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my son is 2 weeks old and my nipples can barely take this anymore.... as per my lactation consultant his latch is fine but I'm in tears when I feed him because they are raw..... he is cluster feeding right now and I'm thinking about supplementing because I can't keep up with him.... 😢😢😢
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
so my husband wants to feed are baby but the thing is that I will be breastfeeding so idk how it would work. he was thinking that when he wants to feed him he would give him formula but I just want my baby to have breast milk. so then he said why don't you pump your milk out and I'll feed it to him and i thought that would be the best thing but then I'm scared that my baby will get use to the bottle. I need help idk what to do because my husband really wants to feed him :/ and we need to come up with something before are baby is here. can anyone help??
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
My boyfriend is against breastfeeding in public even if I have cover. I told him I wanted to do skin to skin after the babys born and he said no because he didn't want me naked in front of anyone. I said he'd be under my gown. and he said no because my boob can pop out. he also said I'm not allowed to feed my baby if there's a nurse in the room. and I told him they're gonna see my freaking vagina!! who cares about my boobs. it's also not their first time. I'm so annoyed. because if my baby is hungry, I want to feed him when he wants it. I'm gonna have a nursing cover when we go out.
Sydney·
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That pain at first was what made me want to quit. I used lanolin but it didn't help so I tried a nipple shield and it made a world of difference. I started using one at like 2 weeks then randomly at I wanna day 3 months he just didn't want to use it anymore and latched completely fine afterwards.
Leslie. C·
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try a nipple shield I been using it since the hospital. My nipples are way to small so she can't latch properly, and honestly I love the nipple shield. it protects my nipples and I also use nipple cream. My baby is 1 week 2 days and she's doing great, I'm sure she's going to start the cluster eating soon. and I need to be prepared. keep to it love, don't give up.
Elizabeth·
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Use mother loves cream I put it on before and after all the time and clutter feeding is helping your milk meet baby's need try to remember that I also went through the same thing and many times I felt I wanted to supplement but we're still going strong 10 weeks I promise it will get better my daughter cluster fed 6 hours straight at times too. I use to scream and it would hurt when baby latched also check for ties honestly if baby is emptying enough diapers your doing wonderful. The first 6 weeks are the hardest after that breastfeeding gets much easier and your nipple pain will lessen also coconut oil works too!
Jazzmin·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Boobease nipple balm helped me! I would put it on before every feeding and after
Lindsaylee·
Мама двоих (младенец)
use coconut oil after each feeding. ..pain will go away and it will heal you and prevent thrush
Ashley·
Мама сына-младенца
cold water on nipples is supposed to help too! but if you're at your wits end then do what you have to do you know! a fed baby is best 😊
kammy·
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I miserable for a while lmao. every time I fed I had thoughts like "Im gonna kill myself, im gonna punch this baby...SMH stop sucking on me, cant do this anymore" lmao! but we still goin and its so much easier
Abigail Nielson·
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@kambam, thanks for the the advise😊😊 @amaresmama I've been using it like it's going out of style!
Ashley·
Мама сына-младенца
have you tried lanolin or nipple cream?
kammy·
Мама сына-младенца
we've all been there. and still after 2 months for me I have those days and weeks of feeling discomfort. try not to give up! slather cream/breast milk on your nipples between feeding, and expose them to air when you can. lansinoh makes cooling gel pads that helped me. it isnt easy but it does get better!! if you still wanna supplement thats totally cool too 👌