Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
i think I'm going to ground my son there's this 15yr old that hangs out with him mind you my sons 7 and I see my son across the street with 2 kids his age and like three 15 year old when I was 15 I was not trying to hang out with kids anywhere near that age I have told my son not to once before and the boy now knows but sneaks and hangs out with my son teenagers are up to no good idk if he smokes and will try to make him or what ever I just sent his steldad over there to get him...and this 15 yr has a brother my sons age he asked to sleep over a few weeks ago I thought he meant his little brother but nope the 15 year old wanted to I said no I would have to ask there dad(step dad) but I wasn't really going to and he came over anyways stayed ate and k called his mom told him he invited himself over and took him home he's like 6'0 I'm pregnant (7-8months at the time)and he was following me every where in the house as I was trying to clean if go in my room he'd knock on the door and say my son wanted me when he did not that made me very uncomfortable glad I took him home my sisters and I think he may be autistic because of some of his ways the day after I took him home he came over when my kids were still sleeping my bf told him they were gave him his football he left and he came back again after my bf went to work with xbox 360 games mind you we don't have one and I told him that the day before then came back again with a blanket and said his mom wasn't home I said I'm sorry but we can't have company can't you go to your friends or cousins house 😒 then how did you get your blanket I was thinking in my head....idk I've seen him hang out with kids his age like right now. now back to my son he has started lying when I catch him in the act even if he sees me watching the park is directly in front of my house so he needs to stop the lying hate grounding but he can't go outside anymore today he always ends up with that kid...😡 my dad agree he shouldn't be by him same with sister and bf n friends
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
tara ·Мама четверых детей, беременна
Your husband is in the wrong if that was my other half no matter where we was or who was there I would of told him to leave or if it was not my family I would of left with my sons I would go mad if my other half done that to any of my kids and the fact I said he done it before and he can do it in front of ppl that is disgusting get rid of him before he dose something else xx
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