My husband and I feel funny about me seeing a male doctor next week lol he said I trust you just make sure he doesn't make any extra penetration lol it feels weird knowing another man will be putting his hands down there 🙁😳 lol
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@noturprops lol I agree, not in a bad way about the length of his fingers, I just think it will be nice to not feel so pain from her being so rough next time, at least I'll have someone who doesn't need to be as rough lol
@venomadams956 I didn't even take into consideration the length of his fingers. I just think men genuinely care better for our vaginas , medically speaking lol I think women in a doctor's setting or nurses are sometimes cold and their bedside manner is terrible. That has been my experience anyways.
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@star_wars_freak_2010 @noturprops That's what I'm looking forward to, is the whole long fingers because my doctor is smaller than me and she has to reach and push my stomach down and it kind of hurts and it's pretty uncomfortable, but so far I've only heard good things about this man, the nurse was telling me that he is really great and no one has problems with him, which is great! Lol
@venomadams956 So funny! This is my first time having a male obgyn also. I have to admit...I'm so thankful I got over my fears of a male looking down there because he is so much more gentle and he has an attentiveness to my needs and comfort. :)
Ann Ermey Мама двоих (младенец)
I had a male doctor (because that's all that was available at the time. The female doctor had just left the clinic) and when they started checking my cervix I preferred the male doctor versus the female midwife because the male doctors fingers were longer and it didn't feel like he was trying to reach as hard as the female did.
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@kariannemarie exactly lol
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@nomli I'm pretty sure they will let me have a nurse in there, hopefully lol it shouldn't be a problem though lol
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@venomadams956 ugh same hell even my primary dr whom ive had since i was 1 thats a male weird me out
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@kariannemarie Lol Oh yea I don't doubt he's going to be professional it's just the fact that it's another man is what makes me nervous
MonicaМама сына (1 год)
Whenever my male OB does an internal exam, a female nurse always comes in. I never asked, I guess it's just something they do to make women feel more at ease. Can you request a nurse to be in the room with you?
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Lol thats how i felt in general about having a male OB but when i really think about it theyre professionals and when the time comes if it needs to be a guy gettin this kid out of me than its a guy lmao
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@theinkedmommy Me too, I'm trying to be positive and I really appreciate your positive vibes 🙂 it's helping me calm down about it a little ☺
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@ninaberrygood15 yea lol i had no choice for another female doctor because this guy works with my doctor so I couldn't say no lol
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@venomadams956, I think it’s weird too. My mom couldn’t care less, I guess it’s just an age thing. 🤷🏼♀️ I’m sure it won’t be too bad though. 💞
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@theinkedmommy I don't really have a choice to see another female doctor as well because he's the person that works with my doctor lol
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@theinkedmommy Yea, my doctor is a female but she's going to be gone next week just for that week so I'm only seeing this guy doctor once but idk I'm ok with only seeing him once it's just the fact that I have to see a male doctor is what makes me nervous. Plus since my husband and I got married he's the only man that has touched me and it's just an awkward thought to think about another man being down there for like 6 seconds lol
Netta WuenschМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
My guy said the same thing. But my doctor always been a woman lol
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@venomadams956, I completely understand where you’re coming from. Do they have any female doctors there? My office had 1 male and the rest were all female.
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@theinkedmommy I know that it's just I've had a bad history when I was growing up with men and I just feel uncomfortable being around ANY man alone, I understand they don't look at me that way it's just my anxiety gets the best of me a lot
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@kkmamax3 Thank you 🙂
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My husband didn’t want me having a male doctor. I didn’t really want one either (just not my personal preference). I just can’t get past it. I know they aren’t creepy perverts who enjoy seeing vaginas all day though. My moms male doctor chose the profession because he lost his mom to cervical cancer.
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@mommy.of.two Oh that's good ☺ now I have something to make my hubby feel better about it 🙂 thank you mama!! 🤗
Male doctors are wayyyy more gentle.
Nissa Smith🤰🏾Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@venomadams956, lol it will be fine. They are usually more gentle and a female nurse stays in the room the whole time
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@ashtonndamon girl I sent a picture of the doctor to my husband and said this is who I'm seeing next week and his first question was why lol I told him he could go with me but he can't because of work 😣
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@mommy.of.two Lol idk if this guy is straight or not but I'd be more comfortable if he was gay lol
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I feel/felt the same way but didn't have a choice. It pissed my boyfriend off to the point where he only came to one appointment where I had to be checked
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@mommytoatlas lol girl neither does mine! I'm just like let me jab my fingers into you and see how you like it! 😂😂😂
Nissa Smith🤰🏾Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
@mommytoatlas, they are! Mine is a gay guy and I love him lol
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Strippers. How do you all feel about your SO/hubby going to the strip club? I honestly have jealousy issues and I dont approve of it for my SO, as he already doesn't like too go. But i feel like if he wants to see women stripping on poles, I can be his own personal stripper. Lol ? I am just curious to see what others feel and think!
??? My child is NOT disgusting just because he has HFMD. I feel beyond awful that he even has it, but now I feel like facking shat since my family makes it seems like he's so disgusting. I'm just gonna lay in bed and cry ??
Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
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@venomadams956 amen sista!
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