I can feel so freaking useless anymore. My daughter is 4 days old, and I can't care for her. my pain level is so high i can barely walk I can barely make it to the bathroom. I can't hold her because of my breast. I can't carry her because of my leg swelling. I feel like I cant touch her. and shit hit me hard whe. I couldn't even carry her in her first appointment. My mom is quitting her job to help me, and I just feel like horrible. The father isn't around and it just sucks. I don't feel like a mother. I cant call the shots. Im just an aunt it feels like. My mom call the shots because well she is taking care of her. I have no idea what to do anymore. 😞
@motherof2taurusboys, I don't want her to because you know thats a hit for everyone and its going to be a little until I can work. but I start working Im going to try to help as mucb as I can.
Omg I don't think ur mom should quit.. Maybe hire or ask family for help.. But a mini fridge and bottle warmer put it by ur bed
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.

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Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Right no one wants that.. Is there anyway to set your life up in one room so it's simple to get around.. Because last thing u need is pain and financial strain