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Sarah
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So.. When I was about 20 weeks along me and my boyfriend (and babys father) had a really really harsh break up; which…

So.. When I was about 20 weeks along me and my boyfriend (and babys father) had a really really harsh break up; which resulted in getting the courts involved and I have a protection order against him now -- which we both violated, a lot has changed since then and weve started working on us and focusing on whats important.. It wasnt anything like him hitting me it was like harassment and threats. Im trying to get it dropped but i dont think were going to get a hearing in time for the birth; and my dad said if he shows up at the hospital hes going to call the police.. Which will get him locked up.. I dont know what to do! Anyone have any type of advice??

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l0tus

darrian

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honestly, you'll probably just have to pick between your dad and the baby's father being there. it's a hard decision but unless there's someway where you can tell your father that he shouldn't be ruining your child's birth like that and stressing you out then i'm not seeing another option

sarahmariemommy2be

Sarah

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@l0tus, yeah but the thing about my dad - it wouldnt just be my dad that would be my entire family not coming or knowing.. And I live with my parents. So its like I chose him and risk loosing everything, or I chose my family and risk him going to jail..

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darrian

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true. that's what sucks about your family getting involved in your relationships, they're never willing to forgive as easily as you are. maybe you should get your baby's father to talk to them if it wouldn't cause too much confusion. if they see that he's changing and making an effort then they might let him?

sarahmariemommy2be

Sarah

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My boyfriend already said he would call im just scared its going to upset my dad more then he already is @l0tus

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him…

So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge

Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄

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