he live with and like he said he got sneak me in smh at the age of 30 and like after we have sex he literally carried soap and wash his face and dick area like come on that’s cheating 😂
@lilcici, sneaaak you in? whaat? at 30. Girl! Just that as an excuse he gotta go 👋🏻 And the washing part, that is kind of weird unless he’s a huge germaphobe. You gonna try &’ find out whats the deal? Or just cut it off completely?
@lilcici, I mean I get wanting to clean up after but with everything combined it’s a red flag.
@kesh-kesh, yeah like he blaming it on the condom smell lol no he brought a whole bar of soap and got the scrubbing everything and than he doesn’t text me at night he will wait till real late or like the morning
@lilcici, oh he a prepared cheater. Got his own bang clean up bag. Oh naw if you can’t talk to me or call me at any time I’m going to know what’s up. Yeah just walk away you don’t want they drama.
I know he is I’m just now actually realizing it fr because he keep washing off real bad and his face and stuff and I’m like something not right nooo
@lizortiz1989, I’m not we was never TOGATHER anyway it was just a friend thing and stuff but like I’m gonna have to because I just now seen the signs today
Ik like he should just leave smh because I can get killed cheating on someone or she can find me and kill me if she ever find out but yeah he doing everything he cheated does like expectly wiping him self down like that and bringing soap with him smh
@lilcici, I would just end it. It sounds very casual... I’d just ghost him and leave it at that
@bunsinmyoven, okay I will but we work TOGATHER so that’s gonna be very very hard smh 🤦♀️
@lilcici, oh wow, that’s awkward. You could just end it and be honest as to why🤷♀️
Sadly, you’re the side chick.
Cut him off real quick. That’s what guys with girlfriends/Wives do.
Yeah well we just agreed on friends that have sex but like now that we been doing it I see a whole cycle like he come at night and we do that and than he will wash his whole body and blame it on the condoms than he come and than leave real fast like keep checking the time
@lilcici, nope. Sounds fishy as hell. Let him go
@j.concepcion, oh right I’m not gonna even tell him I know he cheating I’m just gonna stop talking to him because I can’t have that kind of drama in my life or no one killing me because he cheating and I feel bad for who ever it is because she don’t know he coming everyday at that and than she don’t know it’s heartbroken but I clearly see now all the signs it took me a minute
Well we just friends and I been knowing him for a lil minute and like we started messing round having sex but like I said like after we done like he will just literally take condom off and like just start washing everything on him and be like what time is it I got to get back and all that I’m like something not right at all smh
Yup that’s what married men do or if he not he definitely live with her and he cheating on her something terrible because he coming every night and we having sex but right after he will be like I hate the condom smell that’s why I’m washing off and he wash his mouth face and penis I’m like what the hell
Yes , for sure. Stop having sex with him until you figure it out. You don't want to catch something or get pregnant
Well we using condoms so I know I’m not gonna catch anything I keep condoms and yup because he washes off with soap every time after we have sex and like he only come at night and like I said he wants to kiss but when we do he don’t want any kind of smell or perfume on him
Yup I definitely agree and he claim he live with his sister and I’m like one your sister wouldn’t care if I came over or not and like why are u caring round soap and wash cloth to wipe off after we have sex saying he don’t like the condom smell smh
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