I do not even feel 18 weeks pregnant.... has anyone not felt as close to the second as they were to their first pregnancy. I find it hard to even put into words, I just seem to not have a connection to his baby yet :/ makes me feel terrible. please tell me I am not the only one, it almost seems as though I feel guilty about a new baby because in her eyes I might be replacing her so then I don't even try with this one. all my attention goes to my daughter now.