I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of…

Ummm she's a fucking baby, that's what they do!

They eat every hour when cluster feeding. If she's hungry feed her. She cries because that's her ONLY form of communication.

Your 1 month old?? That’s totally normal growth spurt my kids both did that put her in a basket on the dryer/washer lol let it sooth her to sleep while you stand with her. This is totally normal why scream at a baby?

Maybe give hwr some formula if u dnt want her latched tou ur boob?

Like the other moms said could be colic. Do what you can! poor baby. Your baby is feeling you stressed so that’s not gonna help anything. I get it’s hard but she’s trying to tell you something and just wants mommy.

Sounds like breastfeeding is NOT for you and I suggest switching to formula because she’s a BABY, crying is her ONLY way to communicate with you. Either get over it and work with her or switch to formula.

I’d stick to formula with this one too if you’re not going to have the patience to have her attached to you often. Breastfeeding is hard and you need a lot of patience for it.

She is cluster feeding. Breast feeding is a lot of work. Also, she may be crying due to tummy aches because of something you’ve eaten that is too harsh for her tummy. Unfortunately, there will be times she wants to be attached to you to eat constantly. If it’s too much for you I’d switch to pumping and giving her a bottle.

Sounds like a mix of cluster feeding and colic, baby wearing will help you get things done.

Def sounds like a growth spurt and cluster feeding. I know it’s really really hard. Take a moment to yourself and compose yourself before attending to her again. Breath!!! It will be ok. At this age there’s so much changing with her that this all seems normal. Has she pooped recently? Try bicycle legs to get poop/gas moving in her belly. Good luck

I’m sorry. It’s very frustrating when they cry and you can’t figure out why. She’s still very young maybe today is a snuggle and feed day. She’s probably trying to boost your supply. Try some skin to skin. Maybe put a movie on for your older daughter. Try to just chill. Your kids will feel your energy and feed off of it.

Thanks for the advice. Yeah I know that it's stating the obvious that if she's crying she wants something I just needed a moment to regain what's left of my sanity and feed her...now to attempt to get some lunch for Molly and myself

I’ve done it four yrs lol I went crazy at first but You have to be patient it’s not easy to some he also got nipple confusion from goin back and forth so I just went exclusively bf it went a lot smoother I also had two other kids up my butt but I really wanted to keep trying now I can’t get him off

Breastfeeding is HARD. She could just be having a bad day and wants to latch for comfort. Or is clusterfeeding and trying to up your supply. Could be a growth spurt. From other posts, it just looks like youre tired. Overwhelemed. You can get through this. The crying can be unbelievably overwhelming at times. But just make sure everything else is okay. Maybe shes gassy so try moving her legs like peddling a bike or scruntch them to her chest, then flat and back up. And maybe a warm bath. Try to find a moment to take a breath, relax and maybe get a nap in

Calmdown everyone. This seems like stress overwhelmed possible post partum.she did the right thing stepping away. If u cant breastfeed n keep up. It's ok to offer formula. Fed is best.

It’s hard, before I know it 2 hours has gone by and it’s time to nurse my baby again. I promise it won’t always be this way. But she is cluster feeding. I feel like I’m repeating myself on every post you make. She needs to eat every 1.5-2 hrs. It doesn’t mean you’re not producing enough, it means that she is establishing and maintaining your supply based on what her body needs. Pls look into taking an online breastfeeding course to educate yourself. Also, if you switch to formula, it may not help anything. You could have more issues at first w her tummy adjusting.

Invest in some gas drops and make sure she’s burping before and after feedings.

I really encourage you to remind yourself that it’s going to be hard and start making little changes like grab granola bars, nuts, cheese sticks, an apple, banana so you can eat while you nurse. Have a little stash your older daughter can grab from also.

But good job taking a breather bc we all hit our breaking points

I'm trying this tea for the first time, tried the Walmart brand and didn't like it so we'll see how this helps

@mb2424 fast asleep 😴 finally 😊

Good job giving ur self a break we all need them. See if maybe she will nurse in a carrier that way she can be happy getting what she wants and needs and you'll be hands free to do the things you need to.

I have to commend you for stepping away, momma!! Everyone reacts to a child screaming differently and you are absolutely supposed to calm down and step away if it gets overwelming if only for a minute. There has been so many infant deaths in my area due to mom's that got too frustrated that my local hospital has a stepping away pep talk with ALL moms before discharge and send you home with a new moms handbook that states the same. Not saying you would ever do anything it just astounded me how other moms don't agree with becoming calm if your overwhelmed.. When my last was born my daughter was under 2 and it was hectic and chaotic and he had colic but also had acid reflux so bad he had to be put on medication and special formula. You got this momma. You are your little angels safe place ❤

Ugh I remember those days. With both kids I decided to always top them off with formula.