He woke up screaming at me saying I'm his problem and he's sick of me.
He controls where our son or I go.
We haven't seen any of my family in a long time.
I was up all night taking care of our son because he took pills and passed out.
I do everything and still get treated this way.
I need to get out but he said I can't take our son anywhere or away from him.
(I have two other children)
I don't know what to do anymore been this way for 3 months and just got worse since our son was born.
I'm mentally, emotionally, & physically drained =(
I was a young teenage mom at 16, and went thru plenty emotionally,physically, 18we got married and I divorced him at 21 while he went to prison,Love yourself and be strong for you and stronger for your baby to come. I'm 37 now have had a great career since I'm 19 yrs old felt good to be independent and live free ,from someone taking advantage of you ,or better to be alone than miserable, Been safe ,you'll be in my prayers.♡ My sons are 21 and 13, they are my world and my motivation,
Give him some more pills & leave while he is passed out! You and your kids don't deserve that. Once your out,file for a restraining order. Maybe file for one first.... Leave him a copy of the order taped to the front door
Get out now! Take your kids and go. This does not sound safe at all. You only get one life and don't deserve to be miserable. Leave.
girl call family and get out while you can just tell the kids your going on a vacation do what you have too he can take you to court later and will loose
i hate to see women stay in miserable relationships, get ur kids & get out! if he cant treat u right then why stay? dont stay so ur kids can see u being weak or him being ignorant, show them there is a better way of life! NEVER EVER let a man think he runs SHIT! Even for the women who dont work & their man pays all the bills & this & that, as long as u know ur doing right by taking care of home & kids & being faithful & of course every man needs pleasured by their woman its just a man thing, no matter what ur still a woman & u have needs & feelings too... like i said never let a man think he just got it any way he says.. stand up & be a woman & in a relationship when kids are involved u still have to protect urself & them, the worst things kids can hear & see are their parents fight or their mom hurt period. it will never be easy but easy isnt always the way u need to go to find strength... stay strong but make sure u do something for yourself & ur kids
I'm scared of what he'll do if I try to leave. He has threatened me before. He's never physically hurt me but he is big on emotional and mental abuse. He has won in making me absolutely hate myself. Also I'm stuck & he knows it. My license & tags expired in April along with my phone getting cut off & he knows I have no one to help me here. He's got me exactly where he wants me. This morning after being up with our son all night I'm told I'm his problem and he's sick of me. I don't know what I did to deserve this but I'm so close to breaking it isn't funny.