I don't care how people take selfies. Do what you want it's not killing me, ruining my day or none of my business. I don't care about The background either. It can be dirty or clean it's not my house. Just take care if your babies.
When you post stuff on internet, especially in such a public forum, expect judgement. Don’t like it? Don’t post pictures on public sites. You are not going to change the nature of the internet by being upset about it
Is it gross? Yeah. But do I care enough to call people out for it? NOPE. It’s funny how you can share something about raising awareness for a serious issue like Child Abuse prevention month and there are zero post about it but one person has a messy living room and everyone is up in arms about it and a thousand sub post. Give me a break. People are full of shit. 🙄
And just to clarify, I’m not saying judgement is right. But, if it’s very upsetting to a poster than maybe they should take a step back and reevaluate the reason they are posting on a public forum and if they care about the comments or not.
When you post stuff on internet, especially in such a public forum, expect judgement. Don’t like it? Don’t post pictures on public sites. You are not going to change the nature of the internet by being upset about it
@mamaste unfortunately sweetheart thats life 🤷♀️ live and learn from mistakes is my moto especially on the internet. Aint nothing against the law about honestly and trust me lol you haven't been on here long enough yet to see "bullying". You can also block who you Dislike just fyi. 😉 I can be the bestest friend or I can be the enemy its however its taken
Right 🤷🏽♀️ but you know people are always going to look for something to say
@householdceo, They always have to find something to nitpick on. I’ve noticed it a lot on here
I think people make comments about someone's house being messy because they have concern for a child living in that mess. (At least, that's usually my thoughts.) I've seen 1 selfie on here where the house looked absolutely disgusting... And all I could think was about the poor babies rolling in all that filth! There's no excuse for a home to be at that point. However, to mention a dirty mirror or laundry on the floor is ridiculous. I also get annoyed by constant selfie posting. It just takes up my feed and I'm usually bothered by those that need a lot of attention, in general. But I'm aware I can just move on or block the person.
@blessed2018w9 im done lol I just wanted to be the last say. Fine. You can have it.
Yes!! I hate when people make comments about someone's house being messy on here it's so rude... like you don't know if they just haven't had the chance to clean yet but wanted to seize a moment that they felt good or wanted to show off their kids... I never clean until my kids are asleep because there is no point. My 3yr old is a mini tornado and wrecks everything in his path and if I want to enjoy a clean house it will have to wait until he's in bed for the night. I'll tidy up a little during nap time but it's not like it lasts. This is also another reason why I don't post many pics... I don't need people commenting on the mess my child makes every day.
My house isn't the cleanest 24/7 got alot going on and I only can clean when the baby is occupied. My son is 9 and still the messiest kid i know.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I think people make comments about someone's house being messy because they have concern for a child living in that mess. (At least, that's usually my thoughts.) I've seen 1 selfie on here where the house looked absolutely disgusting... And all I could think was about the poor babies rolling in all that filth! There's no excuse for a home to be at that point. However, to mention a dirty mirror or laundry on the floor is ridiculous. I also get annoyed by constant selfie posting. It just takes up my feed and I'm usually bothered by those that need a lot of attention, in general. But I'm aware I can just move on or block the person.