Well last night I called off our engagement and pretty much ended our relationship all together because of it. Am I wrong to do so if I don't feel appreciated anymore? I mean there is no more of a spark in our relationship and wasn't my last trimester either. I have to do what is best for my son and even though I am still living with him I hope we can work things out and be together cuz it hurt me to end the engagement and honestly made me cry for hours. I just don't want to be miserable and I don't want Colton to grow up and think women are supposed to do house work and take care of babies and view women as property. I want him to grow up to see a woman stands beside him, they split everything down the middle with housework and taking care of their children, I want him to see a woman as someone to care for him and he care just as much him to want to do everything in his will to make her happy and keep their love strong even when it is tough. I just hope I can be strong for him and not sink back into thinking I am property and supposed to do everything on my own.
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I agree with @sparklymama, I know that had to take a lot of strength. Sometimes you just know in your heart that it's not right. Good for you for standing up for yourself. Wishing you the best.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I want honest advice from ladies who've been or are in long term relationships or marriages. I keep hitting the same roadblock with my boyfriend for almost a year now. He constantly wants to know what I am doing or who I am talking to, why I am not responding quick enough and always seems to think I am going to be doing things behind his back to hurt him if he doesn't do all of this. Me making this post will probably even make him mad and think I am just talking about him and looking for reaso...
I don't care how people take selfies. Do what you want it's not killing me, ruining my day or none of my business. I don't care about The background either. It can be dirty or clean it's not my house. Just take care if your babies.
Just looking for some input ladies...do you think grade 3 students should be suspended for violence in school? Principal at our sons private school let us know today that another student “jabbed” our son with a pencil in the back today.....wound care was provided (my husbands headed to get him and take him to our family doctor for tetanus shot on their advisement) and I’m crushed for my little guy! I can’t help but feel this other boy should be suspended 😫 Am I wrong?
This is my problem. We have been together 8 years and I still feel with the same shxt but I have spoken up about how I felt sometimes it has ended the relationship but everytime we break up a new baby is made lol. But stick to your rules and what you want. Don't live forever in regret or msiery.