so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece…

thank you ladys I am going to ask b4 i move and make sure he hasn't been lying to me this whole time Im scared of how hes Goin to react when I ask him tho but I'm for sure going to do it

WAIT! AM I THE ONLY ONE WHO IS CONSIDERING WHAT THIS YOUNG LADY IS SAYING! Honey if there is a single thought in your mind that your boyfriend slept with his niece and got her pregnant U NEED TO KNOW NOW ! That is not ok, acceptable, or understandable in any way shape or form! Not only is that incest but she would have had to be very young to have a six year old right now. This is not a game! Especially if you're going to have him around your own child, and this is very very very extreme!! There will be no moving in with him until you find out for sure that this is his child! And if anybody is giving you warning signs like they are honey you need to believe them because it seems like they're showing you the truth and you just don't want to believe it. People don't say stuff like you'll be closer to her father then you think, for no reason. And people don't call their nieces children their daughters, for no reason. And if his own sister is questioning it you have proof and red flags all around you! It's time to get down to business young lady! I'm sending u squeezes right now because this is a very hard deal! And now I'm going into super prayer! 😞😔😥.@myramedina,

He seems awfully defensive on top of what other reason is his niece living with him? Since more than 6 yrs, placing her at 18-19...he would have been 30, getting his teenage niece pregnant. (On top of what looks to me like an older man with interest in young/late teenage woman). I think you have a lot of thinking to do and he has a lot of proving to do. You should explain to him straight up it's concerning for the safety of your child and the trust within your relationship and stick to it, you want solid proof and will drop it. If he refuses then you have your answer (in a childish and deceitful way) and it's up to you how you want to handle that.

if i were you i wouldnt move in with him until a dna test was done. once you get the results then decide if you still want to move in with him.

@rios89, i knw it really is gross if its true but he says no but that she's told other people that too b4 ....that's what I want to do...i have but no one knws because they never met her "bf" when she came out prego

I'm sorry but if I was in your Situation I would get a DNA test done or talk to some of his family members get the story straight

Wow, now that's just nasty! Why would she be proud to say something like that!? I would be Embarrassed for sleeping with my Uncle and then have a baby with him "Incest" WTF that's some Hillbillie shit

@rios89, no she is his niece I'm just not sure about her daughter

what does his family say about the niece and her daughter? is she really his niece or that Pretend shit

@sexii_diiva, thank you i will for sure :) i have to do it this next week sometime cuz were supposed to move December 1st

@myramedina no problem.. good luck -& keep us updated

@nmitchell, that is very true and he wants us to get married too that's why i want to knw what to do or what to think of what might happen but i guess its better now then later on

@myramedina, I know it's gonna be stressful and y'all might fight about it. better to get it done now than in the long run, things could get more complicated if you end up having more kids

thank you ladys I think that's what im going to do b4 we move in together im just like scared of whats going to happen or what hes Goin to come up with @sexii_diiva @nmitchell

@nmitchell, i am honestly thinking of asking him to do that i just knw it's going to be a fight with him and i don't want to stress more right now

@myramedina yea so you need to get to the bottom of it before moving in .. something isn't right.

@nmitchell, i knw that's what I'm scared of having that on my mind all the time and maybe one day finding out she is his kid

@sexii_diiva i don't like that either well im guessing that's what they showed her because when he post pictures of her like on Facebook he puts my daughter

I wouldn't take the chance on someone that may have a kid with a family member. obviously there's no boundaries and I would here to imagine what he'd do to his daughter

ask him to do the test, if he gets mad and refuses then don't move in.

I dont think there's a problem with age. my husband is 10 yrs older than me and I'm 25. my dad is 15yrs older than my mom. anyway, you should prob get a paternity test done cuz you'll never have piece of mind our even be able to move on if you dont.

you should swab her mouth && somehow his... they have the DNA test at walgreens

see I don't like that... why she calling him dad.. and he allowing it?

@sexii_diiva, yeah that's how it is.....that's what idk cuz no one ever met her "baby daddy" only him nun of the other family even knows his name and the lil girl calls him dad

@myramedina I feel like you already in it so no use in leaving now. you can't take the baby back.. so forget the age part. && you need to figure out what's going on before the relationship gets more serious cuz that maybe his child . like what if you wanna go out to eat as a family and he wann invite the 6yr old all the time.. that's not fair and is really think that's his child if he always going out his way to spend time with hin

@mrs.aceves, im not around the lil girl to be able to do that im not aloud in there house so when I go visit my bf we have to b outside in my car

@myramedina @mrs.aceves wait I thought your bf has a niece that's 25 and she has a daughter that is 6 that you think is his possible.. so it may not really be his niece type of shyt unless he likes sleeping with family members

@sexii_diiva, no and only because shes getting married we've been together for 3 yrs and now that she's getting married hes all of a sudden hes ready to move in together with me...and his mom lives in Mexico so i don't think she would knw she only comes to visit

@mrs.aceves, haha yes

@sexii_diiva, lol yeah but like my mom says the problem isnt right now it's later on when we get older hes always going to be 14 yrs older...that's why i don't know what to do cuz of the baby i knw he needs his dad b4 she would call and txt him all the time that were was he that he better not be spending his money with me and that "his daughter" wanted to talk to him thats what makes me more mad

@nmitchell, he has raised her since birth they've lived together since b4 she was born

if I got it right ill just explain it back to you & you say yes or no if I got you right. your boyfriends brother has a daughter who is in her 20's that has a 6 year old that you think might be your boyfriends child? like maybe he slept with his brothers daughter & they had a baby together type of thing?

its really just some weird shyt... is she moving with y'all when you all move? they do have jealous family members... but the fact that you said his sister thinks he's the dad too is bothersome. did you talk to his mom about it?

okay very simple way to solve this if youre not sure hes her father. take a strand of the girls hair, take a strand from your boyfriend & send it in to get tested for a DNA match.

@myramedina well he is 36. it's bad but not too bad. I've done that before I can't even lie. I hated telling people my ex age because it was such a huge difference. but now I'm with someone that's 5yrs older and that's more normal lol.. but yea something sounds fishy with the story. but you're kinda already in too deep.. y'all having a baby but sonehow you need to get to the bottom of this... have you ever caught them being to comfortable with one another? like does she call him all the time && all that.

so you think there's some sort of incest going on? idk... I think there's some jealousy going on since you're close to her age. he probably calls the little girl his daughter if he's raised her since birth

@sexii_diiva, haha yeahh im 22 that's why now im thinking about it more and my mom keeps telling me not to move idk what to do i mean i want my baby to have a family thats together but ugh im confused now

@nmitchell, yeah im sure its his niece its his brothers daughter

he is is 14 yrs older then you? well how old are you? I like older men but damn

lol I'm sorry ok so me and my bf are moving in together soon but im still not sure if its a great idea because of his niece because she doesn't like me and one time we got into it and she told me that I might have her daughters dad closer to me then I thought and i ask him if it's true and he tells me no but alot of things make it look different even his sister isn't sure if hes her dad or not @mrs.aceves idk if i explained myself a lil better lol idk how to put to

lol I'm sorry ok so me and my bf are moving in together soon but im still not sure if its a great idea because of his niece because she doesn't like me and one time we got into it and she told me that I might have her daughters dad closer to me then I thought and i ask him if it's true and he tells me no but alot of things make it look different even his sister isn't sure if hes her dad or not @mrs.aceves idk if i explained myself a lil better lol idk how to put to

I knew some that married someone from another country tried to pass a woman and her child as a relative and then turned out it was actually his other woman and child from that country. are you for sure that's his niece? That's why I ask @myramedina

im sorry I read this 10 times & I still dont know what your saying lol can u please clarify.

he just lives with his brothers daughter and her daughter thats Goin to be 6 @nmitchell

but his sister has also told me that shes not sure who the lil girls dad is cuz no one else ever met him

is that not his niece? @myramedina

he says no that shes not his but then again sometimes it just doesn't seem to be true something just dosnt seem right about the whole thing @babyboolala thats why idk what to do i want to tell him he has to get a DNA test b4 we even move in together but i knw its just going to be a fight

@myramedina,

Okay wait, so for clarity...he has a child with his niece ???