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Lisa
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My husband just asked me what the chances are of one of our twins being stillbirth. I'm like wth? How can you ask…

My husband just asked me what the chances are of one of our twins being stillbirth. I'm like wth? How can you ask something like that? I'm 34 weeks, I don't need him adding stress from asking a question like that. I guess he's just worried about the babies but things have been going great, no need to worry imo. What should I tell him other than shut the heck up and don't ask me anything like that again...

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beauandleosmom

LisaМама подростка, беременна (39 нед.)

He does get updates through email...so now I just need to find out what crazy app put that idea in his head lol. Thanks for the input, I do feel a little better now

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guaderrama_babies2

DianaМама сына-младенца, беременна (18 нед.)

@beauandleosmom, men usually ask when they read or heard about it somewhere. I bet that's what it was. I would've been shocked also.

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beauandleosmom

LisaМама подростка, беременна (39 нед.)

@guaderrama_babies2, I did answer his question. I told him that any baby could be born still born even if the pregnancy was healthy. I guess I should of asked him why he asked but I was too shocked

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guaderrama_babies2

DianaМама сына-младенца, беременна (18 нед.)

I would answer his question. I know you're stressed and even the thought of loosing a child is horrible but it seems like he is curious. Remember men do not go through pregnancy like women do. It sounds like he light just want to know all the possible outcomes. Childbirth in general comes with many surprises. Or maybe he heard or read something and that's why he asked. Also talk to him about the way that subject makes you feel.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?