So I'm no where near my due date but we were talking and do you guys think it's wrong that I don't want his mom in the room when I deliver? I only want him , my mom and my grandmother. Me and his mom aren't that close and I'm not really a fan of hers she does stuff that grind my gears but I keep it cordial because that's his mom. I just don't want her in there I don't feel like she needs to be In there am I wrong?
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you are in charge. if you don't want someone in there they are not going to be in there. this is all about you.
@lbedell95, if you don't want her in there then just tell her come afterwards
@courtneywarner, yea I think that's all that matters I'm just not ready for the headache and drama of it all when she find out she's not going to be in there.
@cubanese, exactly and not to be rude or sound mean but technically he's not my son so it would be even more weird I totally agree. I don't have anything against him he's a child we get along great but that's one moment I don't wish to share with him. that's good I don't want nobody saying oh well I'm the baby's such and such and they get to come in.
@mechelle444, I understand boo and yes the pain made me kick my own daddy out and he and I get along way better than my mom and I so I understand and as long as you and the father have an understanding you good
I'm probably not even telling my mom when i go into labor. that's how much we don't get along.
@lbedell95, lol we are totally opposite I wouldn't dare don't get me wrong we are cordial and take but her ways I can't deal.
@cubanese, yea that would be a little weird especially since they're older. If it was up to me some of his family wouldn't be able to come either some of them are just full of negative energy.
I'd rather go to my daughters father's mother before mine. 😂
@emma.rose, I don't understand why they do that know your place
@courtneywarner, he wasn't upset about it I just told him who I wanted in there but I get where you're coming from. She can come after the baby is born but one thing I know about me is that will be a pain I've never experienced and I will need people there to support and comfort me. She just doesn't do that for me I don't really have a relationship with her so I just didn't feel it was important for her to be there.
@lbedell95, 😂😂 my mom works my nerves at time but at the end of the day she will be there to help me through it lol
@sperdue22, I understand what you're saying about him needing support but him and mom my family have a good relationship and my grandma I feel will support the both of us. I want to be fair but I just don't want his mom stressing me out more or being extra and doing the most. I think MAYBE I think about her being in there and if she pushes my button make her leave but I just feel she can come after the baby is born she doesn't need to be there during. Too many people in the room and I want to be comfortable she makes my nerves bad at times.
yeah she already oversteps her boundaries with my step son, sorry, not happening
@emma.rose, yea I feel like she will cause me to be stress or over step her boundaries when me and her really don't have a relationship like that.
@cubanese, omg , I felt the say way his son is 6 so I don't want him in there either and plus I feel like he will be a distraction and it'll just cause drama with his bitter baby mom.
@mechelle444 hopefully things change by then or she understands where you're coming from if not oh well it's not about her at the moment lbs
@godsjoi, that's how I feel like why do she need to be there she can come after the baby is born but I don't want her in there. I already know it's going to make her feel some type of way but that's not what I'm trying to do I just don't feel the need for her to be there.
I don't even want my own mother 😂 I just want the father of my daughter in there honestly.
@avayasmommy, exactly and I wouldn't feel comfortable with her being there. It's like why she would probably just stress me out.
@ourlittlefamily0520, well if you don't feel like she will be there to give you that comfort and support I wouldn't allow it
Its your choice he maybe hurt about it though cause thats his mother but explain it to him and thats that but again thats his mother and thats her sons baby so he will be upset but I had my husband my mom and my mother in law in the room and to be honest you wont care after you see that beautiful baby!! All the tears of joy from everyone will make the small stuff vanish for the sake of the baby
Nothing wrong with that. My mother in law won't be in there and it hasn't been said or anything. I think it's just kinda known. Like...you're not my mother.
In my opinion you should just have that one day where the people that are going to be the world to him/her should be there. That's his mom and it should only be right if you have your mom and grandma there he can at least have some surport as well! I can't stand walters mother but I like to be fair. But as soon as she start or say some shit I don't like I will have her and who ever else ass escorted out of the room!
I feel the exact same way (all the way down to having just him, my mom and his grandma in the room). me and my SO talked about it and I told him that she would just add more unneeded stress on me and I won't be nice if she decides to piss me off and he agreed and said it was up to me since I would be the one in pain
At a time like that you should only do what you feel will make you comfortable even if your decision may offend people . No one is allowed to visit me when I have go into labor until after I have her besides my mom , my bf & his mom .
honestly, I feel the exact same way. But he said that shes going to be in there no matter what.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Tell me if I'm wrong here.
My husband's sil has covid. She's obviously quarantining in her house but is still loving on her kids and husband. I'm sorry but if I had it I would lock myself in a room.
She hasn't gotten her kids tested... they're obviously doing the whole remote learning and quarantining for two weeks but she plans to send them back without testing them on the Monday after Thanksgiving 😬😱.
My husband thinks I'm overreacting but I told him I don't want to see them on Christmas....
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
I meant won't tell her until after Im out of the hospital 😂