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Nicole Golphenee
Nicole Golphenee
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)

trying so hard to remain positive. realizing more and more that maybe he truly is a deadbeat. I'm very thankful that I…

trying so hard to remain positive.

realizing more and more that maybe he truly is a deadbeat. I'm very thankful that I have even gotten 100$ out of him in the last 4 months. I told him a month ago it would be great if he bought our daughter rain boots. 20$ is all I asked for a month ago. told him I would like it by this weekend. and now he tells me he can't.

good thing I already bought them because I knew I couldn't rely on him, but still. its 20$.

that's 20$ that could've gone to clothes she needed or things I needed due to pregnancy.

thank you for listening to me vent ladies. he's really not that bad of a father. just extremely horrible with money. even during our relationship I had to handle finances and he would refuse to learn. but enough of that.

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ajourneywithus

Nicole GolpheneeМама дочки (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)

we're not in a relationship anymore or even in the same state anymore. but that is a very smart idea. maybe I could talk him into doing something similar, since I'm the main caregiver

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j.desantiag09

JanetМама дочки-младенца

I'm the spender and he's the saver on our relationship. We opened a joint savings account that we both put money into for our daughter even if it's only $5 a week we'll put something in every week.

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