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Ladies, I need some advice. My 9 week old is at my other halfs moms tonight and she has just messaged me saying he has…

Ladies, I need some advice. My 9 week old is at my other halfs moms tonight and she has just messaged me saying he has had a big poo because she gave him cool boiled water. Now I know most people say it's ok to give babies a little water and my little one hadn't had a poo for 24 hours which she knew about. I'm just angry because she didn't check with me first and he has never had water before. It sounds silly I know but how can I trust her not to give/do other things as he gets older? How do I handle this situation! I'm fuming to be honest! :(

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jetrum

JessМама сына-младенца

thank you @stacey804 you've made me feel better xxx

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staceyymzack

Stacey MarieМама сына-младенца

That sounds perfect. Your saying it's not for you but keeping it polite. She should respect your wishes and if she doesn't then you may have to be a bit more forward about your feelings hopefully she takes the hint. Older generation think they know everything kind of "been there done that got the t shirt" but that doesn't mean they know "everything" xx

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jetrum

JessМама сына-младенца

@natroberts88, @stacey804

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jetrum

JessМама сына-младенца

Yeah I've just been reluctant to give it him as the NHS and other websites advice against it until his 6 months so I don't think I want him to have it just yet....I'm not sure, I know lots of people do it but the websites say otherwise, I'm sure a little bit will be OK though won't it, I think it's if he has it regularly so probably won't make a habit of it xxx

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jetrum

JessМама сына-младенца

thanks Ladies, I've just sent this message...

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staceyymzack

Stacey MarieМама сына-младенца

My mil is the same but I just politely told her in future to double check. I ask her for advice and keep her involved still so she doesn't feel like I'm saying no but she's aware not to do things without my permission xx

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natroberts88

natalie robertsМама сына-младенца

She was probably just doing what she thought was best. This is solely the reason I never tell my MIL anything incase this happens. Best thing to do is just have a conversation & outline how you feel & the boundaries: although she could still do stuff & just not tell you xx

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