I know exactly how you feel. I eventually ended up telling everyone my baby my own way. that I don't agree with how they expect me to raise my daughter. that I don't believe in the same stuff they do. and even now my sister would be like my kids were eating food already. like ok good for you. I won't force my daughter to do.something she's not ready for. so.if she's a little slower at eating baby foods ok. I enjoy breast feeding her..