Strippers. How do you all feel about your SO/hubby going to the strip club? I honestly have jealousy issues and I dont…

No, absolutely not. He would not appreciate me doing it and I feel the same. I view it as going outside of your marriage for sexual gratification, which is not okay with either of us.

If it's for a bachelor party or something, cool. If it's just because he wants to go then not cool. Thankfully my SO grew out of that phase about 10 years ago.

Couldn't care. I would be asking questions if it was a every day thing , but if it's for a party etc I wouldn't care X

Hell no... If he's happy with what he has he shouldn't want or need to go!

Eh...on a regular basis? That would annoy me. On occasion? Not a problem for me. I'm not a super jealous person and I see it as just a silly bonding activity for boys. I'd be more annoyed if my hubby played video games on a regular basis... ?

I go with him most of the time .... It's funny most of the time

As long as we can go together lol

And how is looking at other naked women respecting you? Allowing a man to disrespect you is not being cool it's being foolish. Why when the world already tempts him day and night would a woman allow her man to look at other women as candy and think he wouldn't desire a bite? For girls who say that "I trust him" this is just foolishness. Protect and take care of what is yours. Also, if he loves you, respects you and is committed to you this would not be on the table as even a possibility in his mind. He is going to be a father. A father to YOUR child. Hold him up to a higher moral standard for you and your baby.

That sort of thing has always bothered me. I know it shouldn't, and I trust him. I just have jealousy issues and body issues. I feel like if he sees another naked women he won't look at me the same way, like he will compare her perfect fake boobs to my saggy stretch mark covered giant nippled balls of fat haha

Oh f*** no. I'd slap him if he tried.

I think the whole thing is trashy and gross and a pimple on the butt of humanity.. I dont advocate overindulgence, or negativity. Makes me ashamed to be a woman, or a human for that matter. Ugh. I need a shower now. . ?

Nope!

Only for stags.

It wouldn't bother me but I doubt he would even go. Maybe in his younger years but now he would view it as a waste of money.

I guess it helps that we've never had trust issues in our relationship that we ever feel like either one of us would be unfaithful.

??Doesn't matter where he gets his appetite as long as he does his eating at home??

I don't think it's ok but as long as I can do the same then I guess but what would be the purpose and how am I supposed to feel about that?

As long as he doesn't spend to much money I say go for it lol. You guys should go together sometime! It's actually kinda fun

Nope I will never be okay with my husband going to a strip club ????

We live by the basic principle that if you wouldn't do it in our home, you shouldn't be doing it outside the home.

We're not into promoting women in those environments. I don't think it's healthy for the women.

I don't mind it, my husband only goes if his friends go. He doesn't really like strip clubs. I trust him and know he only has eyes for me :)

For my personally, I'm not okay with it. We've been to a burlesque show together, and that was fine because I was with him. But he knows how I feel about it, and he always says, he's seen strippers in his youth, and it wasn't all it was chopped up to be, he would much rather see me dancing naked than some stranger. Which in all too happy to oblige. Lol.

I would go with him. Lol not pregnant obviously. But I dont care. I know my boyfriends type and he also doesn't really like them too much.

No f*** ing way, just no.

Nope. I see it as a form of cheating. He should not be looking at any other female naked , getting turned on by anyone else or getting touched by another girl. I would be livid if I found out he went.

My husband and I have been to plenty of strip clubs together.

Y'all saying he'll no need to go to the male strippers. Legit awesome

Yea he coming coming to me with a boner some other woman gave him f*** no!! Lmao I wouldn't allow him!

A big hell nawl...my S/O will not be seeing anyone else strip unless it is me

Mines to cheap to go to one ?? but if he wanted to I wouldn't mind as long as he told me but he doesn't like that stuff

I wouldn't be comfortable with it. I fully trust him, but I just think those places are disgusting. Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those flaming feminists but I just think it's disgusting that an industry like that exists! Sure, there's porn, I'm not a fan of that either...why? Because "jobs" like those are showing women that they'll be viewed as worthy by someone else if they take off their clothes and show their sexual side. I may have a daughter someday and I would NOT want her daddy teaching her that it's okay to drag her self-worth through the dirt and take her clothes off just to be valued by a dirty old man. Call me old fashioned? But we ladies have gone through way too much to earn the right to be paid equally to that of a man, among other things, and choosing that sort of job is wasting our efforts, so to speak. That's my take on it!

Uh. Fack. No ?

I 100% trust my husband but I do not think he should be going to a strip club! He hasn't ever been to one and he said he never wants to go to one. Just my opinion!

I trust him not to do anything with anyone else. We go together

Hell no, my fat ass can strip outta my granny panties for ya, u don't need them strippers!!!!

Hell no. So many people our in a relationship where they flirt with other people and do this and that. Like no that's not how God made love to be. Those place are just a bad energy filled with pervs, druggies, and alcoholics. I would feel so disrespected if my man would ever go or even ask me.

Nope, nope and nope.

I went with me fiance once and finally got to see what went on inside of strip club honestly I didn't like it it sort of made me mad when the girls came to sit in his lap.But I will trust him to do what he suppose to do and not mess up a good thing.

I told my husband when we got married (I was 22 weeks) he could have a stripper for his bachelor party if she was more pregnant than i was. I personally don't think he needs to be staring at women's bodies in that mentality. I don't do that with men and don't think my husband should get a free pass to do it with other women

Mine ran a strip club for years.

Nasty stripper boobs are overrated, most of them are on drugs, and they want money not a relationship.

No harm, no foul in my opinion.

If you are jealous then the answer is no. It's better he find a "healthier" way to "get off" if that's what he needs. A way that you approve of! If you don't approve of what he does and he does it, the relationship will not be good anymore.

Personally I don't mind if my hubby goes to a strip club. My reason is he never looks at girls other than me. He really does not look at anyone else. I'm pregnant now with only about a month or 2 to go, and I do not want birth control and he does not want to be on birth control either (I don't blame him, his is more invasive) so I told him no sex! So if he needs to get off well he already watches videos (I'm fine with that). But I personally could not go 10 years without sex. I could not go a month without it! (except while pregnant I have not wanted it at all). So I told him that if he needed a "boyfriend" I am fine with that. No women for him other than me! Teehee (my husband is bi and super super super loyal).

I have absolutely no issue with my husband going to a strip club. I'm from the south and strip clubs are really a place to hang out for both men and women. I've gone many times without him with just a group of my friends. In fact I recommended the strip club that he went to in my hometown the night before our wedding with his groomsman and frat brothers. They were all so impressed and had an awesome time. My husband also DJ's on the side and recently DJ'd some private gigs for some strippers outside of the club. I'm totally fine with that as well. Oh one last thing, strip clubs normally have the BEST food.

I should also say my fiancé has been sober for 12 years so if he did anything, he'd be completely sober and is tell him to f himself ?

mine don't even want to go , he never has and said he never does I've asked him if he wanted to go a few times with me , he feels if he doesn't want to see me as a stripper he's not about to pay attention to someone else doing that ??

Hell I'd join him lol. My husband has no interest in going when he can see me naked for FREE.

That wouldn't happen in my marriage. I tried being buddy buddy with exes and going to things like that and pointing out other women like they would do with their guy friends but that turned and slapped me in the face. None of those relationships lasted and I was completely taken for granted and they never saw it an issue when they did something disrespectful and wrong. So no. Never and I wouldn't expect him to ask me to go to sown thing like that

before I was pregnant my daughters father asked me can he go to one I did say yes ( even tho he never went ) because I trusted him at the time but that was only because he never goes out and I wanted him to have fun I think I'd only let it happen as a ONE TIME thing

I personally say hell no! Don't approve of it lol .like why would you need to go spend that money going out with your cousins to a strip club when we can spend it on something else for us and we can go out ?lol something id say to my husband .

First off I'm married so some of these comments about I trust him and I don't mind.....I trust my husband to but unless he going to let me go to av make strip club her can't go to see women taking their clothes off and dancing on a pole

My SO never goes, never wants to. He did play a show where they had go go dancers on stage and he was laughing the whole way home because of how nasty they were. I found myself a man who finds self respect attractive.

I used to work at one and I would say HELL NO! its not just dancing, I've seen so much stuff that I would leave him if he went to one. Bachelor parties are the WORST! They use it as a pass to get one last grope or more... I've only seen two guys in the entire time I've been at a club be faithful to their woman at home. Seriously. Gross

My husband don't go alone but we do go together and have a good time.

My fiancé went last night for his Bachelor party. I then had nightmares he left me for one ?? I trust him though and know he couldn't get better than me so if he ever did stray, good luck with him lol

If he was going with his buddies for a reason such as a bachelor party, I'd be ok with it as long as he's not paying for lap dances. But if he was just going for the hell of it or going frequently... I probably wouldn't be so cool about it lol

I would be okay with it if he told me. Or if I went also. We used to go every now and then to see my best friend dance

If he were to want too go, I'd go with him! But i wouldn't allow me to go with a group a friends cause men are sneaky and they'll probably be a little too touchy. Rather they say they will or won't. I want my SO to have eyes for me and ONLY me. If he is attracted to another female that works a strip club than there's no need to be with me.

I wouldn't care.. shoot, I might just join him

As long as he tells me, I could care less. It isn't like he's having sex with her. I'm comfortable enough with our marriage to trust him.

No way! When u single do whatever but when u married, he better have eyes only for me or here's the door... Why get married if u still wanna party with other women?! Don't get married then. That's my opinion. ?

I wouldn't mind, I trust him.

Just because he were to go to one, doesnt mean hes not attracted to me. Plus, hes comminhg home to me at the end of the night.

Hell no it's like why does he need see other girls if he happy with what he has

I could care less if my husband went to a strip club. But as long as he told me about it upfront. Going behind my back is a no-no! I trust him not to do anything.

Hell no ?? I wouldn't want my man to even be in that environment.