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Amber Hollifield
Amber Hollifield
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)

Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but…

Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him I get a message that he doesn't have a car so I have to get my son, or he tells me i have to run him out there. I'm already having cut hours at work and getting no child support from him since he's been continuously in and out of work.

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stackbarb85

stackbarb85

I would go back to court and have it changed

massgirl

Mandy

Yes go back to court. In my custody agreement that time is forfeited an hour after the specified time for pick up and cannot be made up. Put that in there for sure.

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Also start documenting, (if you haven’t already) when he doesn’t get him, is late, needs a ride, etc. Texts or emails instead of verbal convos are better.

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Go back to court. You want all of your bases covered.

ejwsmomma120215

Amber Hollifield

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)

thankfully I keep screen shots of everything.

makeupmomplustwo_

S ♥️

I’ll take it to court; I’m currently doing this court stuff right now with my daughter and her father. So far he’s only mandated to supervised visits because he’s crazy but if he doesn’t follow through with it they’ll take it away

ejwsmomma120215

Amber Hollifield

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)

oh I will. I already sent him a message about the leniency stopping. I'd rather become strict on the visitation now than keep offering extra time, letting him pick up late, drop off late, or me handle hand offs, and watching my son hurt more and more everyday

makeupmomplustwo_

S ♥️

I hope all goes well for you even though I know it would, I just know first hand how frustrating it is

ejwsmomma120215

Amber Hollifield

Мама сына (3 года), беременна (34 нед.)

it truly is. And it's sad it's pretty much never ending for our kids :(

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