trying so hard to remain positive.
realizing more and more that maybe he truly is a deadbeat. I'm very thankful that I have even gotten 100$ out of him in the last 4 months. I told him a month ago it would be great if he bought our daughter rain boots. 20$ is all I asked for a month ago. told him I would like it by this weekend. and now he tells me he can't.
good thing I already bought them because I knew I couldn't rely on him, but still. its 20$.
that's 20$ that could've gone to clothes she needed or things I needed due to pregnancy.
thank you for listening to me vent ladies. he's really not that bad of a father. just extremely horrible with money. even during our relationship I had to handle finances and he would refuse to learn. but enough of that.
I'm the spender and he's the saver on our relationship. We opened a joint savings account that we both put money into for our daughter even if it's only $5 a week we'll put something in every week.
When can I start giving my son regular milk? He turns 10 months in 2 days. I bought unsweetened almond milk yesterday so he can try. Would that be okay? I’m lowkey tired of him on formula but I mean he’s still a baby lol.
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do
I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and a...
Dog rant!
We’ve had our large dog for 10 years. For the most part he was an outside dog until a year or so ago. He would go crazy ( bite the door and start bleeding to come in.) I have allergies so I’m not a dog person. We bought a huge kennel this fit him comfortably so he can stay inside for the most part. He did good, that lasted a year until a few months ago he’d go crazy and do the same thing to get out of the cage. My husband bought 2 large sections of carpet for the 2 living rooms. Whil...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
*Trigger Warning* Child Predator?!?!
I found out 2 days ago that a boy 13-14 who goes to our church got kicked out of church camp last year for making a younger student suck him off, and telling the kid that he would kill him and his family if he told. (Luckily the kid told his mom anyway). Also last year he was kicked out of school for inappropriate touching.
we're not in a relationship anymore or even in the same state anymore. but that is a very smart idea. maybe I could talk him into doing something similar, since I'm the main caregiver