My husband just asked me what the chances are of one of our twins being stillbirth. I'm like wth? How can you ask something like that? I'm 34 weeks, I don't need him adding stress from asking a question like that. I guess he's just worried about the babies but things have been going great, no need to worry imo. What should I tell him other than shut the heck up and don't ask me anything like that again...
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@beauandleosmom, men usually ask when they read or heard about it somewhere. I bet that's what it was. I would've been shocked also.
@guaderrama_babies2, I did answer his question. I told him that any baby could be born still born even if the pregnancy was healthy. I guess I should of asked him why he asked but I was too shocked
I would answer his question. I know you're stressed and even the thought of loosing a child is horrible but it seems like he is curious. Remember men do not go through pregnancy like women do. It sounds like he light just want to know all the possible outcomes. Childbirth in general comes with many surprises. Or maybe he heard or read something and that's why he asked. Also talk to him about the way that subject makes you feel.
He does get updates through email...so now I just need to find out what crazy app put that idea in his head lol. Thanks for the input, I do feel a little better now