I don't care how people take selfies. Do what you want it's not killing me, ruining my day or none of my business. I don't care about The background either. It can be dirty or clean it's not my house. Just take care if your babies.
Yes!! I hate when people make comments about someone's house being messy on here it's so rude... like you don't know if they just haven't had the chance to clean yet but wanted to seize a moment that they felt good or wanted to show off their kids... I never clean until my kids are asleep because there is no point. My 3yr old is a mini tornado and wrecks everything in his path and if I want to enjoy a clean house it will have to wait until he's in bed for the night. I'll tidy up a little during nap time but it's not like it lasts. This is also another reason why I don't post many pics... I don't need people commenting on the mess my child makes every day.
My house isn't the cleanest 24/7 got alot going on and I only can clean when the baby is occupied. My son is 9 and still the messiest kid i know.
I think people make comments about someone's house being messy because they have concern for a child living in that mess. (At least, that's usually my thoughts.) I've seen 1 selfie on here where the house looked absolutely disgusting... And all I could think was about the poor babies rolling in all that filth! There's no excuse for a home to be at that point. However, to mention a dirty mirror or laundry on the floor is ridiculous. I also get annoyed by constant selfie posting. It just takes up my feed and I'm usually bothered by those that need a lot of attention, in general. But I'm aware I can just move on or block the person.
@householdceo welp what else would you like to discuss since you dont seem to know what I'm done with conversation means. I'm up for any discussion
Right 🤷🏽♀️ but you know people are always going to look for something to say
They always have to find something to nitpick on. I’ve noticed it a lot on here
When you post stuff on internet, especially in such a public forum, expect judgement. Don’t like it? Don’t post pictures on public sites. You are not going to change the nature of the internet by being upset about it
@mamaste unfortunately sweetheart thats life 🤷♀️ live and learn from mistakes is my moto especially on the internet. Aint nothing against the law about honestly and trust me lol you haven't been on here long enough yet to see "bullying". You can also block who you Dislike just fyi. 😉 I can be the bestest friend or I can be the enemy its however its taken
Unfortunately, it shouldn’t be that way when we are raising the future.
You don’t know what I have been through with other mother’s while being on this app.
I have had to block a few bullies.
I’d rather be loved by some than feared by many.
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And just to clarify, I’m not saying judgement is right. But, if it’s very upsetting to a poster than maybe they should take a step back and reevaluate the reason they are posting on a public forum and if they care about the comments or not.
@joselin.salazar47 oooo Got cha! Wish I could I'd change my belly size and my butt haha
Is it gross? Yeah. But do I care enough to call people out for it? NOPE. It’s funny how you can share something about raising awareness for a serious issue like Child Abuse prevention month and there are zero post about it but one person has a messy living room and everyone is up in arms about it and a thousand sub post. Give me a break. People are full of shit. 🙄
I want to work, but I don't have anyone I truly trust to take care of my son.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?
Is it bad that I don't take my prenatals ?! They made me extremely sick at the beginning of my pregnancy and since I'm still throwing everything up I just don't take them 😪
Christmas decorations? When do you usually take it all down? I don't want to. It's been a battle with babe and the tree. But I love it lol
Disco-Tits·
I think people make comments about someone's house being messy because they have concern for a child living in that mess. (At least, that's usually my thoughts.) I've seen 1 selfie on here where the house looked absolutely disgusting... And all I could think was about the poor babies rolling in all that filth! There's no excuse for a home to be at that point. However, to mention a dirty mirror or laundry on the floor is ridiculous. I also get annoyed by constant selfie posting. It just takes up my feed and I'm usually bothered by those that need a lot of attention, in general. But I'm aware I can just move on or block the person.
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Kristen ··
Мама троих детей
Just keep scrolling. Something as simple as a dirty mirror shouldn't be a big deal. Does it mean their not clean? Again that's just someone judging. Just laundry on the floor I got them piled up on my dryer I'll get to it when I'm done cleaning something else.
blessed2018w9··
blessed2018w9··
I don't know about you but in my house if my mirror is dirty? My house is dirty so there for I clean everything that needs cleaning. I have laundry as well but I'm not gonna blast my dirty laundry on the floor in a selfie picture, just common sense 🤷♀️. I'm by far perfect but I will judge when I see a dirty background no shame in my game on that. Makes me wonder about the children being cared for. People can make excuses all day long and say its judgment to make themselves feel better but in reality its laziness not to clean your home. And why would you take a picture regardless with your mirror not clean? I mean😬...those that make post saying it shouldn't Matter are most likely the ones that could care less about there environment. You think social services would mind seeing a trashy house? Or a clean house? My house has its bad days no doubt and I may have a day or 2 were I may be sick and just cant but best believe I'm a work hard to catch back up. Im a stay at home mom so theres no excuse for me to not keep a tidy home. And when its posted with a dirty background I'm not one to pat that person on the back and say awsome selfie. No. Clean your house if you have children its only sanitary. Why let your child/children live in filth and think thats ok.
Kristen ··
Мама троих детей
im not going to take a pic with my laundry on the floor either lol if someone does then that's them. I'm not talking about straight nasty homes either just something like a messy bed behind your selfie. I post not caring about someone selfie ( not like it would make a damn if you said something) because I don't see the point in being rude. You don't like it you really don't have to say anything. You unfollowed me or whatever it was why? I said nothing wrong. I do care about my environment by the way. That's what I mean you don't know me and haven't seen my house to say that. Your passing judgment off one post. You have a blessed day.
blessed2018w9··
If you make a post like this? Expect feedback positive or negative. And like it was mentioned by someone else if you post something like a dirty background? Also expect feedback. If you didn't post anything like a dirty background then why get tore out the frame over making a post and receiving comments? If you didn't want them then there is a disabled comments button. 🤔Pretty hypocritical telling someone to scroll past a post they dont like but yet heres a post made complaining about a post...when the person could also keep scrolling. I'm kind done with this back and forth stuff so I said my opinion and you said yours so lets be done. Move on. Thats life Judgment is a daily thing. And thanks my days are blessed every day. 💋
Kristen ··
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im actually confused lol I thought we were done.
blessed2018w9··
@householdceo🤦♀️ what do you not understand? I only said in my last post about being done going back and forth what other post of mine did I say we were done other then the one b4 this one. I mean its not elementary. Just cause your post said have a blessed day at the end dosen't mean I'm not gonna respond back to me that doesn't indicate your done with the conversation. Now if you respond back to this? I will as well. I said in my last post up above that I was done but if you wanna keep our conversation going thats fine to
Kristen ··
Мама троих детей
that's fine
blessed2018w9··
welp what else would you like to discuss since you dont seem to know what I'm done with conversation means. I'm up for any discussion
Kristen ··
Мама троих детей
im done lol I just wanted to be the last say. Fine. You can have it.
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When you post stuff on internet, especially in such a public forum, expect judgement. Don’t like it? Don’t post pictures on public sites. You are not going to change the nature of the internet by being upset about it
Kristen ··
Мама троих детей
I agree to an extent anything you post will get opinions but I didn't post pics, get negative feed back and get upset. Im only stating the opinion that's its not bothering me therefore I don't care
mamaste··
This is an app for mother’s...
This app shouldn’t have grown women passing judgement in my opinion.
It’s sad to be honest.
The internet should be a privilege.
It’s harassment and online bullying and it’s against the law.
blessed2018w9··
unfortunately sweetheart thats life 🤷♀️ live and learn from mistakes is my moto especially on the internet. Aint nothing against the law about honestly and trust me lol you haven't been on here long enough yet to see "bullying". You can also block who you Dislike just fyi. 😉 I can be the bestest friend or I can be the enemy its however its taken
mamaste··
Unfortunately, it shouldn’t be that way when we are raising the future.
You don’t know what I have been through with other mother’s while being on this app.
I have had to block a few bullies.
I’d rather be loved by some than feared by many.
😉
blessed2018w9··
And thats what you should do dont let anyone run you over.