I really thought I was getting a baby shower and like no one has even thought about giving me one. This is my first baby…

I mean hey.. you’re right! That’s weird

Is it possible someone is planning a surprise shower?

Families usually do that.. if my don’t I already decided to have a small dinner get together with a couple of people 💰💰😂😂 and yes get a few gifts 🛍🛍🛍🎁

@arien, yea but I guess I’ll do my own next time.

@lulu85_18, no I asked my aunt she tells me everything. She said my other-aunt said who gone come to her baby shower so it’s no point of giving her one. I was like oh ok so I guess no one was going to show up no problem.

@ckaitate, aw. That’s messed up. I’m sorry.

@arien, I was going to do that originally but everyone was like you should wait and see people are going to give you a shower. But it’s too late now it’s last minute so I don’t think people will show .

@lulu85_18, no it’s ok . I’m not gone lie I’m was upset about it but it’s okay. You can’t force people to do nothing they don’t want to do.

@ckaitate I know how you must feel you really wanna experience every aspect of pregnancy especially when it's your first.

@alicianoelle, yea I wanted to have a baby shower really bad I had been talking about it to everyone since I got pregnant. But it’s whatever my feelings are hurt but I’ll get over it.

@ckaitate you can always do something small once your baby gets here. A welcoming party have about 30 guest they can still bring gifts and it can still be like a baby shower

It’s Usually The God Parent Who Throws The Shower .. Yu Can Throw Yaself A Small One Invite Immediate Fam Only Nd Close Friends

@destiney, In my family it’s usually the parents or the grandparents who throws the shower but I’m a just do it next time because it’s gone be too much to try to do it now

@caseysmommy92, yea like that’s irritating asf because i could’ve did my own thing and everyone kept telling me no

@alicianoelle, like a sip and see ? That would be cool because it would be warm outside since my baby Due in April. Thanks that’s a cool idea

@ckaitate Yess! You should do that

@ckaitate girl this my 4th pregnancy....aint no body thrown me shit....people fake n selfish.period

@johnsonarriel24, yea people pick and chose who they want to do stuff for smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

Awww.... see i really wished that most of you were from MN... i would seriously host a mommy day gir us prego ladies. Take lots og photos and have a good time.

@bbyzvcy18 that wud be cool@ckaitate idc at this point....over this baby preggo bs anyway.i jus want my baby n to be left alone

@bbyzvcy18, I wish I could’ve hung out with you when I was in Minnesota that would’ve been cool

Ughh I would b pissed .. u should slip it in like question but just say sumthn small about it ., I hope they surprise u

@leangocrazy, I hope they do to. But I don’t want to be a pest and annoy them . How would you say it ?

@ckaitate I would just start a conversation about having one and being like I guess ima have to do one myself and see if someone offers lmao .. I told my parents someone was throwing me one that I thought was not gone do a good job so they said well we’ll just do it lol

@leangocrazy, okay lol I’m a do that and I’ll let you know how that goes

@ckaitate, good luck boo .. let me kno

@leangocrazy, thank you I will ❤️

@ckaitate Yes that would had been great!!! Well, Your dad still lives here right so if you do decide to visit after you have baby, i'll still be here 😄. Hahaha born and raised MN girl and i dont have plans to move to any other state.

I don't give anyone a chance to plan me a shower. I'm a control freak lol. I like to plan my own.

I basically planned my own as well. I did get a lot of help but I had to initiate mostly everything 🤷🏾‍♀️