i think I'm going to ground my son there's this 15yr old that hangs out with him mind you my sons 7 and I see my son across the street with 2 kids his age and like three 15 year old when I was 15 I was not trying to hang out with kids anywhere near that age I have told my son not to once before and the boy now knows but sneaks and hangs out with my son teenagers are up to no good idk if he smokes and will try to make him or what ever I just sent his steldad over there to get him...and this 15 yr has a brother my sons age he asked to sleep over a few weeks ago I thought he meant his little brother but nope the 15 year old wanted to I said no I would have to ask there dad(step dad) but I wasn't really going to and he came over anyways stayed ate and k called his mom told him he invited himself over and took him home he's like 6'0 I'm pregnant (7-8months at the time)and he was following me every where in the house as I was trying to clean if go in my room he'd knock on the door and say my son wanted me when he did not that made me very uncomfortable glad I took him home my sisters and I think he may be autistic because of some of his ways the day after I took him home he came over when my kids were still sleeping my bf told him they were gave him his football he left and he came back again after my bf went to work with xbox 360 games mind you we don't have one and I told him that the day before then came back again with a blanket and said his mom wasn't home I said I'm sorry but we can't have company can't you go to your friends or cousins house 😒 then how did you get your blanket I was thinking in my head....idk I've seen him hang out with kids his age like right now. now back to my son he has started lying when I catch him in the act even if he sees me watching the park is directly in front of my house so he needs to stop the lying hate grounding but he can't go outside anymore today he always ends up with that kid...😡 my dad agree he shouldn't be by him same with sister and bf n friends
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@santistevanmommie, thank you
That definitely makes it tough. You'll get through it tho!
@mariceladez, if I catch him again I sure will be doing that
@pregnant1109, I have to I don't want my son to turn out to be a thug or kid in and out of jail
@liamandaria, I just don't know how to ask the mother I wouldn't want to offend her because if he is I'd have no problem with him at all
@odixiedelight, @babynova12.5.14 I sure will be sticking with them ,my son was never like this until he met him
@santistevanmommie, oh I am and I'm sticking to it IDC if he wants to give me all the attitude in the world or how much energy I run out of dealing with him,can't wait till he's back in school because that's when he's good and stays out of trouble sense this summer he's been starting to act out and he has a 3yr old brother who does everything he does
@mrsmoore, I would go talk to his mother . you might be right he could be autistic .there's this little boy that lives where I do and hes like around 11 he always hung out by me and would sit next to me and would just kind of creep me out at first and he always would ask if he can come play with my son and nieces mind you their all under 7 years. but I went and talked to his mother and she told me he was autistic and also found out she doesn't really take care of her kids . she lets them hang outside after midnight its really sad so when me and my husband are outside with the kids and playing soccer or any other activity we include him cause we now why hes like that and it sucks her kids go through that. but 15 is kind of old I would really talk to his parents .
@threekings101415, I have told him so many times I think I might have to start because the grounding won't work and he won't stay in his room nor talking back .so I'm sticking with this decision
@mrsmoore, yeah my brother has gotten out of control. I did some stupid things before like I started smoking at 17 (I'm 18 still smoke but not as much due to my princess I'm cutting down to quit) I don't need my brother going to a detention center or worse sexually assaulted or being killed. I fear for his life.
@theredheadchic, the kid knows at my baby shower my son was out playing and he came home wanting to get his toy guns I turn around and see the kid who stopped in his tracks and ran the other way thinking I wasn't outside but I was for the baby shower
@pregnant1109, that's true because I drank at 15 when pressuerd to anyways so I think of that and think of my son who's seven I just got done saying to his step dad idk if he smokes or what this kid does but i don't want him around my son so he went to go get him
@mickbaby it is scary especially me being 8 months pregnant last monthI could defend myself if I had to or at least wouldn't know how that being that big ,he's in his room now he won't stop talking back and told me to leave him alone
you should also mention how he showed up at your door with a blanket and said no one was home. But honestly, even if it was true I think 15 is old enough to be home alone.. but yeah make it clear that its nothing against their son, it's just the age difference is too great..
I agree you should talk to his parents. I don't think kids of that age difference have any business hanging out with each other if they aren't family. Your child is a child and that kid is a teenager. Even if everything is innocent and that kid isn't a bad influence you never really know and its beat they hang out with kids their own age.
Phew that's kinda scary. You see all kinds of stuff in the news nowadays with teens not just stealing and stuff but being violent with kids and parents and other teens. You have good instincts momma!
wow that sounds so similar to my sittuation with my brother. he recently started hanging with a 17 year old and my brother is 7 and all of a sudden he lies and has attitudes and comes home with pocket knifes and BB Guns. I fear for my brother. and I learned this 17 year old smokes weed and drinks like an alcoholic. my mom has tried to keep him away but it just doesn't work. so i feel where your coming from
@theredheadchic, I agree all the way.
I would go take to his mom like asap & just explain to her he's too old to b around ur son.
your son to young to hang with him.. besides that, that boy is a bad influence I'm assuming. lying is something i don't play with. and to me it seem like that 15y.o got your son lying.. I would put my foot down. and if this grounded situation doesn't work then its ass whooping time. kids that age doesn't mean a kid his age no good. 15y.o these days are bad ass hell.. (smoking,stealing,drinking, etc) just to much. hunny stick with your mind cause something is not right.
It doesn't seem right and you should definitely ground him for the lying otherwise how would he learn? But I'd be careful too
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@mrsmoore, just tell her what you told us kinda and that now your son isn't listening since he's been hanging out with him cause if hes not autistic or anything then there's a problem. if he is I'm sure she'll tell you