So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s…

there’s no excuse to leaving a child alone in a car 🤦🏻‍♀️ people try to justify everything

@makeupmomplustwo_, i deleted comments that had ride replies

exactly!!!!!!

omg stopppp I had this argument with some women last summer and the same thing happened. “Oh we need to be understanding of people’s circumstances”, ummm nooo. Sorry. If leaving your kids alone in the car is a possibility, you shouldn’t have kids. That’s often a life or death situation so there’s no room for error there.

I’m just really curious. You said you felt attacked and people called you out your name which never happened in my comment all I said was.. What’s done for one is done for all in my opinion, every baby should be celebrated. What’s rude about that cause I’m honestly curious lmao

lol right!

hell no! I cannot believe how many people used excuses as to why people forgot their kids in cars. I was shocked 😳!!!!

oh man, yeah I didn’t see it. Just curious, were you pro or against leaving your kids alone in the car? 😅

I agree. That’s definitely over the top and shouldn’t have been said. Also, even high school wasn’t this bad in my experience.

I understand but calling me jealous and a bitch was totally out of line

this was a while back but about leaving your kids in the car alone

see these are all opinions though that if you share, people are going to put their two cents in about it. Personally, I don’t give a shit. About literally any of it. But I’m just saying for future reference, it’s not your fault but expect to get these comments when you say things like that. Everyone has different opinions on all of those subjects

yeah. It’s like high school on here sometimes lol. But I just delete the rude comments and move on. One girl said “you should just block me” like no I’m not gonna block you. You should be mature enough not to be a brat

I also think if ur gonna be having more than one kid you should be able to afford everything you need for that child

Yeah this is a common issue on mom.life. The same group of women always assume they understand the entirety of a situation based off of the one paragraph OP shared regarding said situation.

Makes no sense but it’s definitely what fuels a lot of drama on the app.

some of these women on here don’t know how to act

they all attacked me for having an opinion about a girl I’ve know for 10+ years taking advantage of her family and friends by having a baby shower with each pregnancy when two of her kids were girls

goddamn what was it about? I missed the whole damn thing

that’s crazy I must have missed that.. I still wouldn’t delete comments though. It makes it confusing to follow along.. if I were you I’d just delete the whole post. It got out of hand.

I know that lol. But they did end up deleting my comments on one of my posts because it got a little to heated & disabled my comments 😩

lol no still MIA but that’s fine by me. I like mom.life better loosely moderated. Freedom of speech and all

lol no you can delete people’s comments from your posts

because they keep calling me a bitch and telling me to mind my business which I get but they can say stuff without being rude

I thought mom.life was deleting them lol 🙃

why are you deleting them?

now they are mad I’m deleting their rude comments lol

it’s not but ya know these pick me females like to tear others down 😂

all over a venting post 😂 like it’s not even that serious.

They are pretty amusing

Celebrated yes but asking for mass amounts of gifts and having a registry is a little much

probably so I never did registry I don't follow them when I buy shower gifts either

See that’s totally different! This girl has a long ass list of things she wants

Exactly!! Which is what I’m trying to say but everyone wants to take everything out of context. If she wants to ask for things then make a registry but she’s literally throwing a baby shower and paying for a venue and buying food and drinks like why not spend that on ur child instead of throwing yourself a baby shower? She has a registry and is throwing a baby shower asking for diapers and stuff. Like all that money ur spending on the baby shower could be used for the things you are asking for. She asks for baby formula to even after she has her kids.

I get what you mean girl. Anytime someone doesn’t agree with something everyone always thinks they’re hating lol.

@alicianoelle, and now they are salty I deleted their comments lol

Honestly.

exactly!!!!!!

@makeupmomplustwo_, i deleted comments that had ride replies

there’s no excuse to leaving a child alone in a car 🤦🏻‍♀️ people try to justify everything

Gifts are a totally different thing lol but having a full blown baby shower especially when no one came to ur second is kinda weird in my opinion

@courtney017, her oldest daughter is 2 and her youngest daughter is 1

That's so crazy!! I'm not even doing a shower. This is my first and she's the first grandbaby ever for my parents. We are doing a registry because we do have a lot of family from out of state but we still don't even expect anything for our first. Other than clothes and her infant carseat/stroller all our big baby items are gender neutral. That way I can save the pack n play, bouncer, rock n play, swing, etc. I didn't want to have to worry about those things twice. Anything I can store and keep we are.

now I’m being called jealous and getting rude ass replies from some of these moms 🙄

All her kids are like 10-12 months apart

They are only like 10 months apart

@courtney017 :( it doesnt make sense

it really doesn’t. Like use that money for the things you need

I did that actually I got a stroller and bed and mattress

It’s a boy this time but she’s already gone and gotten stuff for him and her family has already gifted her a bunch of stuff