Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
When can I start giving my son regular milk? He turns 10 months in 2 days. I bought unsweetened almond milk yesterday so he can try. Would that be okay? I’m lowkey tired of him on formula but I mean he’s still a baby lol.
So I was googling something on my husbands phone today and I saw his recent search history it just popped up, and he was looking up porn. Am I crazy for getting upset with him over it?? I mean I'm 30 weeks pregnant I know I don't look hot, but I try to make an effort to have sex with him but he doesn't want to! I'm upset cuz he's getting off to all these random girls on the Internet. :( I don't feel good enough.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
charlotte alfieri·
@mama_of_2_under_2, aw yeah get a babysitter and find a job and save your money and move the fuck out of that miserable dick heads house you’ll be so much happier and a weight will be lifted off your shoulders
Shani ·
Same here !! I feel like I’m obligated to be in this relationship for the kids !! But if he is more of a burden just let it go better than being unhappy
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@jadasweet0218 I will and thanks man I couldn't sleep if I didn't get this off my chest.
Jada Cincere·
@mama_of_2_under_2, I understand it's like that sometimes just make sure you do what's best for you and the kids and that's all that matters
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@jadasweet0218 right and thanks I feel as though if he change his childish mentality maybe we could work out I'll try to talk to him tomorrow. I'm really trying to give him the benefit of doubt.
Jada Cincere·
@mama_of_2_under_2, exactly not your job don't play that role if you unhappy leave that shit alone if you feel like it can work then stay other than that girl do what's best for u
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@jadasweet0218 I try to and then it's like oh that's a problem for you now. Or this or that I'm just sick of his ways. K. Michelle said it best you can't raise a man. I'm not even trying to raise him. That was his mom job.
Jada Cincere·
@mama_of_2_under_2, girl all I can say is if u tell him how you feel he don't fix it or at least try to fix it leave his ass
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@jadasweet0218 I swear I am i feel like I'm his Damn mom and he got one she's still alive.
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@mct 4 years off and on actually I do think it plays a little part and then I think it's cause he don't think before he say or do and it pisses me off. And then the constant lying to me and to his parents it drives me nuts. I hate liars I tell him to fucking just tell the truth and he still lie.
Jada Cincere·
@mama_of_2_under_2, 👏🏼👏🏼
MoT·
There is the question of hormones. During this pregnancy I find I'm way more angry about everything. My mom constantly tells me I'm getting upset at my husband for things that I'd normally let go. You don't think that has anything to do with it do you? How long have you two been together?
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@aria.lyric I'm ready to
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@mct exactly I'm trying for the sake of my unborn child.... but ugh I'm miserable.
Chae Campbell ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mama_of_2_under_2, please leave. You can find better or be content by yourself
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@jadasweet0218 me too because if not it's adios
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@aria.lyric exactly it's like why did I even bother. Like I love him but I also love myself and my son and my happiness. He doesn't see he's making me miserable.
MoT·
@mama_of_2_under_2 that seems like a pretty good indicator that forever with him isn't going to make you happy.
Jada Cincere·
@mama_of_2_under_2, I hope things turn around for you girl good luck
Chae Campbell ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mama_of_2_under_2, he made it clear then he wasn’t adding to you and had nothing to give.
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@mct I see we been living together for 3 weeks and I want to rip his throat out.
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@jadasweet0218 I'm seeing it now
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@aria.lyric he didn't buy my ring I bought it. He gave me nothing when he proposed.
MoT·
Things don't get easier once you actually get married. They only get harder.
Jada Cincere·
@mama_of_2_under_2, smh he's a jackass
Chae Campbell ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mama_of_2_under_2, yes you can! take that ring back! Or Sell it some how & keep it moving.
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@aria.lyric I'm fine without him I was a single parent before he came in the picture I can do it again.
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@jadasweet0218 exactly I didn't say nothing just picked my son up and held him while this fool say gimme him. Like tf no I'm pissed and he sleeping now.
Chae Campbell ·
Мама дочки-младенца
Try taking a break. See how you are without him. I definitely wouldn’t recommend settling for less than what you deserve. You can do bad by yourself! Lol
Jada Cincere·
Yea that's some bullshit like why would you just watch him fall idiot
Deliaha Day·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (19 нед.)
@charchanel I would love to but I have no where to go with my son because I'm not going to be living with an ex. My son is 1 years old and then I'm pregnant now. I'm just tired he comes home from work and complains he doesn't want to do shit. Like I want to be stuck in the house, cooking, cleaning, and taking care of my son. I don't work but I swear if I need to I will find a baby sitter.
charlotte alfieri·
Dump his ass! He sounds like an inconsiderate asshole✌🏻he saw the baby falling and didn’t do anything then wanted to play victim NOPE bye with all of that 👌🏻