So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
What would you do? - baby shower SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever, I don't need her, I didn't have this baby for her to raise. I'm married, living on my own and paying all my own expenses.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
I really thought I was getting a baby shower and like no one has even thought about giving me one. This is my first baby i mean no one has to do anything for me I just at least thought they had plans for me and they don’t. They gave my uncle one because his wife didn’t want one because she already had a kid.And everyone got a baby shower and was giving one .But I guess it’s okay. I’ll do my own baby shower with my next child I just thought family planned a baby shower for you . Lol guess I thought wrong.
Brittany Harris·
Мама двоих (3 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
Almost 28 weeks with third baby and don't have a connection with this baby yet.... I didn't feel pregnant until just recently but still havent "fell in love" just yet....
Shaylee Simmons·
В ожидании первенца
I don't think you should feel guilty...this is my first pregnancy and until I felt her kick at around 25 weeks I didn't feel pregnant and I didn't feel the overwhelming love I feel for her now. I felt bad about it too, but it came with time :)
Mimi·
Мама дочки-младенца
Don't be nervous at all think positive and try to enjoy every second and take steps into falling in love with your baby talk and rub your belly even if you don't feel the baby moving yet I did even though I felt her early on
Ashley·
Мама троих детей
@mimiz, what is weird is I am not afraid of losing this baby like I was with my first, by first I mean first live birth. I am sorry for your loss
Mimi·
Мама дочки-младенца
I lost her unfortunately at 20 weeks. And with this pregnancy I was so in love and excited but on the beginning I was afraid to form a bond but it's normal behavior
Ashley·
Мама троих детей
@mimiz, *^
Ashley·
Мама троих детей
with my first I was in constant worry because of a previous loss, but still excitement was their and somewhat of a love. with this one it is really different. kind of scares me that I don't seem to love this baby yet :/
Mimi·
Мама дочки-младенца
I didn't have a connection at all my first pregnancy many days I forgot I was pregnant until I looked down no symptoms nothing not even cravings